Venting I had another argument with my foid sister and my simp father and I had to take the blame.

[BeatsMonster23]

Basically my foid sister told my family that I smoke weed from time to time, while she smokes it too and was hiding it the entire time. When I found out she also smokes weed I told my family as well.
Then my sister got angry at me for no reason because she snitched on me first and started punishing me by not talking to me and taking things from me that she borrowed me but doesn't use them anyway just to punish me.
Yesterday I confronted her and told her she snitched on me first and she was to blame, but then she used the pussy card and started yelling at me histerically, a thing that really makes me miserable because I hate being yelled at and yelling at someone is itself an act of violence.

So then there comes my simp that who always gives my sister the reason over anything, and he basically forced me to ASK HER FOR FORGIVENESS. FOR NOT REASON AT ALL. My dad basically said that I just know who my sister reacts and that I should have avoided confronting her, BASICALLY IMPLYING THAT HER YELLING AT ME WAS MY FUCKING FAULT.

I really hate where I live, I just want to move out and get rid of these cancer people that are making my life miserable.

I'm working towards moneymaxxing and basically I need 100% concentration when I'm at the computer programming stuff and learning. So this kind of things are very detrimental to my mental health, no one supports me, no one cares about me.

I just wanted to vent a little.

 

[tacotown2142]

Never apologize if you didn't do anything wrong. By doing so you're just giving them permission to walk all over you.

 

[BeatsMonster23]

Never apologize if you didn't do anything wrong. By doing so you're just giving them permission to walk all over you.

I know! but basically I had to "rise my ass and get fucked" because otherwise I would get kicked out from my dad's house instantly.

My dad's girlfriend simpathizes with me and says we are both to put the blame, and thankfully I found some support and feel some relief, but I can't hold these feelings anymore.

 

[WawelDragon1683]

How old are you? You should get a job and move out. it's better to live with roomates than your parents. Your roomates can't boss you around.

 

[Deleted member 33833]

Typical foid behavior. Whenever she gets proven wrong she cries like a toddler and in top of that she does it to appeal victimhood.

I don't know about you but I don't let myself get past over in my house. You are soppused to have peace in your house otherwise you go batshit insane in a few days.

 

[Operation Miranda]

We care about you brother sometimes we also need to vent

 

[BeatsMonster23]

How old are you? You should get a job and move out. it's better to live with roomates than your parents. Your roomates can't boss you around.

I'll be 28 soon, I sometimes lie about my age, but just around that age.

I don't like the idea of wageslaving and I am a sysadmin and the only thing I can find now is a technician support assistant at some shitty company earning little shekels, that sucks too.

I am basically studying webdev and learning a lot, making webpages for my portfolio and stuff. it will take longer, but guarantee a decent job.

I should be wageslaving so at least I could escape the weekends to a hotel or something.

 

[TINMAN]

Never apologize if you didn't do anything wrong. By doing so you're just giving them permission to walk all over you.

 

[Deta97]

“Sorry, but you’re gonna have make me, if you can, SIMP.”

It’s easier to say towards my grandfather considering how easily I lash out and maybe fight him.

My mom’s fiancé however, I’m working on ways to turn this into a standoff… yes… considering mom and him both smoke, I could just snap a pic and threaten to send it to the landlord who I now have on speed dial.

On another note, I can really fuck things up by making them a vilomah, if they do kick me out, considering I have 3.5 methods plus a self-destruct technique at my disposal.

 

[Deleted member 6214]

You need to realise that everyone on this planet is your enemy. This is something I've also realised. They are all against me, they're all against you, they're all against the few good people on this Earth. I am very serious about this. They are actively damaging your future prospects in life by distracting you from your work - ask yourself why?

 

[Mecoja]

The one that should care for you the most screw you over more than anyone.

 

[Transcended Trucel]

The one that should care for you the most screw you over more than anyone.

that's trucel trait tbh

 

[BlkPillPres]

I'll be 28 soon

27?

WTF?

Your situation sounds as if you and your sister are teenagers lol

What fucking 20+ year old has to hide the fact that they smoke weed, should not have been hiding to begin with, you are literally a middle aged man, that's ridiculous

 

[BeatsMonster23]

27?

WTF?

Your situation sounds as if you and your sister are teenagers lol

What fucking 20+ year old has to hide the fact that they smoke weed, should not have been hiding to begin with, you are literally a middle aged man, that's ridiculous

I have no money and no job so I when they knew I smoke weed they started fucking me up by forcing me to do drug tests and stuff. I have no freedom.

