Story I may have been the only classmate not invited to our class reunion

[King GrAY]

For those who don't know me, let me introduce myself as the biggest loser of my high school. My girl classmates hated me because I was a weird and disgusting freak. And I never fit in with the boys. I was bullied everyday, no exaggeration.

A couple of years ago, I saw on Facebook pictures of our section's 10-year high school reunion. They ate out. The only problem was, no one ever invited me. When I saw those pictures, I felt hurt. Something peculiar though, none of my friends from my friend group was there too. I wondered were they not invited too or were they? I thought to myself that if they weren't also, I wouldn't feel as bad. Because maybe the cool kids just wanted a small celebration. But if they were, that would be terrible. It would show just how much they hated me.

I didn't want the pain to be useless. There is a saying "Success is the best revenge.". I said to myself that I will be greater than everyone of them. In fact, I will be greater than all of them combined!

I've had a rough time in my life but I am working on it.

During our time in high school, I belonged to the friend group of social outsiders. I like to call us the 4 misfits. But there was something special about me. Out of us 4, I was by far the most hated, the biggest loser from our class. So I didn't know: maybe they were invited because they weren't as big of losers as I was, or maybe they weren't if the reunion was meant to be a small one.

I wanted to ask those friends of mine, but they stopped messaging with me on Messenger. I don't know. Maybe they're just busy adulting. But last evening, I tried again. I messaged my best friend asking him if he was invited to our class reunion. And past midnight, he replied to me, for the first time after a few years. He told me he was busy with work so he hadn't caught up with me anymore. You know what he said? "Which one?". His words implied that they had regular meet ups. And I was never invited to any of these. And he answered my question: He was invited; and that he just didn't go because he was busy with work. This suggests that I was the only one not invited. Okay, there were two more friends whom I haven't asked, because they haven't been replying to me anymore. So how would I know? Maybe they weren't invited either. But because I already knew that this one friend of mine was invited, I think most likely, the rest were too.

I thought I wasn't going to be upset. But seconds later, I was shivering. I went downstairs to eat. I overate. I must have been eating the sadness away. It seemed I was more upset than I realized.

Let me share two more stories.

My classmates organized a birthday celebration for our class adviser. And my classmates told me that I wasn't allowed to join. I actually had a good reputation with the teachers because I wasn't a troublemaker like many others; they saw me as a good boy. I was also seen as very intelligent, which I think the teachers appreciated. And our class adviser was no exception. She liked me. So when she found out that I was being excluded from the event, she demanded that i join. Thanks to her, I got to be a part of the birthday celebration.

We had our class pictures taken one day. I was in a bad mood that day. So in the middle of our photoshoot, I left. Back then I was pretty dumb so I didn't know how to get copies. But eventually, one of my former classmates uploaded our class photo to Facebook. And you know what picture was chosen? The one that didn't have me in it. Was it intentional? I don't know! But I think it was.

What I want to say is this. If they could do these to me when I was their classmate, exclude me, it wouldn't be hard to imagine they'd do this to me after, by not inviting me to our class reunion.

My custom title in these forums is "outcastcel" because I think it is the best description on why I ended up an incel. The word definitely encapsulates me. I wonder how I would rank up compared to other users here when it comes to the word "outcast".

If you read all of these, I want to thank you.

Edited.

 

[Only_Perspective]

I believe that's kind of standard here, to be an outcast. At least you had some friends in HS. Also using facebook is a fakecel trait.

 

[ViciousKanga]

same thing gonna happen to me

 

[King GrAY]

I believe that's kind of standard here, to be an outcast.

Hhmm maybe so.

Also using facebook is a fakecel trait.

Oohh I didn't think to mention it. Having a Facebook account is standard here in the Philippines. The US uses more varied apps so many people there wouldn't get it. But it's like China - WeChat, Japan - Line, South Korea - Kakao Talk, and the Philippines - Messenger. I don't mean we invented Messenger, I just mean it's our most used messaging app.

 

[Thugs-4-Less]

NEVER socialize as an incel

 

[King GrAY]

NEVER socialize as an incel

I'm pretty sure if I was invited, I wasn't gonna go anyway. But still, they should have invited me. Excluding me was mean.

