RageFuel I HATE CONFIDENT PEOPLE. In fact, I actively REFUSE to be confident because I don't want to be similar to the people I hate

[AshamedVirgin34]

I dislike it when people display confident behavior and I just don't want to imitate that behavior. Each time a person displays confident behavior near me, I think to myself: "I fucking hate this selfish asshole, I wish people like this didn't exist, I wish people like this weren't happy".

I don't understand why people think working in self confidence is a good thing, I can't help but see it as narcissism. If anything, confidence should depend on competence, I'm going to be confident at something the day I become competent, and that's why I will never be confident with women, I won't even try to, I refuse to even try, I know the SEXUAL COMPETENCE isn't there, and will never be, therefore, confidence isn't justifiable.

I will always have bad self esteem and somehow I resent the idea of having to change it, I'm simply not comfortable with the idea of working in my self esteem.

 

[oldNgreycel]

Are you quite confident that you're unconfident?

 

[Cincel]

It's not about been confident or not, it's about how others see you.

You can be a confident incel yet people will still treating you as a shit, personally I don't give a fuck if people thinks I am a loser or whatever.

I have nothing to lose... that could be ironically confidence but actually it's just mediocrity and coping mindset

 

[Sgtpinkie]

I can understand where you’re coming from. Confidence, without competence is an annoying sight, to be sure. Confidence as a whole, is a reminder for us on how inadequate we are.

Confidence is also vital for leadership. No one is going to follow you, unless your confident in what your doing.

But for incels confidence is a form of jestermaxxing. Because as long as we live we’ll never be taken seriously. Despite our competence in subject matters.

 

[Kamanbert]

Cause there's some truth to what you say. It's not sane how everyone nowadays only talks about confidence but never about humility and i guess that's what you picked up on. The only context where i see people mention being humble/having humility is, quite paradoxically, in a self agrandizing sense : you expect it in sentences where someone explains how he achieved succes or in some new age narcissistic normie mumbo jumbo "be humble so the world will smile at you" or some shit. But humility as a real graceful virtue in relation to the world and others (it's original meaning) ? Fuhgetaboutit Of course normies would like to tell you how acting confident and humility are not in opposition, which can be true, but for the first to not take precedence over the latter is not common, it requires a perfect synthesis so is even less common in the narcissistic cesspool that is postmodern soyciety. Someone displaying confidence is implicitly validating the system, oozes narcissism and that's why you hate it.

I can't help but see it as narcissism.

You said it.

 

[Kamanbert]

I thoroughly crap on "confidence" in a world that did everything in lt's power to paint kindness as weakness, humility as cowardice, niceness as self-interest.

 

[Kamanbert]

6'6 Chads walking confidently in public would like you to believe that there's not an atom of vanity or arrogance in their body but then you end up with those TikTok videos where they perversely exult at the sight of people admiring them

 

[Friezacel]

The people you hate breathe air. Therefore you should stop breathing