 

[Caesercel]

Modern society is doomed. The institution of family is breaking apart.

 

[Meus]

You need to realise that everyone on this planet is your enemy. This is something I've also realised. They are all against me, they're all against you, they're all against the few good people on this Earth. I am very serious about this. They are actively damaging your future prospects in life by distracting you from your work - ask yourself why?

Based and black pilled

 

[Deleted member 34301]

I have no money and no job so I when they knew I smoke weed they started fucking me up by forcing me to do drug tests and stuff. I have no freedom.

Is your sister a NEET too?

 

[Remaincel]

I wouldn't accept apologizing to a foid even if they pointed a gun in my face

You need to realise that everyone on this planet is your enemy. This is something I've also realised. They are all against me, they're all against you, they're all against the few good people on this Earth. I am very serious about this. They are actively damaging your future prospects in life by distracting you from your work - ask yourself why?

Tbh

 

[OwlGod]

imagine being raised by a betabux soy father, a mother who has amateur porn & nudes on the internet, and a sister with an onlyfans account, that's the future

 

[BeatsMonster23]

Is your sister a NEET too?

She is studying a law degree and I am a graduated sysadmin in a 2 year vocational training program, but there are not really that much jobs for sysadmin in my country, but there is demand for webdev so I am studying by myself and I always wanted to be a programmer / webdev because it really is for antisocial men like me.

 

[Deleted member 6214]

imagine being raised by a betabux soy father, a mother who has amateur porn & nudes on the internet, and a sister with an onlyfans account, that's the future

 

[Deleted member 34301]

She is studying a law degree and I am a graduated sysadmin in a 2 year vocational training program, but there are not really that much jobs for sysadmin in my country, but there is demand for webdev so I am studying by myself and I always wanted to be a programmer / webdev because it really is for antisocial men like me.

Nice. I did webdev too as a hobby and parttime job but there's just too many of them in our country and I don't really like it anymore. I'm used to writing my backend in php but nowadays people are using kotlin, java and python. And there are so many new javascript packages, I have no intention to learn them.

 

[BlkPillPres]

Nice. I did webdev too as a hobby and parttime job but there's just too many of them in our country and I don't really like it anymore. I'm used to writing my backend in php but nowadays people are using kotlin, java and python. And there are so many new javascript packages, I have no intention to learn them.

That's one reason I got tired of coding, had a passion for it once but just lost it over time due to many things, its so time consuming and there's no guarantee you'll make good money from it, and the language changes so much over time that you have to keep relearning and then new langauges come out and become the standard so you have to learn a new language with new rules, it just never stops lol

 

[BeatsMonster23]

That's one reason I got tired of coding, had a passion for it once but just lost it over time due to many things, its so time consuming and there's no guarantee you'll make good money from it, and the language changes so much over time that you have to keep relearning and then new langauges come out and become the standard so you have to learn a new language with new rules, it just never stops lol

Nice. I did webdev too as a hobby and parttime job but there's just too many of them in our country and I don't really like it anymore. I'm used to writing my backend in php but nowadays people are using kotlin, java and python. And there are so many new javascript packages, I have no intention to learn them.

But coding seems like the only reasonable job for an incel, everything else is infested with normies.

What do you guys do for a living?

 

[BlkPillPres]

But coding seems like the only reasonable job for an incel, everything else is infested with normies.

What do you guys do for a living?

Currently unemployed, waiting to jump into my next wage slavery position, slowly transitioning over to being a day trader

I would argue trading is much better suited to an incel than coding

In order to make it as a coder these days and get into a position that pays really well you have to be amongst the BEST coders, you are competing against others for something with very limited positions

In order to be a successful trader and start generating high income, you merely need to find a strategy that works, and slowly build your capital over time (and you don't even have to build your capital much these days because you can apply for various funding programs where people basically give you money to trade on their high capital accounts and you get a percentage of the profits)

Once you get to a high enough account balance and you are consistent profitable you'll be way better off than any coder, won't have to compete or interact with anyone

Trading isn't really a "competition" because there's so much liquidity in the market, in forex for example TRILLIONS of dollars are traded daily and its mostly big banks, hedge funds, etc that are moving all that money around, so they aren't competing with you, you are just a little fish. Anybody can find there own little sweet spot and get a piece of the pie, the hardest part is getting a working strategy and consistent profits month to month, once you get to that point you are set

Once I get to like 500K in my balance I'm going to move to thailand or something, but that's years away from now. I still have to complete the hard part (consistently profitable strategy)

 

[Deleted member 34301]

But coding seems like the only reasonable job for an incel, everything else is infested with normies.

