I know that going to the gym won't help, it won't make foids suddenly want me, but even knowing that, I'm so desperate, the thought keeps popping up

[Deleted member 7448]

There's no gym for my face, or my narrow shoulders, or my tiny wrists. There's no gym for my autism and avoidant personality either.

So going to the gym would do exactly 0 to help me with women.

And yet, even knowing that, the thought keeps popping up in my head almost every day, especially when I see a young woman. It's like my brain is so fucking desperate for some pussy and for a female to actually want me, that it pushes these dumb ideas onto me, hoping that somehow I'd stop being the total loser and failure that I am.

 

[Terranigma]

or my narrow shoulders

Gymmaxxing can improve your frame. If narrow shoulders is one of your main issues it might help (looksmaxxing is legit to some degree).

If this keeps nagging at you just try it. You can always stop if it feels like a waste of time and you're not seeing results.

 

[Hate_my_life]

Don't worry. When the skinny-chad walks in with his girlfriend whilst you're doing SS 5x5 on squats, you'll come back to reality (happens daily to me).

 

[Valiant Virgin]

If you want to gymmax, go for it. But don't do it in the hope it will make you more sexually appealing to girls - that would be delusional thinking. Do it for yourself. If it helps you feel better about yourself, that's a good thing.

 

[Invalidusername]

If you want to gymmax, go for it. But don't do it in the hope it will make you more sexually appealing to girls - that would be delusional thinking. Do it for yourself. If it helps you feel better about yourself, that's a good thing.

 

[Joelossus]

I'm to high inhib to go to a gym tbh. I will just keep exercising at home, whenever i feel the urge to work out.

 

[ionlycopenow]

I only gymcel so 1) I dont get brutally mogged by ogres 2) to fuel fantasy of becoming a pro boxer or something.

 

[Terranigma]

I'm to high inhib to go to a gym tbh. I will just keep exercising at home, whenever i feel the urge to work out.

This kind of anxiety about very mundane public places isn't normal. Psycho-pharmacy (or recreational drugs) might help you, it might not be over for you if you're just this much of a mentalcel.

 

[Deleted member 21219]

There's no gym for my face, or my narrow shoulders, or my tiny wrists. There's no gym for my autism and avoidant personality either.

So going to the gym would do exactly 0 to help me with women.

And yet, even knowing that, the thought keeps popping up in my head almost every day, especially when I see a young woman. It's like my brain is so fucking desperate for some pussy and for a female to actually want me, that it pushes these dumb ideas onto me, hoping that somehow I'd stop being the total loser and failure that I am.

Thats not true. A good shoulder to waist ratio will definitely help. Also, going to the gym might make you feel more alpha.

 

[iblamemyself]

It's a great hobby. You can give it a try.

 

[GreyWorld]

I'm lucky. I hate the gym so after a few weeks to a month I always give up. I'd rather to just eat healthy and moderately than workout in a gym.

 

[Joelossus]

This kind of anxiety about very mundane public places isn't normal. Psycho-pharmacy (or recreational drugs) might help you, it might not be over for you if you're just this much of a mentalcel.

I'm already taking medication because of it. But it hasn't really helped me so far.

 

[azakhan]

I know what you mean, being short, ugly and small-dicked is so demotivating
no matter how hard you try you can't improve on 3 most important qualities

 

[taurazi]

It's my cope that I'd eventually get big enough and strong enough that they'd be too scared to mock me.
Added bonus of dying early from steroid use.

 

[LastGerman]

I'm already taking medication because of it. But it hasn't really helped me so far.

This is why every man should take testosterone.

 

[Joelossus]

This is why every man should take testosterone.

My testosterone levels are probably very low, at least i wouldn't doubt it.