RageFuel I hate adjusting myself to other people in terms of looks

[AntiPain]

God dammit. For many years I have always thought to myself - If people don't like my looks, I should change, I should do something, it is unacceptable not to be at the top.
But I hated it, I always failed to meet my expectations, tried to avoid reality, tried to escape. And recently on a specific day I decided - Fuck it, let people suffer, let people feel uncomfortable as I pass by them, let the world be as it is - People existing and people suffering.
Tomorrow I will have to go to a certain place not being at my greatest, but that's okay.

I've had enough of this, I don't know how one gets to that state while others are naturally born without any fucks to give, but at least I'm improving.
I think incels here should not be afraid and should not adjust themselves to pieces of filth and rude roasties, torture them, give em the good ol' creep stare even when it simply means briefly looking at them and being present.
However you should not expect reality and others to adjust themselves to you, people will keep being disgusted by the inferior and you will keep being inferior (Some I assume and in specific aspects).

I'm honestly sick of my own writing as I feel I sound like a Tumblr feminist warrior, but it is directly tied to low inhibition and to experience many I believe can share on this site being afraid of their own shadow. I myself will keep struggling with my problems, but even if and when I fail and I adjust myself my message is still correct - On certain topics you should change, but on this one and in this context - No.

 

[LDARBuddah]

Go ER

 

[NoMoreSlaving]

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Go ER

 

[ShadowMonk]

Don't be who others want you to be.
Don't be yourself either, it's not healthy to be alone and depressed. Being yourself is bullshit if you are not Chad.
Be who you aspire to be, just for yourself.

Who gives a shit if roasties prefer skinny pretty boys. I want my muscles pumped and my jaw protruding and this is aspiration enough to keep me going to the gym and orthodontist. I want to become a true barbarian.

 

[johnholloway]

I stopped shaving my facial hair/cutting my hair MONTHS ago. My gram told me I should shave because it looks bad blah blah. I told her that I don't care how I look. If you're an incel and you are worried about how you look, I think you haven't actually absorbed the black pill yet. Any "looksmaxx" queer is either still in denial, or isn't actually an incel.

 

[ThisLifeKillsMe]

I stopped shaving my facial hair/cutting my hair MONTHS ago. My gram told me I should shave because it looks bad blah blah. I told her that I don't care how I look. If you're an incel and you are worried about how you look, I think you haven't actually absorbed the black pill yet. Any "looksmaxx" queer is either still in denial, or isn't actually an incel.

 

[Deleted member 14577]

naturally born

This basically, the only theory is the just be born superior theory. If you're not born with genes that fit societies criteria they don't want you to be a member of society. Just fuck them, accept that you're an outsider; in a species of pack animals we are the lone wolves.

By "be yourself" they mean: good-looking, well dressed, well-off financially, social butterfly, charming, humorous, fit, tall, fit preferences of the foid you're talking to, have normie hobbies, watch whatever bs capeshit is popular rn, listen to whatever bs is popular rn... list goes on and on. The full meaning is closer to "Be yourself... so everyone can see how worthless you are and not spend the time on you."

 

[ChronicPaincel]

I stopped shaving my facial hair/cutting my hair MONTHS ago. My gram told me I should shave because it looks bad blah blah. I told her that I don't care how I look. If you're an incel and you are worried about how you look, I think you haven't actually absorbed the black pill yet. Any "looksmaxx" queer is either still in denial, or isn't actually an incel.

I agree

 

[johnholloway]

If you're not born with genes that fit societies criteria they don't want you to be a member of society. Just fuck them, accept that you're an outsider; in a species of pack animals we are the lone wolves.

exactly... 95% of the population get to get their self esteem, self image, etc, by social validation. we as humans, still have that natural inclination to get our self esteem by social validation, and so as incels when we don't get that, we get depressed. as an incel, you have the unfortunate conundrum of developing a sense of self esteem that is totally independent of any society, of any person. this is no small feat, it takes enormous mental resources.

 

[Deleted member 14577]

exactly... 95% of the population get to get their self esteem, self image, etc, by social validation. we as humans, still have that natural inclination to get our self esteem by social validation, and so as incels when we don't get that, we get depressed. as an incel, you have the unfortunate conundrum of developing a sense of self esteem that is totally independent of any society, of any person. this is no small feat, it takes enormous mental resources.

Just look at how often they think about their history, their 1st kiss in 2nd grade, their 1st gf in 5th grade, their 1st sex in 9th etc.

We missed out on a lot of formative experiences that most normies have, they won't be able to understand our life. We only know loneliness and rejection.