Find a job, any job, and do it well (working harder than others, yes... then trying gradually smartly and carefully to improve).
After that, look for girls: abandon all you previous expectations and standards, and just go after what's available (meaning absolutely no "she's too ugly, i pass"). Try first to become friends. As the job, u need to work hard for it.
It's not ideal, nor fair, but... if you cant succeed, cant rope, cant fight, cant protest for your rights, cant improve society into something more compassionate and fair, and finally cant ER... then doing the above, it's the only way; the alternative, is slowly sinking into the darkest abysses of suffering agony and desperation...