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I feel like I'm a very boring person

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At least outwardly. Maybe the fact that I'm an active poster on here could be considered "interesting" though not in a good way to most people.

I guess that's what rotting on the internet constantly does to someone. I lack life experience so I don't really have much to talk about. I've had people say this about me before calling me "boring" behind my back and have had people say that they feel like they know pretty much nothing about me. I just lack energy for things as well.
 
me too because i am
 
I don't think your boring bro tho i don't know you in real life so i could be wrong tho i doubt you're boring
 
I don't think your boring bro tho i don't know you in real life so i could be wrong tho i doubt you're boring
I guess it's because I can be myself more on here it might not seem that way
 
I also feel like I am a very boring person. I am the most socially inept person to ever walk the earth and I have no idea how to socialize or relate to people.
 
Honestly, what are you even supposed to talk about, especially with someone you're just beginning to know? Funny life stories? Can't think of any, besides a few, but talking about them would mean running out of life stories to share later. Struggles you're going through? That's something you can only talk about with close friends, something you probably don't have if you're trying to think about what to talk about with random people (who you're likely talking to because you have no friends and are looking to make some). Random bullshit? What to even talk about at that point that won't bore you as well? It's so weird, the people in life you're going to get the closest with don't seem like people you can share stuff easily with, but that in a way make you share stuff easily with them. It's not a skill you have, it's something they possess to compensate for your shortcomings, but those people are rare. It genuinely is a shame how much even day to day life is luck-based, even in that regard, since finding those kinds of people isn't something you can really do without being off-putting, it's just something you have to hope just happens to you, and when it does, you have to hope you won't waste the opportunity, or put them off some other way eventually. It's a ticking time bomb if it happens and a gaping empty abyss if it hasn't
 
Same.

I also feel like I am a very boring person. I am the most socially inept person to ever walk the earth and I have no idea how to socialize or relate to people.
 
I don’t think your boring brocel
 
Same I’m boring
 
Honestly, what are you even supposed to talk about, especially with someone you're just beginning to know? Funny life stories? Can't think of any, besides a few, but talking about them would mean running out of life stories to share later. Struggles you're going through? That's something you can only talk about with close friends, something you probably don't have if you're trying to think about what to talk about with random people (who you're likely talking to because you have no friends and are looking to make some). Random bullshit? What to even talk about at that point that won't bore you as well? It's so weird, the people in life you're going to get the closest with don't seem like people you can share stuff easily with, but that in a way make you share stuff easily with them. It's not a skill you have, it's something they possess to compensate for your shortcomings, but those people are rare. It genuinely is a shame how much even day to day life is luck-based, even in that regard, since finding those kinds of people isn't something you can really do without being off-putting, it's just something you have to hope just happens to you, and when it does, you have to hope you won't waste the opportunity, or put them off some other way eventually. It's a ticking time bomb if it happens and a gaping empty abyss if it hasn't
To talk to people you need things to talk about and you need to have life experience to have things to talk about. The problem is how do I gain more life experience when I can barely talk to people?
 
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Same, i'm boring and uninteresting
 
Nah, you’re not that boring
 
I'm boring as fuck but then again I was mostly alone at school and I never had any life experiences so I can't relate to anyone anyway
 
Most people aren’t interesting
 
I don't think your boring bro tho i don't know you in real life so i could be wrong tho i doubt you're boring
Yeah I was gonna say, OP isn't boring at all. I always like reading his threads in fact, and it's interesting to hear from someone blackpilled at a younger age than I was.
 

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