See that's why I always say we live in two worlds apart. At first I thought I was being crazy for thinking that, like overexaggerating. Turns out it's essentially true, two different realities. It's insane.
No its definitely observable. Deal with enough of it and the patterns become clear. Most advice given to incels is designed to fail. The advice that isn't, is crafted in such a way that we are blamed when their advice fails, instead of them for giving shitty advice that doesnt work. It's always disingenuous. They will tell us to work on ourselves or "make an effort", even though most do, but in the same vein in shame and attack us for doing so.
I was recounting an experience on reddit not long ago about an experience I had at a pub after lockdowns ended. I decided to basically experience a nice beer garden again. Went to the back end out of the way of the actual humans there so not to visually offend. Stayed a while and later on I noticed a woman reading something while I was walking inside to go to the bar (turned out to be the menu). Just asked as I was walking past "whatchu you reading?". Got the death stare as soon as she actually gazed at me and processed my face. I walked off after an awkward second silence and just got myself another drink and went back to my seat. A few minutes later I got asked to leave and told I would no longer be served, basically kicked out for "harassing" her and her friend. I honestly don't expect any less anymore so I just kind of found it ammusing at the time till I got home. I know it wouldnt have happened if I weren't unsightly to look at.
Anyway the person on reddit agreed and said that me asking a non-sexual, non-provocative, non-hostile, generic 3 word question was sexual harassment. So yeah it really is an example of their utterly dumbfounded "logic". Notice how on one hand, we will be told that we need to "go out and talk to people, start conversations", but when we do this we are sexual predators who deserve misfortune and violence shown towards us.
If simply talking to people is sexual harassment nowadays then jfl, I'll just have everyone who speaks me to me in an unsavoury way charged yes? (no because that logic is retarded ofc)