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Moustachcel

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So today in school a couple of times I thought that people talked with me until I realized they talked to the person next to me. It feels so humilating when you think somebody wants to talk to you until you realize they didnt. And you just want to rope.
Because of that I didnt Talk to anyone today. It was definitly sui fuel the only good thing is that I'm now home alone. Seriously I fucking hate every second with normies. Especially when there are also roasties that make fun of you.
 
Doesn’t sound like aspergers
what does it sound like then? I seriously cant start talking with people also asking questions is very difficult for me
 
Social anxiety tbh
Maybe even selective mutism
If you have obsessive intereste and meltdowns its autism
I read the definition of selective mutism and it fit me very well Social anxiety might be also true for me but Selective mutism seems to be what fits me best.
 
the best indicator of aspergers is if you only want to talk about one topic all the time, and can't tolerate anyone changing the conversation to another topic. Various other symptoms include: Obsessive personality, fear of looking people in the eyes, a strong general distrust of strangers, monotone voice, inability to understand sarcasm etc. etc.
 
Welcome to the club
 
Often when i think ppl talk to me, they talk to someone next to me.
And when i think ppl talk to someone next to me, they meant to talk to me.
Its over :feelsrope:
 
once in high school this kid i sort of knew put out his hand for a high five so i high fived it, but i didn't realize he was actually trying to high five someone right behind me
 
I think you should see a doctor and get diagnosed first tbh
 
i hate it when i respond and then realise that they werent talking to me
 
The wave back to the people that weren't waving at you pill destroyed me.
 
It happened to me once 8 years ago and it hasn't happened since. I always make sure that people are speaking to me before I show any sign of a reply, it makes me seem unresponsive and weird but I can't take the risk.

You probably have social anxiety like me, I suppose you felt great fear and shame when you realized that it wasn't you who were being spoken to.
 
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what does it sound like then? I seriously cant start talking with people also asking questions is very difficult for me
It sounds like normal human embarrassment. Waveing back at someone who wasn’t waving at you is considered socially painful by normies.

Perhaps you don’t have some disorder, but rather just had a normal reaction to a mistake.
 
I read the definition of selective mutism and it fit me very well Social anxiety might be also true for me but Selective mutism seems to be what fits me best.
So what is your plan of action to deal with it?
Therapy? Special exercises? More research?
 
didn’t read
 
Welcome to the club.
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I think you should see a doctor and get diagnosed first tbh
Too scared of being bullid for being a aspie tbh
once in high school this kid i sort of knew put out his hand for a high five so i high fived it, but i didn't realize he was actually trying to high five someone right behind me
damn thats some rope fuel
the best indicator of aspergers is if you only want to talk about one topic all the time, and can't tolerate anyone changing the conversation to another topic. Various other symptoms include: Obsessive personality, fear of looking people in the eyes, a strong general distrust of strangers, monotone voice, inability to understand sarcasm etc. etc.
damn all of them fit me expect for the sarcasm part tbh I'm really sarcastic
 
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I'm low inhib, used to be high inhib. extroverted Autism you normies is just apparently just "making excuses for being an asshole" I guess the Chads I went to HS with got a free pass on that
 
Let's not use hastily self diagnosed Aspergers as the go to convenient way of sidestepping the exploration of other potential social problems. Becoming pretty trendy to do so.
 
I'm low inhib, used to be high inhib. extroverted Autism you normies is just apparently just "making excuses for being an asshole" I guess the Chads I went to HS with got a free pass on that
how did you go from high inhib to low inhib bro?
 
came out of my shell so to speak. in my 20s. of course most people didn't like what I had to say so I ended up losing a lot of friends.
I'm 36 now
 

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