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After finding finding out my ex lied to me, i feel as if incels have a point
My ex broke up with me around late November, and about 2 weeks ago, I found out she was lying to me about her quitting dating. In short, she has commitment issues. She claims that the reasons why she was breaking up with me is that she's never satisfied with dating a guy, as well as feeling as if she's "for the streets" due to her past (which I never gave a shit about).
Well, she was completely lying about all of that, cuz not only is she dating another person (a friend of mine at that), that person in question is a DUDE (I'll get to how I found that out in a bit).
She suddenly appeared around me to greet him at uni, and they are acting weird and shit, which made me suspect. She's so insensitive too, not caring if I was even there, all the while talking a lil bit to my friends (who I was having a convo with). This made my anxiety JUMP, so I asked a friend to escort me.
On that same day, when I returned home, I scrolling through IG so I can follow some ppl. Then I saw that friend's page (the one who my ex was visiting). Then I saw it: in his highlights was her. She wasn't showing her face, but I knew it was her cuz she had a tattoo she told me she wanted to get, and she had dyed locs in a burgundy colour. It was definitely her. I was devastated, angry, bamboozled... she actually lied to me. Her telling me about her past, about her preferences, her being distant and shit... all to push me away. And at the end, when I told her all the shit I did to show how much I loved her, she said "I never asked for any of that."
I loved this girl with my very being, my very soul... all for this? At this point, I'll give this point to the incels. It had to be something. Was I too caring? Was it because I'm short, or a virgin, or broke? Was I less secretive than I should be? I did the best things any boyfriend would do. I don't even know anymore. I know I'm not ugly in the face and shit but this shit has killed my confidence.
If it was my height or virginity, then that would make sense. Stats don't lie, logic doesn't lie, and it makes the most sense to look at them to make proper inferences. If you take away the crazy shit they spew, we are left with something quite logically sound. I'm willing to change my views, as it just shows how more distrustful I'm becoming. That's all I got for now.
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