autisticmanchild
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I need help socializing in a basic way.
I know normies can detect autism from face alone so I wear a mask everywhere, (plus there are germs and viruses around).
So the next problem boils down to what to say and how to say it.
I just don't know how to act or what to say.
The closest I've come, I think, is just try to not care and act as normally as possible.
But even that requires quantification.
Here's some general tips
1. Never try to be funny. That attracts attention from others.
2. Speak in a few words. "Yes, no, that's right".
3. Speak in the smallest possible emotion.
5. Ignore others when you can. You'll seem cool doing.
Now the real problem is when you actually want to be accepted by others.
I have not gotten close to figuring this out.
1. Try making small comments that could bring mirth or solidarity Only for a small second. That will make them come back for more later .
Make sure you gauge the level of mirth or solidarity brought to ensure it's doing its job.
All of these rules change depending on the situation. Each situation requires a new baseline.
Idk what do you guys think.
I know normies can detect autism from face alone so I wear a mask everywhere, (plus there are germs and viruses around).
So the next problem boils down to what to say and how to say it.
I just don't know how to act or what to say.
The closest I've come, I think, is just try to not care and act as normally as possible.
But even that requires quantification.
Here's some general tips
1. Never try to be funny. That attracts attention from others.
2. Speak in a few words. "Yes, no, that's right".
3. Speak in the smallest possible emotion.
5. Ignore others when you can. You'll seem cool doing.
Now the real problem is when you actually want to be accepted by others.
I have not gotten close to figuring this out.
1. Try making small comments that could bring mirth or solidarity Only for a small second. That will make them come back for more later .
Make sure you gauge the level of mirth or solidarity brought to ensure it's doing its job.
All of these rules change depending on the situation. Each situation requires a new baseline.
Idk what do you guys think.
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