Pillow City Rev
- Nov 15, 2021
- 83d 3h 44m
When sub 5 husband did it:
Newly married, experiencing marital rape. I don’t know what to do
I’ve been married for about a month. When my husband and I were dating about 2 years ago, one night I woke up to him penetrating me. I was upset and explained to him that he didn’t have my consent and could never do that again. I chucked it up to an honest/drunken mistake.
Fast forward to our recent honeymoon. He did it again. On the second night of our honeymoon, we had a disagreement and he slept in the other room. I wake up in the middle of the night and he is having sex with me while I’m sleeping. I get extremely upset and tell him again that this is rape and i am not okay with it and it can NEVER happen again. We had just got married and on our honeymoon, so i essentially just let it go.
Less than a month later (tonight), before going to bed, i had been talking to him about an incident when i was 15 where i was almost raped but the guy’s uncle heard my screaming and saved me. He knows the story, i told him before. It randomly came up due to some post we’d seen on FB. Eventually i go to bed, just to awaken to him having sex with me while I slept a couple hours later! How could he do something like this AGAIN, and after literally talking about a sad time in my life where I was sexually assaulted and almost raped as a virgin teenager.
I am extremely disgusted, disappointed, angry, feeling betrayed in the worse way. I feel ashamed and don’t want to tell anyone I know and i am seriously considering divorce. I don’t know what to do and i just feel lost. This is a pattern and I honestly feel like if I continue this marriage, it will just happen again in the future. I just don’t know what to do moving forward.
When low inhib chad husband did it, he was the one that posted the stories and got away with it:
Is it possible to rape your own wife?
My wife and I have been married about a year. I'm 21 she's 20. We also just had a newborn baby in October.
Before we were married we had sex very regularly and had very similar sex drives. But ever since the baby was born she has always been saying that she is too tired for sex. This has been very frustrating for me.
I am the sole provider for the family so I work very hard at my job so to be frank, I expect a little 'release' now and then. I have spoken to her about how I feel she is letting me down and she expressed interest in 'helping me out' more often but when the time comes she still says she is too tired.
So lately I have just been kind of taking it from her whether she likes it or not. It's not violent or anything, I just climb on top of her and if she resists I just hold her down while I do my business. I'm very quick and it's over before you know it (I could last longer but I do it short for her). She says that this is rape and if I keep doing it she will get the police involved. I say go ahead, it's not like I leave any bruises or anything and what are they going to do, find her husband's semen in her vagina? I don't feel this is wrong, we are just going through a tough spot. Once things go back to normal this will stop.
So is this rape? Can I get in trouble for this?