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Experiment I have some kind of desperate date with foid at work

ExhaustedCel

ExhaustedCel

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Last week I did some desperate shit and it made me very anxious. I messaged an old colleague (my oneitis, but she has a good body without overweight and cute face) and asked her if she's at work, because she works just across the street. After some hours she messaged me back and said no but she will be there next week and she asked me if I would come by, drink is on her). So now I'm anxious and don't know what to expect, I don't think she has any romantic interest in me, but if youre desperate you do desperate shit, I wouldn't even call this a date but just a friendly gettogether. I'll do an update if I won't be too anxious and would actually go to see her. Although I won't be surprised if she completely forgot about it.

Edit; for the record guys, check out my first post before you think im fakecel and can get easily women. Being NT doesn't compensate for your looks. It just means you can talk to women but not romantically. Women want attention from all men, they come to talk about nonsense hoping to fish some compliment, which I never give them.
 
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Forget her, you will never get her. Sit down with reality and rethink your choices.
 
Nigger is here for 2 days and already ascending. I hope a plane crashes into your flat.
 
Get her drunk, you might have a chance. Who knows maybe COVID has been rough on her and Chad isn't knocking anymore.
 
what kind of forum do you think this is?
 
Get her drunk, you might have a chance. Who knows maybe COVID has been rough on her and Chad isn't knocking anymore.
She said coffee man, I don't think she'll drink with a loser like me.
 
Ask her for a date now and be firm about not wasting time.
 
Ask her for a date now and be firm about not wasting time.
Anxiety won't let me, unless it would be really clear to me that she liked me romantically which I doubt. I'm an idiot, one time she playfully punched me and I thought she liked me. Incel trait: if a woman shows the slightest interest or touch, you already picture yourselves as a couple. :feelsclown:
 
It's just coffee at work, and also within working hours. So I can't even get it outside of working hours, that would be more like a real date.
that wasnt apparent from the OP. Me and most other users thought she would actually buy drinks for you
 
and she asked me if I would come by,
You are most likely yet another mentally ill Aspie who is MTN facially, too afraid to leave your basement.
Women will absolutely NEVER ask a guy to come by, if he is not at least a strong MTN facially.
sorry, cant relate to this post.
No woman has ever asked me to come by, but told me to fuck off/ghosted me and blocked me.
 
You are most likely yet another mentally ill Aspie who is MTN facially, too afraid to leave your basement.
Women will absolutely NEVER ask a guy to come by, if he is not at least a strong MTN facially.
sorry, cant relate to this post.
No woman has ever asked me to come by, but told me to fuck off/ghosted me and blocked me.
I understand you, but this is colleague with whom I worked for years. We respected each other and never argued or fought about anything. It's nothing romantically even though I hope for it. I posted on amiugly 3 times on reddit, they gave me from 3 to 5. Even an incel dm me and said I'm ugly.
 
I understand you, but this is colleague with whom I worked for years. We respected each other and never argued or fought about anything. It's nothing romantically even though I hope for it. I posted on amiugly 3 times on reddit, they gave me from 3 to 5. Even an incel dm me and said I'm ugly.
Yea but if I were to text an old colleague, they would tell me to fck off
 
I'm anxious and don't know what to expect
Sounds to me like you do know what to expect. If you don't mind a social outing without romantic prospects, why not just go with an open mind?
 
Sounds to me like you do know what to expect. If you don't mind a social outing without romantic prospects, why not just go with an open mind?
Thats the way to go, if she didnt forget. Because I'm not going to contact her again, so either she messages me tuesday or she doesn't. Then itz over before it even began :feelsclown:
 
a woman wants to do something with you?

gtfo.
 
He has been here for 2 days and already more successful with women than 99% of dudes here. Retarded as shit
The reason I joined here is because of that, I only have platonic meaningless contact with women. And only at work because obviously my anxiety would not let me self approach women. If she would show romantic interest in me I request a selfban immediately.
 
Why not? Don't wanna come across as (or be) desperate?
Because if she forgets, then it's obvious she doesn't care about her seeing me. She would only message if she really wanted to see me, even if it's platonic.
 
Because if she forgets, then it's obvious she doesn't care about her seeing me. She would only message if she really wanted to see me, even if it's platonic.
fair enough
 
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My advice: don't go unless you know that she's romantically interested
 

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