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It's painful to be alone and denied love because of how you look.. blah blah we all know water is wet. But besides not being able to find a partner there are so many other doors that are shut to an incel.
Firstly the immense hypocrisy of society regarding unattractive and/or short individuals. Everyone treats these people badly, and avoid them subconciously. If someone is fat it's all about body positivity, if someone is short or has an ugly face they're the laughing stock. If that person complains about it they treat him as being unreasonable and laugh even harder. It's like a dark side of society nobody is even aware of, no one is AWARE what it's like to go through life as an incel who's not even doing anything other than just trying to live their life.
Even outside of dating, so many doors are closed. On other apps where the focus is language exchange / friendmaking / whatever where people have profile pictures, people are much colder to you. Employers are less likely to hire you, you're less likely to be successful in life as general (not to mention you will never have your own family). Yet saying this and you're crazy, doesn't matter you're treated worse than a minority who's discriminated against, because you don't matter as in incel, you're just biologic waste. i cant stand in line at the grocery store feeling anxiety if people are judging me, secretly enjoying not being me. Being the underdog at events as the only or very few people present without a partner.
And the thing is, I dont even think im that ugly. maybe im delusional? I dont know, but i think i look average. But the competition is so fierce, even if i dont look like quasimodo, unless I look like Arnold Schwarzenegger life is a fight i cant win and a fight nobody even can understand i'm fighting.
The only times society has a door into this world is when a female transitions to be a dude, and then suddenly their eyes open, they can't approach strangers anymore without them being cold and thinking it's creepy, they suddenly regret it and want to go back to being female.. they didn't even know until they transitioned!
Firstly the immense hypocrisy of society regarding unattractive and/or short individuals. Everyone treats these people badly, and avoid them subconciously. If someone is fat it's all about body positivity, if someone is short or has an ugly face they're the laughing stock. If that person complains about it they treat him as being unreasonable and laugh even harder. It's like a dark side of society nobody is even aware of, no one is AWARE what it's like to go through life as an incel who's not even doing anything other than just trying to live their life.
Even outside of dating, so many doors are closed. On other apps where the focus is language exchange / friendmaking / whatever where people have profile pictures, people are much colder to you. Employers are less likely to hire you, you're less likely to be successful in life as general (not to mention you will never have your own family). Yet saying this and you're crazy, doesn't matter you're treated worse than a minority who's discriminated against, because you don't matter as in incel, you're just biologic waste. i cant stand in line at the grocery store feeling anxiety if people are judging me, secretly enjoying not being me. Being the underdog at events as the only or very few people present without a partner.
And the thing is, I dont even think im that ugly. maybe im delusional? I dont know, but i think i look average. But the competition is so fierce, even if i dont look like quasimodo, unless I look like Arnold Schwarzenegger life is a fight i cant win and a fight nobody even can understand i'm fighting.
The only times society has a door into this world is when a female transitions to be a dude, and then suddenly their eyes open, they can't approach strangers anymore without them being cold and thinking it's creepy, they suddenly regret it and want to go back to being female.. they didn't even know until they transitioned!
