I (21m) hate being a man. I hate how you feel like genuinely no one cares for you. I hate how little you are valued. I hate how I have to make something of myself for people to care about me, I can’t just be me because it’s not enough for anyone.
I hate being a predator by default. I hate how my presence makes women feel uncomfortable if I’m trying to mind my own business walking home at night. I hate how I get lumped in with r*ists because I have a the same genitalia. I hate seeing posts online dehumanising men and saying we are worse than wild animals (ik it’s rage bait but I still hate it). I hate how difficult it is to make new friends. I hate how little empathy most men and women have for each other.
I hate how I shouldn’t cry but even when I do cry no one is there for me. I hate how excluded I feel when I go out in public. I hate how I was never taken seriously when I was touched inappropriately by woman in clubs multiple times. I hate and I hate and I hate and I’m so tired of it.
I feel like I had so much love inside of me especially when I was younger but all of my experiences and things I have seen online have just forced me to turn anxious angry and isolated.
I never identified myself with the red pill community and I thought most of the big names from it were clowns. I think a lot of guys like me who struggle will get labelled red pill and therefore actually become red pilled because of it.
Sorry if this comes across as a rant I just had these thoughts and emotions on my chest for a while. I wouldn’t consider myself an incel well by definition anyway. I grew up with my mum and my sister and I’ve always tried to take care of them. I am friends with a couple women and they are chill good people. I am aware that I’m generalising when I talk about a lot of things but I just can’t escape from this mindset. I would love some advice on how to feel less hatred/ anxiety towards myself and others.