Venting I feel like I'm in a prison

[wereqryan]

Can't stop stalking my oneitis on social media. Every time there is a new post of selfie, I have a huge emotional reaction. I become anxious, heart starts racing and then depression sets in. I know having a oneitis in this day and age is stupid, but I just can't convince my emotions. Not being able to get with girls that I like makes me feel like I'm in a prison. Honestly, I won't last too long like this. This is no way to live.

 

[monkaGIGA]

onetis

cuck

 

[Deleted member 8353]

Has she rejected you before? If so then ghost her, if not then you need to ask, even if just to be told no. This is why you shouldn't have an oneitis.

but I just can't convince my emotions.

You need to redirect them, I use waifu coping for this, but gymcelling would also work.

 

[Deleted member 16455]

cuck

 

[monkaGIGA]

I use waifu coping for this

 

[RollD20]

That is some severe oneitis, look at other girls, it will lessen the effect.

 

[Dionysus]

Get rid of the oneitis so matter how hard it is

 

[TheGambler2]

Been there done that,although logically you know it's retarded,you can't tell that to your heart.Just make sure to not accidentaly like her posts or smth,or you might be accused for rape

 

[Michael15651]

If she doesn’t approach you then it’s over.

 

[Sitokirment]

Having a oneitis and being a stalker aren't the same thing, m80.

 

[childhoodmemories]

Something tells me OP's oneitis doesn't even know about OP's affection and lives her life at its fullest (riding Chad's cock etc). And he won't ever approach because it's easier to just complain online lol

 

[FinnCel]

Every move you make
Every breath you take
I'll be watching you

 

[FlamingCel]

cuck

 

[wereqryan]

Been there done that,although logically you know it's retarded,you can't tell that to your heart.Just make sure to not accidentaly like her posts or smth,or you might be accused for rape

Yeah that's always a risk tbh ngl.

Every move you make
Every breath you take
I'll be watching you

 

[non_factor]

What a faggot.

 

[wereqryan]

What a faggot.

fuck off

 

[Void]

Well regardless of you confessing to her or not and get rejected. Once she's going to get a boyfriend it's going to hurt even more, so you better get ready for it.

Please don't get so emotionally invested into one person like I did, it destroyed my life and gave me endless anxiety, coming from someone who thought he found a unicorn that would accept a loser like me. Being prepared for the worst would have helped me, but a las I was too young and not blackpilled then which made it worst.

 

[wereqryan]

Well regardless of you confessing to her or not and get rejected. Once she's going to get a boyfriend it's going to hurt even more, so you better get ready for it.

Please don't get so emotionally invested into one person like I did, it destroyed my life and gave me endless anxiety, coming from someone who thought he found a unicorn that would accept a loser like me. Being prepared for the worst would have helped me, but a las I was too young and not blackpilled then which made it worst.

Thanks man. I'll try up my will power to get out of this. The problem is that I'm a weak-willed loser.

 

[Void]

Thanks man. I'll try up my will power to get out of this. The problem is that I'm a weak-willed loser.

I won't say that it's cucked to fantasize about finding and being with "the one" like others might. We project our ideals to others and things that aren't even real.

There is an appeal of having an "oneitis", but it only really become a problem when the progress that you think you are making with the person is real, albeit they are just fantasy, which ultimately sets you up for disappointment. I hope and believe that you will able to bear it better than others if you keep this in mind, especially compare to those who aren't black-pilled yet.

 

[Heroic Crusader]

Yes its painful. DW boyo, it'll start getting numb. I ve been there and i can vouch for you

 

[Emergency Manual]

Something tells me OP's oneitis doesn't even know about OP's affection and lives her life at its fullest (riding Chad's cock etc). And he won't ever approach because it's easier to just complain online lol

You just explained the life of 99% of non-blackpilled virgins.

 

[ScornedStoic]

It only gets worse, sadly.

 

[Adolf_Hitler]

I don't use social media. I will likely never connect on any platforms unless it serves its eventual purpose in the long run.