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Deleted member 23450
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I hate my life so much.
life sucks....
life sucks....
How?
How?
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Elab
Brutal
This is EXACTLY what my mum's like and how my 18th birthday will be. It will be so fucking painful and awkward.She bought me a cake and wanted to sing happy birthday and share that on her social medias and take some pictures of me.
I hate taking pictures and all this happy birthday tradition, is just me who hates that?
I wouldn't mind if she did that without recording me and taking pictures of me...
My mom is very known here where I live and I avoid at all costs to appear on her social medias...
her entire life is on her Facebook and I'm very paranoic with social medias.
she became very upset because I didn't want to go to the dinning room sing happy birthday and she started to argue with me because she bought the cake "for nothing" and for at least 10 minutes she was complaining and telling me that I don't get out of my room and I should go to a psychiatrist because I was strange and I wasn't normal like other people... after that she didn't want to talk with me anymore and I could see that her eyes was full of tears... I didn't know how important it was to her.
I think she was expecting that I would sing happy birthday, blow out the candles and make a wish like a 12 years old boy.
My mom literally treats me like a kid and punish me like a grown man...
No. My birthday was 9 days ago and I wanted to ldar but I had to try to act happy and smile for the pictures at the restaurant.I hate taking pictures and all this happy birthday tradition, is just me who hates that?
just be normal br0, JFL nts will never understandtelling me that I don't get out of my room and I should go to a psychiatrist because I was strange and I wasn't normal like other people...
She sounds like a bitch. It's your birthday - your day to spend the way you want. If you don't want to be plastered all over social media, you're perfectly within your rights to say that, and if she has an issue with that she needs to get a fucking grip and remember it's not all about her.She bought me a cake and wanted to sing happy birthday and share that on her social medias and take some pictures of me.
I hate taking pictures and all this happy birthday tradition, is just me who hates that?
I wouldn't mind if she did that without recording me and taking pictures of me...
My mom is very known here where I live and I avoid at all costs to appear on her social medias...
her entire life is on her Facebook and I'm very paranoic with social medias.
she became very upset because I didn't want to go to the dinning room sing happy birthday and she started to argue with me because she bought the cake "for nothing" and for at least 10 minutes she was complaining and telling me that I don't get out of my room and I should go to a psychiatrist because I was strange and I wasn't normal like other people... after that she didn't want to talk with me anymore and I could see that her eyes was full of tears... I didn't know how important it was to her.
I think she was expecting that I would sing happy birthday, blow out the candles and make a wish like a 12 years old boy.
My mom literally treats me like a kid and punish me like a grown man...
Brutal tbh , she doesn't understand. I would have played along with the birthday thingShe bought me a cake and wanted to sing happy birthday and share that on her social medias and take some pictures of me.
I hate taking pictures and all this happy birthday tradition, is just me who hates that?
I wouldn't mind if she did that without recording me and taking pictures of me...
My mom is very known here where I live and I avoid at all costs to appear on her social medias...
her entire life is on her Facebook and I'm very paranoic with social medias.
she became very upset because I didn't want to go to the dinning room sing happy birthday and she started to argue with me because she bought the cake "for nothing" and for at least 10 minutes she was complaining and telling me that I don't get out of my room and I should go to a psychiatrist because I was strange and I wasn't normal like other people... after that she didn't want to talk with me anymore and I could see that her eyes was full of tears... I didn't know how important it was to her.
I think she was expecting that I would sing happy birthday, blow out the candles and make a wish like a 12 years old boy.
My mom literally treats me like a kid and punish me like a grown man...
How old are you op?I think she was expecting that I would sing happy birthday, blow out the candles and make a wish like a 12 years old boy.
My mom literally treats me like a kid and punish me like a grown man...
She bought me a cake and wanted to sing happy birthday and share that on her social medias and take some pictures of me.
I hate taking pictures and all this happy birthday tradition, is just me who hates that?
I wouldn't mind if she did that without recording me and taking pictures of me...
My mom is very known here where I live and I avoid at all costs to appear on her social medias...
her entire life is on her Facebook and I'm very paranoic with social medias.
she became very upset because I didn't want to go to the dinning room sing happy birthday and she started to argue with me because she bought the cake "for nothing" and for at least 10 minutes she was complaining and telling me that I don't get out of my room and I should go to a psychiatrist because I was strange and I wasn't normal like other people... after that she didn't want to talk with me anymore and I could see that her eyes was full of tears... I didn't know how important it was to her.
I think she was expecting that I would sing happy birthday, blow out the candles and make a wish like a 12 years old boy.
My mom literally treats me like a kid and punish me like a grown man...
Oh dear, I genuinely hope everything works out with you two. Family shit is the worst.
That's what I was thinking about...She sounds like a bitch. It's your birthday - your day to spend the way you want. If you don't want to be plastered all over social media, you're perfectly within your rights to say that, and if she has an issue with that she needs to get a fucking grip and remember it's not all about her.
It's not just my mom... My grandmother started with this idea that I should go to a psychologist.Brutal tbh , she doesn't understand. I would have played along with the birthday thing
You should explain her why you're unhappy and a psychologist won't help
20How old are you op?
Only if she ask you. You just told her the hard truth , That you’re depressed and extremely insecure with your appearance and the stuff you cannot change, That you have zero success with women because of that.
It's not just my mom... My grandmother started with this idea that I should go to a psychologist.
how am I gonna explain my mother that I'm unhappy? tbh I don't even feel comfortable talking about this kind of stuff to her.
She works all day and I barely talk to her so she doesn't know anything about me because she doesn't even care.
20
Only if she ask you. You just told her the hard truth , That you’re depressed and extremely insecure with your appearance and the stuff you cannot change, That you have zero success with women because of that
I met your mum at a charity do once. He was surprisingly down to earth, and VERY funny.
Shit like that is for good looking extroverted people lmaoShe bought me a cake and wanted to sing happy birthday and share that on her social medias and take some pictures of me.
I hate taking pictures and all this happy birthday tradition, is just me who hates that?
I wouldn't mind if she did that without recording me and taking pictures of me...
My mom is very known here where I live and I avoid at all costs to appear on her social medias...
her entire life is on her Facebook and I'm very paranoic with social medias.
she became very upset because I didn't want to go to the dinning room sing happy birthday and she started to argue with me because she bought the cake "for nothing" and for at least 10 minutes she was complaining and telling me that I don't get out of my room and I should go to a psychiatrist because I was strange and I wasn't normal like other people... after that she didn't want to talk with me anymore and I could see that her eyes was full of tears... I didn't know how important it was to her.
I think she was expecting that I would sing happy birthday, blow out the candles and make a wish like a 12 years old boy.
My mom literally treats me like a kid and punish me like a grown man...
She's trying to exploit his birthday for social media clout under the guise of showering him with love. The fact that she threw a tantrum when she didn't get her way shows that she never cared about making him happy to begin with. Women have to ruin everything, the only thing they know how to do is be a parasite.She sounds like a bitch. It's your birthday - your day to spend the way you want. If you don't want to be plastered all over social media, you're perfectly within your rights to say that, and if she has an issue with that she needs to get a fucking grip and remember it's not all about her.
I would have reacted the same way, fuck it.