What do you guys do for a living?

Currently doing an internship, but after that continuing a career in data science

 

[Deleted member 29351]

Just don't learn webdev it's infested with foids and normies that don't know shit and you will have to do your job + their job because privilegies.

 

[BlkPillPres]

Just don't learn webdev it's infested with foids and normies that don't know shit and you will have to do your job + their job because privilegies.

Now is probably one of the worst times to get into coding because everybody is doing it so you will be undervalued and you won't work up the ladder to get a decent pay quick enough, and on top of that AI is being developed to replace coders and that might just be but a decade away until its viable for small projects, so you could spend years in your field only to just become obsolete, there will be pay cuts and staff cuts abound lol

 

[WizardofSoda]

Currently unemployed, waiting to jump into my next wage slavery position, slowly transitioning over to being a day trader

I would argue trading is much better suited to an incel than coding

In order to make it as a coder these days and get into a position that pays really well you have to be amongst the BEST coders, you are competing against others for something with very limited positions

In order to be a successful trader and start generating high income, you merely need to find a strategy that works, and slowly build your capital over time (and you don't even have to build your capital much these days because you can apply for various funding programs where people basically give you money to trade on their high capital accounts and you get a percentage of the profits)

Once you get to a high enough account balance and you are consistent profitable you'll be way better off than any coder, won't have to compete or interact with anyone

Trading isn't really a "competition" because there's so much liquidity in the market, in forex for example TRILLIONS of dollars are traded daily and its mostly big banks, hedge funds, etc that are moving all that money around, so they aren't competing with you, you are just a little fish. Anybody can find there own little sweet spot and get a piece of the pie, the hardest part is getting a working strategy and consistent profits month to month, once you get to that point you are set

Once I get to like 500K in my balance I'm going to move to thailand or something, but that's years away from now. I still have to complete the hard part (consistently profitable strategy)

Similar to what I'm doing, I am trading/speculating on stocks.

Just stick with it.. like playing a video game, very, very hardcore for months every day, and then years.. you just think of stuff you didn't think about at first.

And to stick with it means not risking too much on any one thing.

 

[Sheogorath]

my foid sister

you don't need to say foid when you say sister OP, we're not going to assume she's non-female or non-humanoid

Yesterday I confronted her and told her she snitched on me first and she was to blame
she used the pussy card and started yelling at me histerically

This happened yesterday so you should actually have some clear memory of the actual words she used when yelling at you.

However 'hysteric' her yelling seemed, it probably involved some level of language.

For her to begin yelling at you when you "confronted" her makes me wonder what tone of voice you used when speaking to her.

Do you recall the specifics of what you said?

What I would advice in the future is this:

1) make a secret audio recording of your arguments
2) listen to it later and type out the conversation OR (if you can find) run it through some transcription software so a machine types it out for you
3) reproduce the text of that conversation here with us (obviously redact any personally identifying details)

This won't just enhanced the value of these threads but also be useful in that it would allow you to more clearly review your conversations.

Don't just rely on subjective memory and emotions like foids.

he basically forced me to ASK HER FOR FORGIVENESS.
FOR NOT REASON AT ALL.

son, no

My dad basically said that I just know who my sister reacts

son, how

and that I should have avoided confronting her, BASICALLY IMPLYING THAT HER YELLING AT ME WAS MY FUCKING FAULT.

He's basically emphasizing how emotional/entitled foids are and that you should try to be the more rational one around them.
There's wisdom in that, if pursuing some kind of peaceful coexistence and wanting to reduce enmity and enemies.

I doubt "avoid confronting her" is how your dad put it, again TAPE THE CONVERSATIONS YOUR FAMILY HAS WITH YOU AND REVIEW THEM

He probably just asked you to address it in a different fashion, ie regarding tone of voice or choice of language.
For example OP, let's say your sister wrongs you by stealing your shit and then selling it so you can't even get it back.

You are justified in feeling angry about this, but punching your sister in the head, however justified it might seem, probably is not a good idea for the longterm wellbeing of your siblingship

A more peaceful resolution would be to say that you deserve compensation and if she won't work off the cost of getting your CD back then you will take and sell her CDs until you've raised enough funds to do so.

This might lead to something like her whining to mom you're robbing her (and denying she ever stole your CDs) so I guess you might want to tape your conversation so that if she denies admitting it you can prove she did admit it.

