Theory I have too feminine a mindset

[Hoppipolla]

Like... in the dating game, women sit back a lot more. They wait for men to come to them. A guy fancies them and they can pretty much be hiding in a box and the guy will still come along, knock on the box and ask them out!

But us guys... we can't get away with this. I have a fairly feminine personality type I think and so I have this tendency to be passive and sit back, but unless I'm socialising loads, that approach will probably result in never finding anyone ever.

 

[AlgerieCel]

Like... in the dating game, women sit back a lot more. They wait for men to come to them. A guy fancies them and they can pretty much be hiding in a box and the guy will still come along, knock on the box and ask them out!

But us guys... we can't get away with this. I have a fairly feminine personality type I think and so I have this tendency to be passive and sit back, but unless I'm socialising loads, that approach will probably result in never finding anyone ever.

Moggs me for socializing i havent talked to anyone outside my family in 5 years

 

[Regressive]

maybe one day you will pluck up enough courage to be a predator nigger and look people in the eye and approach foids
or maybe not

 

[light]

Moggs me for socializing i havent talked to anyone outside my family in 5 years

 

[light]

maybe one day you will pluck up enough courage to be a predator nigger and look people in the eye and approach foids
or maybe not

 

[Regressive]

 

[Wolnir]

Foids want men to be predatory, only if they're good looking though.

 

[incredible]

i am EXACTLY the same..

i always related so much with this drake lyric :

"I want women to cry and pour out their heart for me
And tell me how much they hate it when they apart from me"

this should be my reality .....i feel so cheated

 

[user]

Foids want men to be predatory, only if they're good looking though.

 

[Hoppipolla]

maybe one day you will pluck up enough courage to be a predator nigger and look people in the eye and approach foids
or maybe not

I actually used to be more forwards. I used to cold approach naturally. But these days... I dunno. It gets tedious approaching every woman who looks halfway-interesting and typically just getting turned down >.<

i am EXACTLY the same..

i always related so much with this drake lyric :

"I want women to cry and pour out their heart for me
And tell me how much they hate it when they apart from me"

this should be my reality .....i feel so cheated

That would be epic tbh.

I guess when I was younger I thought that it would be more like that. A balanced dating game where I actually felt wanted.

 

[Regressive]

I actually used to be more forwards. I used to cold approach naturally. But these days... I dunno. It gets tedious approaching every woman who looks halfway-interesting and typically just getting turned down >.<

then its over

 

[Hoppipolla]

then its over

Yes '-'

lol

There was a girl I was a bit interested in recently but yeah like... I think I have an avoidant personality disorder kind of attitude where I presume I will be rejected by people so I just steer clear to avoid the emotional pain of rejection, you know?

Sounds melodramatic when I put it like that but I think it makes some sense.

 

[Regressive]

Yes '-'

lol

There was a girl I was a bit interested in recently but yeah like... I think I have an avoidant personality disorder kind of attitude where I presume I will be rejected by people so I just steer clear to avoid the emotional pain of rejection, you know?

Sounds melodramatic when I put it like that but I think it makes some sense.

im not a fucking normie to not understand you nigger,,,thats just me
but like today i pushed myself to approach people and talk to them....never done that in 26 years

 

[Grodd]

Moggs me for socializing i havent talked to anyone outside my family in 5 years