At least you had some friends in HS.

Yeah. But that was no sign that I was socially well-adjusted. In this city, my second city, every student belonged to a squad. Even freaks belonged somewhere, such as myself. And remember, we were the friend group of social outsiders. So that sounds like it was not bragging rights. In my hometown it was different. I had difficulty finding a seat to eat lunch with because I didn't have friends who wanted to eat with me. So for our 1-hour lunch break, I usually ate in the last 30 minutes. That way, a lot of the students were already done eating so I could easily find myself a seat to eat alone. In my hometown, not everyone belonged to a squad, so I experienced being alone. But in my second city, the social structure was that every student belonged to a squad, so I didn't have to be alone anymore. So it was specific to which city thing.

 

[Only_Perspective]

I'm pretty sure if I was invited, I wasn't gonna go anyway. But still, they should have invited me. Excluding me was mean.


Yeah. But that was no sign that I was socially well-adjusted. In this city, my second city, every student belonged to a squad. Even freaks belonged somewhere, such as myself. And remember, we were the friend group of social outsiders. So that sounds like it was not bragging rights. In my hometown it was different. I had difficulty finding a seat to eat lunch with because I didn't have friends who wanted to eat with me. So for our 1-hour lunch break, I usually ate in the last 30 minutes. That way, a lot of the students were already done eating so I could easily find myself a seat to eat alone. In my hometown, not everyone belonged to a squad, so I experienced being alone. But in my second city, the social structure was that every student belonged to a squad, so I didn't have to be alone anymore. So it was specific to which city thing.

ok got it. I've also heard some people end up having more social circles once they switch cities.

 

[anotherwastedlife]

same thing gonna happen to me

 

[over_department]

Also using facebook is a fakecel trait.

OP definitely has over 100+ hot milfs following him

 

[Only_Perspective]

OP definitely has over 100+ hot milfs following him

even here we live in a moggy moggy world

 

[iicc66]

For those who don't know me, let me introduce myself as the biggest loser of my high school. My girl classmates hated me because I was a weird and disgusting freak. And I never fit in with the boys. I was bullied everyday, no exaggeration.

A couple of years ago, I saw on Facebook pictures of our section's 10-year high school reunion. They ate out. The only problem was, no one ever invited me. When I saw those pictures, I felt hurt. Something peculiar though, none of my friends from my friend group was there too. I wondered were they not invited too or were they? I thought to myself that if they weren't also, I wouldn't feel as bad. Because maybe the cool kids just wanted a small celebration. But if they were, that would be terrible. It would show just how much they hated me.

I didn't want the pain to be useless. There is a saying "Success is the best revenge.". I said to myself that I will be greater than everyone of them. In fact, I will be greater than all of them combined!

I've had a rough time in my life but I am working on it.

During our time in high school, I belonged to the friend group of social outsiders. I like to call us the 4 misfits. But there was something special about me. Out of us 4, I was by far the most hated, the biggest loser from our class. So I didn't know: maybe they were invited because they weren't as big of losers as I was, or maybe they weren't if the reunion was meant to be a small one.

I wanted to ask those friends of mine, but they stopped messaging with me on Messenger. I don't know. Maybe they're just busy adulting. But last evening, I tried again. I messaged my best friend asking him if he was invited to our class reunion. And past midnight, he replied to me, for the first time after a few years. He told me he was busy with work so he hadn't caught up with me anymore. You know what he said? "Which one?". His words implied that they had regular meet ups. And I was never invited to any of these. And he answered my question: He was invited; and that he just didn't go because he was busy with work. This suggests that I was the only one not invited. Okay, there were two more friends whom I haven't asked, because they haven't been replying to me anymore. So how would I know? Maybe they weren't invited either. But because I already knew that this one friend of mine was invited, I think most likely, the rest were too.

I thought I wasn't going to be upset. But seconds later, I was shivering. I went downstairs to eat. I overate. I must have been eating the sadness away. It seemed I was more upset than I realized.

Let me share two more stories.

