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years ago. is there anything I could do to regain that? No.
I'm giving the younger folks here an advice based on my experience and mistakes, keep fighting for your respect and dignity even if you don't deserve it. even if you hate yourself.
I know it is pointless to respect yourself if you were like me. born with shit genes shit looks and inherited shit mentality and lowiq. I'm not (by any chance) telling you to start loving yourself or this alpha redpilled bullshit. what I mean is, having people disrespecting you can make this even harder. if you can't get people to respect you, at least set boundaries to prevent their disrespect from taking a toll on you.
when I say that I don't mean physical strength. what you really need is mental strength. you need to be very quick. very very quick and snappy. and I know this is so hard for a mentally disabled autists like some of you and me, but you have to plan, rehearse and train for that all the time. I'm not being satirical. your behavior should be spontaneous and quick, but you should have planned for the "general shape" of your behavior.
and that goes for evey environment you're in, especially work environment. trust me the gym won't help you here, nor fitness will. I've been a gymcel and I've been humiliated, I've seen another gymcel being terribly humiliated at work. on the contrary, i've seen some truecels and fatcels (including morbidly obese 50 year old dudes) being devious, cautious and well respected, only thanks to the way they know people and deal with them.
mentality comes right after genes, then gymcelling will be complementary to these two to enable you to exploit people physically. the reason for that is people don't deal with you physically right of the bat, if people want to fuck with you, they will judge you based on your genes first, then skim your mentality and read you, lastly physical phase begins. this goes in order of priority. this is why you need to plan for your behavior.
I've been working like a dog for 5 years in the field. i've been exploited and been asked to do overtime and tasked with things that aren't part of my job till the point that when I don't do these things my current manager cuts part of my paycheck because he expects me to do it. i've been mocked and bullied and all sorts of things just for looking ugly, or stuttering, or showing signs of autism. I tried to please everybody even my own family, expecting a little bit of chance that maybe, maybe if I do this next thing for this person he would respect me. I got nothing in return. I reached the point of expecting nothing in return anymore.
people are not just disgraceful, no. I understand it's all business, mental business and I do own up to my mistakes.
so young folks: set boundaries for everything. don't let normies exploit your weaknesses (genetics, looks and autism) and fortify yourselves.
never undermine verbal disrespect, the toll it takes on you would be greater in the future and it would only lead to the worst. always treat the first signs of it seriously, especially if you're both ugly and autistic
because chances are these things are not coincidental at all, it's all deliberate.
I'm giving the younger folks here an advice based on my experience and mistakes, keep fighting for your respect and dignity even if you don't deserve it. even if you hate yourself.
I know it is pointless to respect yourself if you were like me. born with shit genes shit looks and inherited shit mentality and lowiq. I'm not (by any chance) telling you to start loving yourself or this alpha redpilled bullshit. what I mean is, having people disrespecting you can make this even harder. if you can't get people to respect you, at least set boundaries to prevent their disrespect from taking a toll on you.
when I say that I don't mean physical strength. what you really need is mental strength. you need to be very quick. very very quick and snappy. and I know this is so hard for a mentally disabled autists like some of you and me, but you have to plan, rehearse and train for that all the time. I'm not being satirical. your behavior should be spontaneous and quick, but you should have planned for the "general shape" of your behavior.
and that goes for evey environment you're in, especially work environment. trust me the gym won't help you here, nor fitness will. I've been a gymcel and I've been humiliated, I've seen another gymcel being terribly humiliated at work. on the contrary, i've seen some truecels and fatcels (including morbidly obese 50 year old dudes) being devious, cautious and well respected, only thanks to the way they know people and deal with them.
mentality comes right after genes, then gymcelling will be complementary to these two to enable you to exploit people physically. the reason for that is people don't deal with you physically right of the bat, if people want to fuck with you, they will judge you based on your genes first, then skim your mentality and read you, lastly physical phase begins. this goes in order of priority. this is why you need to plan for your behavior.
I've been working like a dog for 5 years in the field. i've been exploited and been asked to do overtime and tasked with things that aren't part of my job till the point that when I don't do these things my current manager cuts part of my paycheck because he expects me to do it. i've been mocked and bullied and all sorts of things just for looking ugly, or stuttering, or showing signs of autism. I tried to please everybody even my own family, expecting a little bit of chance that maybe, maybe if I do this next thing for this person he would respect me. I got nothing in return. I reached the point of expecting nothing in return anymore.
people are not just disgraceful, no. I understand it's all business, mental business and I do own up to my mistakes.
so young folks: set boundaries for everything. don't let normies exploit your weaknesses (genetics, looks and autism) and fortify yourselves.
never undermine verbal disrespect, the toll it takes on you would be greater in the future and it would only lead to the worst. always treat the first signs of it seriously, especially if you're both ugly and autistic
because chances are these things are not coincidental at all, it's all deliberate.
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