The thing about that though is it's only going to work once: once sister knows you're taping conversations in the future if she steals your shit she's just not going to admit that she did it when you ask her. She might hint at it (ie give you a sly look, you know she's bullshitting) but won't do it openly anymore.

you also shouldn't allow it to esculate from a skull-tap into a face slap because violence could really sabotage her feeling safe around you

I think there are ways to stand up to a sabotaging imouto while still keeping her trust.

For example if she sells your CD then just store your CDs behind a lock so she can't steal them anymore.

If she needs a favor in the future (ie drive her to the mall) then you can refuse to do it until she works off the cost of your CD with chores.

We should be paragons of civilization, our higher body strength is to protect our imoutos not bully them.

We should keep in mind that conversations we have come with an air of intimidation, and be cognizant of that impact when reprimanding them for bad behaviors.

 

[Parth99]

Basically my foid sister told my family that I smoke weed from time to time, while she smokes it too and was hiding it the entire time. When I found out she also smokes weed I told my family as well.
Then my sister got angry at me for no reason because she snitched on me first and started punishing me by not talking to me and taking things from me that she borrowed me but doesn't use them anyway just to punish me.
Yesterday I confronted her and told her she snitched on me first and she was to blame, but then she used the pussy card and started yelling at me histerically, a thing that really makes me miserable because I hate being yelled at and yelling at someone is itself an act of violence.

So then there comes my simp that who always gives my sister the reason over anything, and he basically forced me to ASK HER FOR FORGIVENESS. FOR NOT REASON AT ALL. My dad basically said that I just know who my sister reacts and that I should have avoided confronting her, BASICALLY IMPLYING THAT HER YELLING AT ME WAS MY FUCKING FAULT.

I really hate where I live, I just want to move out and get rid of these cancer people that are making my life miserable.

I'm working towards moneymaxxing and basically I need 100% concentration when I'm at the computer programming stuff and learning. So this kind of things are very detrimental to my mental health, no one supports me, no one cares about me.

I just wanted to vent a little.

I pray for you having a better life.

 

[BeatsMonster23]

Currently unemployed, waiting to jump into my next wage slavery position, slowly transitioning over to being a day trader

I would argue trading is much better suited to an incel than coding

In order to make it as a coder these days and get into a position that pays really well you have to be amongst the BEST coders, you are competing against others for something with very limited positions

In order to be a successful trader and start generating high income, you merely need to find a strategy that works, and slowly build your capital over time (and you don't even have to build your capital much these days because you can apply for various funding programs where people basically give you money to trade on their high capital accounts and you get a percentage of the profits)

Once you get to a high enough account balance and you are consistent profitable you'll be way better off than any coder, won't have to compete or interact with anyone

Trading isn't really a "competition" because there's so much liquidity in the market, in forex for example TRILLIONS of dollars are traded daily and its mostly big banks, hedge funds, etc that are moving all that money around, so they aren't competing with you, you are just a little fish. Anybody can find there own little sweet spot and get a piece of the pie, the hardest part is getting a working strategy and consistent profits month to month, once you get to that point you are set

Once I get to like 500K in my balance I'm going to move to thailand or something, but that's years away from now. I still have to complete the hard part (consistently profitable strategy)

Thanks for the response, but trading and anything that involves money is repulsive to me.

I just want to earn like 2k euros by working remotely and live happy until I die somewhere lost in the woods...

I know there is competition...but tell me which job field don't have competition?

With the insertion of foids in the workplace the amount of competition is huge, it really sucks.

At least the tech industry has the least amount of foids I can think of. And I like coding it boosts my self-steem.

And I don't mean that I want to go only after webdev jobs, I like software dev too!

you don't need to say foid when you say sister OP, we're not going to assume she's non-female or non-humanoid

This happened yesterday so you should actually have some clear memory of the actual words she used when yelling at you.

However 'hysteric' her yelling seemed, it probably involved some level of language.

For her to begin yelling at you when you "confronted" her makes me wonder what tone of voice you used when speaking to her.

Do you recall the specifics of what you said?

What I would advice in the future is this:

1) make a secret audio recording of your arguments
2) listen to it later and type out the conversation OR (if you can find) run it through some transcription software so a machine types it out for you
3) reproduce the text of that conversation here with us (obviously redact any personally identifying details)

This won't just enhanced the value of these threads but also be useful in that it would allow you to more clearly review your conversations.

