Venting I keep on remembering instances where my parents implied or even said I can never have a gf. I feel angry

[TheGrayWolf]

Before you say anything, of course they were right.

Once, about 6-7 years ago I told my mom I’d like a gf once and she said with a sad face something like that will never happen, or something like that. Every time I think about it I get a bit angry and sad.

I knew she was right back then, deep down.

I‘D HAVE LOVED TO PROVE MY PARENTS WRONG. Would’ve been so sweet. They’d be happy for me obviously especially my mother but I would still laugh in their faces

 

[Grodd]

Fucking brutal when even your parents know it's beyond over for you

 

[Aleksander]

Brutal

 

[Mecoja]

Same, no one ever mentioned me in context with a girl, including entire extended family. My mom even cried that I wont have anyone. And if I had a gf I would rub it in all of their noses.

 

[oldNgreycel]

brutal parentpill. She'll have nobody to blame but herself when you cut her out of your life.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

no one ever mentioned me in context with a girl, including entire extended family.

Same here.

My mom even cried that I wont have anyone. And if I had a gf I would rub it in all of their noses.

Good.

My parents don’t give af. My mother cares about me but has never cared about me getting a gf, hell for the last 4 years she actively tried to talk me out of it - because she knows I can’t get one and that rejection will only hurt me. She said relationships are overrated, I have no friends and girls think that weird, „you’ll always have fights“, etc etc

But yea i can’t really control my needs and won’t be influenced. Hell I’m actually being a rebel and defying her making her think I can get a gf

Of course I know the odds are virtually zero.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

brutal parentpill. She'll have nobody to blame but herself when you cut her out of your life.

yea it's brutal. I was about 21-22 at the time, I can't remember exactly

 

[femcelbreedingnig]

Then they try to deny the blackpill if you shove it in their faces. JFL

 

[Mecoja]

Same here.


Good.

My parents don’t give af. My mother cares about me but has never cared about me getting a gf, hell for the last 4 years she actively tried to talk me out of it - because she knows I can’t get one and that rejection will only hurt me. She said relationships are overrated, I have no friends and girls think that weird, „you’ll always have fights“, etc etc

But yea i can’t really control my needs and won’t be influenced. Hell I’m actually being a rebel and defying her making her think I can get a gf

Of course I know the odds are virtually zero.

You know, this is something i have thought about. It was similar with my mom. SHe was always trying to keep me by her side. I think that its possible that your mom now getting old, is afraid to not to end up alone in old age, among other things, if you found a girl and moved away.

 

[TooSomething]

Fucking brutal when even your parents know it's beyond over for you

Brutall, but at least honest.

As for my parents, they chose to gaslight the ever living fuck out of me instead.

 

[universallyabhorres]

My parents don't mention it either, they probably secretly know it's over. But if I talk about it they are like you can get a gf
They also encourage me to betabux by getting a good job, like it's a requirement to get a good job to get a wife, absolutely ridiculous. This isn't India 50 years ago, all that matters is looks to women.

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

My parents are delusional. My mother thinks that I have a chance and my father avoids the subject for some reason but probably doesn't believe that I am a kissless virgin.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

My parents are delusional. My mother thinks that I have a chance and my father avoids the subject for some reason but probably doesn't believe that I am a kissless virgin.

Hm. Then there must be something right with you? Are you taller than 5‘8“ and look ok?

 

[Sir Silentium]

Once, about 6-7 years ago I told my mom I’d like a gf once and she said with a sad face something like that will never happen

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

Hm. Then there must be something right with you? Are you taller than 5‘8“ and look ok?

They simply are bluepilled. Being Incel is inconceivable to most people. My mother is starting to accept the truth after all my failures.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

They simply are bluepilled. Being Incel is inconceivable to most people. My mother is starting to accept the truth after all my failures.

Brutal. Can I ask how old you are (about). I’m 28

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

Brutal. Can I ask how old you are (about). I’m 28

22, why? You think I still have a chance? If I don't manage to get a kiss by 25 I'll accept that it's hopeless and quit society, I think. Or maybe I'll try to seduce (legal) teens online in my 30s.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

22, why? You think I still have a chance? If I don't manage to get a kiss by 25 I'll accept that it's hopeless and quit society, I think. Or maybe I'll try to seduce (legal) teens online in my 30s.

I was just wondering, as it was around 19-22 when my mom made clear, "you'll never get a gf."
Maybe you have a chance depending on your looks and height.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

My parents don't mention it either, they probably secretly know it's over. But if I talk about it they are like you can get a gf
They also encourage me to betabux by getting a good job, like it's a requirement to get a good job to get a wife, absolutely ridiculous. This isn't India 50 years ago, all that matters is looks to women.

It all sucks man. My parents also said the same thing about getting a job, and not having a job or even working part time... well that means no gf. But yeah both mother and father very clearly knew it was over for me when I was like 18 or so. And now 10 years later nobody is surprised