ItheIthe
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I remember several months ago I was talking to a girl, and it came up how another girl lost her virginity to a Chad (The same Chad I've been posting about on here, who is currently orbiting one girl and also had sex with a girl on a drunken New Year's hookup that I mentioned last night).
In talking about this, this girl told me (Paraphrase because I don't remember the EXACT quote, of course) "[Retracted] is such a dick for doing that"
Me: "Why? It was consensual"
Her: "Yeah but it takes a girl a long time to get over the boy she loses her virginity to."
Honestly, think about it. People (For the most part), women included, come into the world desiring a monogamous relationship. However, after they go through a breakup, go through extreme emotional pain. Due to this pain, they build emotional walls and become nearly incapable of forming a FULL emotional bond with a new partner.
If you are not her first, you will never be her teenage dream, her one and only, the fulfillment of her desires. In fact, you can't fully fulfill her anyway because she will always carry the emotional baggage of being broken up with in another relationship.
In talking about this, this girl told me (Paraphrase because I don't remember the EXACT quote, of course) "[Retracted] is such a dick for doing that"
Me: "Why? It was consensual"
Her: "Yeah but it takes a girl a long time to get over the boy she loses her virginity to."
Honestly, think about it. People (For the most part), women included, come into the world desiring a monogamous relationship. However, after they go through a breakup, go through extreme emotional pain. Due to this pain, they build emotional walls and become nearly incapable of forming a FULL emotional bond with a new partner.
If you are not her first, you will never be her teenage dream, her one and only, the fulfillment of her desires. In fact, you can't fully fulfill her anyway because she will always carry the emotional baggage of being broken up with in another relationship.