I hate how we are expected to become perfect if we want relationships.

[Bangkok or bust]

I'm sick of this non stop self improvement void that normies try to put us in.

"Get fit bro" "work on yourself" "fix your baggage before you get into a relationship" "you should always strive for self improvement", "stop living in your parents basement", "put yourself out there", "get a better job", "get a engineering degree" "learn to be alpha... read how to be an alpha man by Gerrard B Alpha"

Protip: if anyone on internet is telling you to improve yourself like the above, theres a 99% chance they are depressed, fat, and the absolute opposite of what they preach. I look around and I see absolute human disasters that are in relationships; Disgustingly obese people, insanely depressed people, drug addicts, welfare bums, all of them had no trouble finding relationships despite their horrible flaws. Yes, most of these flawed women are bottom tier and the men they date are above them in looks, but most men would rather be alone than be with bottom tier women because of their obesity.

We on the other hand are expected to become demigods with perfect physiques, mental states, and personalities just to enter the dating market and get a post-prime non-fat becky.

What doesn't make sense about this pseudo-advice is that, well, nobody is even close to perfect in real life.

Do you know someone who does triathlons, meditates, showers 3 times a day, works full-time as a white collar worker, perfectly balances his free time between social activities, personal hobbies (that make him a better person, like learning Chinese or some other shit) and distributing salmon broth to stray cats?

 

[Deleted member 18912]

Don´t take the NPC advice.
Ever.

 

[Napoleon de Jizzbal]

Women are already perfect, just we need to learn their perfection

 

[ovrload]

Relationships is like full time job as a normie. She (the boss) sees you as a disposable worker, and can replace you at any given time if you don’t meet the requirements of the job.

 

[Sparrow's Song]

Relationships is like full time job as a normie. She (the boss) sees you as a disposable worker, and can replace you at any given time if you don’t meet the requirements of the job.

and chads are the corporate higher ups...

 

[Darth Cialis]

What do you mean with "we"? We are men like those you are talking about.

 

[Rassimov]

And yet... a single bad feature will destroy you in the eyes of a woman.

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

Relationships is like full time job as a normie. She (the boss) sees you as a disposable worker, and can replace you at any given time if you don’t meet the requirements of the job.

Basically this.

 

[Rassimov]

What doesn't make sense about this pseudo-advice is that, well, nobody is even close to perfect in real life.

A woman's infatuation with a man still ends after she discovers he isn't the mate form her fantasy.

 

[Bangkok or bust]

What do you mean with "we"? We are men like those you are talking about.

Us non-Chads.

 

[Darth Cialis]

Us non-Chads.

You were not talking about genetically perfects Chads.

 

[zangano1]

Meanwhile the foid jsut has to exist. Not even not being a landwhale is nescesary anymore

 

[Justdone]

And ya suppose to do it by yourself and no one will encourage you or help you. They’ll just watch you and be ready to take ya down if they want to or have to.

 

[Bangkok or bust]

And ya suppose to do it by yourself and no one will encourage you or help you. They’ll just watch you and be ready to take ya down if they want to or have to.

feminism and everyone sucking their proverbial tits their entire lives. Imagine every time you fucked up in life and had to deal with the consequences. Instead of that, someone just patted you on the back, said you did a great job, then took you out to dinner and fucked you....... It's kinda like that for women.