Don't just rely on subjective memory and emotions like foids.

son, no


son, how


He's basically emphasizing how emotional/entitled foids are and that you should try to be the more rational one around them.
There's wisdom in that, if pursuing some kind of peaceful coexistence and wanting to reduce enmity and enemies.

I doubt "avoid confronting her" is how your dad put it, again TAPE THE CONVERSATIONS YOUR FAMILY HAS WITH YOU AND REVIEW THEM

He probably just asked you to address it in a different fashion, ie regarding tone of voice or choice of language.
For example OP, let's say your sister wrongs you by stealing your shit and then selling it so you can't even get it back.

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You are justified in feeling angry about this, but punching your sister in the head, however justified it might seem, probably is not a good idea for the longterm wellbeing of your siblingship

A more peaceful resolution would be to say that you deserve compensation and if she won't work off the cost of getting your CD back then you will take and sell her CDs until you've raised enough funds to do so.

This might lead to something like her whining to mom you're robbing her (and denying she ever stole your CDs) so I guess you might want to tape your conversation so that if she denies admitting it you can prove she did admit it.

The thing about that though is it's only going to work once: once sister knows you're taping conversations in the future if she steals your shit she's just not going to admit that she did it when you ask her. She might hint at it (ie give you a sly look, you know she's bullshitting) but won't do it openly anymore.

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you also shouldn't allow it to esculate from a skull-tap into a face slap because violence could really sabotage her feeling safe around you

I think there are ways to stand up to a sabotaging imouto while still keeping her trust.

For example if she sells your CD then just store your CDs behind a lock so she can't steal them anymore.

If she needs a favor in the future (ie drive her to the mall) then you can refuse to do it until she works off the cost of your CD with chores.

We should be paragons of civilization, our higher body strength is to protect our imoutos not bully them.

We should keep in mind that conversations we have come with an air of intimidation, and be cognizant of that impact when reprimanding them for bad behaviors.

Thanks for the (long as fuck) response

My post was badly written, I wanted to mean that my father told me that "I should know HOW my sister reacts" it was a typo.

I didn't speak to her badly when I confronted her, the tone was not the ideal, because I was nervous as fuck, but I just told her "you started this, you are to blame"

Anyway, forget about this, I just let it go for this time, but I will always remember that my father always supported her in every argument.

BTW things haven't changed much, I'm just building my personal portfolio and learning lots of shit.

have a good day

 

[BlkPillPres]

Thanks for the response, but trading and anything that involves money is repulsive to me.

I just want to earn like 2k euros by working remotely and live happy until I die somewhere lost in the woods...

Dude.......... all "jobs" in which you get paid INVOLVES MONEY

You getting 2K Euros involves money, its just semantics really

 

[Sheogorath]

I didn't speak to her badly when I confronted her, the tone was not the ideal, because I was nervous as fuck, but I just told her "you started this, you are to blame"

Bad is always subjective, you should just describe objectively what you did and let us form opinions about that.

TBH it's hard to empathize with you holding a grudge over your sister outing you for smoking... because it's a filthy habit (whatever it is)

You could have tried to bamboozle her with a glowing "benefit of the doubt" approach.

Like imagine if instead of tattling to your parents over your sister being a hypocrite (which she of course is) you just pull an awesome Big Cool Bro move?

- - -

BM "Imouto, I was engaged in a filthy habit... compromising my mind and detaching from the world... this wonderful world with you in it... caught up in dreams when there is this dreamy sis in front of me"

*grasp her hand gently*



BM "Imouto you looked out for me... brought me back to earth... grounded me... I'm glad you cared enough to help me even at risk of me reacting badly..."

*smile at her*

BM "Imouto now that I see the world clearly... I see you struggle with the same thing I did... I feel I am to blame with setting a bad example for you... and since I was the first to begin this unhealthy lifestyle I should of course be the first to end it."

*caress her held hand with your other one*

BM "Now that I am free... I want to look out for you, and help improve your life the way you improved mine... we can be free together, my beautiful sister."

*grin smugly*

BM "I know this will be hard for you... and I want to be gentle in helping you do this, because I want you to know you are loved. I can find things for us to do together to be happy, things other than drugs... things more wholesome and befitting of a princess like you."



- -

too bad you missed your chance and you're just a tattletale to her now OP =/

 

[mNFwTJ3wz9]

You need to realise that everyone on this planet is your enemy. This is something I've also realised. They are all against me, they're all against you, they're all against the few good people on this Earth. I am very serious about this. They are actively damaging your future prospects in life by distracting you from your work - ask yourself why?

Giga blackpilled