My classmates organized a birthday celebration for our class adviser. And my classmates told me that I wasn't allowed to join. I actually had a good reputation with the teachers because I wasn't a troublemaker like many others; they saw me as a good boy. I was also seen as very intelligent, which I think the teachers appreciated. And our class adviser was no exception. She liked me. So when she found out that I was being excluded from the event, she demanded that i join. Thanks to her, I got to be a part of the birthday celebration.

We had our class pictures taken one day. I was in a bad mood that day. So in the middle of our photoshoot, I left. Back then I was pretty dumb so I didn't know how to get copies. But eventually, one of my former classmates uploaded our class photo to Facebook. And you know what picture was chosen? The one that didn't have me in it. Was it intentional? I don't know! But I think it was.

What I want to say is this. If they could do these to me when I was their classmate, exclude me, it wouldn't be hard to imagine they'd do this to me after, by not inviting me to our class reunion.

My custom title in these forums is "outcastcel" because I think it is the best description on why I ended up an incel. The word definitely encapsulates me. I wonder how I would rank up compared to other users here when it comes to the word "outcast".

If you read all of these, I want to thank you.

Edited.

Are these fake stories cuz theres no way all of this shit is true, just doesn't feel possible

 

[King GrAY]

Are these fake stories cuz theres no way all of this shit is true, just doesn't feel possible

Ha, they're all true. I am taking it as a positive sign that someone finding my stories hard to believe means I lived an incredible life. In fact, I am working on my autobiography where I am putting many of my bad experiences to good use by writing a book about it which I hope people will find interesting. I include many of the extreme bullying experiences I had from school.

But I can explain how all of these were made possible. In the fewest words: status popularity and herd mentality. The queen bee started bullying me in school. And because my classmates saw her mistreating me, they followed suit and bullied me too. My status popularity tanked. And because of this, it became the norm for students to treat me poorly.

Which parts exactly in my stories did you find hard to believe?

 

[ItsOverMan]

I had difficulty finding a seat to eat lunch with because I didn't have friends who wanted to eat with me.

Eating lunch in school is brutal. I preferred to avoid the cafeteria full of kids and just hide in the library during lunchtime.

 

[DarthBurritoBastard]

Eating lunch in school is brutal. I preferred to avoid the cafeteria full of kids and just hide in the library during lunchtime.

I would eat alone at lunch on a table, the quarantine was probably the best of my school life

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

When I saw those pictures, I felt hurt

Why? I will never understand why some people want to belong to the same society that spit on them on a regular basis

 

[justuseless]

Why would you want to be invited. I was invited once and i said no.

 

[King GrAY]

Eating lunch in school is brutal. I preferred to avoid the cafeteria full of kids and just hide in the library during lunchtime.

Did you eat at all?

I would eat alone at lunch on a table, the quarantine was probably the best of my school life

That's interesting.

Why? I will never understand why some people want to belong to the same society that spit on them on a regular basis

Hhmm. Good question. I thought about it now. I think it's because before, I didn't believe that they hated me that much. When I was being bullied by them in high school, I thought it was just due to very poor social status. That they were just doing it because others were doing it too, that it was the norm. But I thought they wouldn't take it personally and actually exclude me when it would matter. When I saw those pictures, that was when I realized it. They collectively agreed not to include me. It showed me that they really hated me.

When we were in our final year of high school, my classmates made t-shirts with all of our names printed on it. Our names collectively formed a square shape on the t-shirt. So the font sizes were different. And my name was the smallest. They fit me in some small crack. I was actually upset. If they were going to fit me in like that, they might as well not put me in it. They gave me one of them. I hated it so much that I thought I wanted to turn it into a rug. I don't have it anymore, I don't know what happened, maybe it was given away to a relative. I assumed they originally designed the shirt with me not in mind but some students voiced out that I had to be in it... because I was still their classmate. And because I was added last, they had to fit me in some small crack. But still, some students voiced out to include me and in the end, it happened. So in my mind, when it matters, there would still enough people who cared about me. But for our 10-year class reunion however, it didn't happen anymore. In the end, the decision was to not invite me. So that was why I felt hurt. Because to me, this was a new level of hate.

Why would you want to be invited. I was invited once and i said no.

Because it was mean of them not to invite me. Explanation above. ^^

 

[ext4]

Fucking brutal. I lost contact with my highschool friends i don't worry about it at all.