I don't think I'll ever get over how I never saw the signs

[GloriousFight]

It's the fault of our parents, and society, that we ever got started believingin bluepilled shit like personality being a major factor in getting dates, that looks don't matter (or barely matter), or that as long as we kept our heads down and become "good boys" and "gentlemen" that women would choose us as partners.

But at the same time, it keeps me awake at night when I realize that there was a lot of willfull blindness on my part that caused me to not realize what we now call the blackpill. It would have saved me a lot of pain and confusion as a teenager. Worse yet, I have to admit that this foid on Reddit were the first to blackpill me in a way. I don't remember where I was, perhaps I was on /r/askwomen for some reason, and this highly upvoted foid asked why the fuck guys believe in bad dating advice if they can see with their own eyes that it's wrong? Why did we keep believing that we would get women doing "the right thing" if men doing "the wrong thing" were getting everything we ever hoped for? There were plenty of things my parents taught me that I found out were bullshit and I had to was apply simple logic ("if a loving God existed why would he let grandpa die of a horrible car accident"), or observe the world around me. Somehow I failed to do both when it came to figuring out the realities of dating and love

 

[Khaplain40KKK]

It's the fault of our parents, and society, that we ever got started believingin bluepilled shit like personality being a major factor in getting dates, that looks don't matter (or barely matter), or that as long as we kept our heads down and become "good boys" and "gentlemen" that women would choose us as partners.

But at the same time, it keeps me awake at night when I realize that there was a lot of willfull blindness on my part that caused me to not realize what we now call the blackpill. It would have saved me a lot of pain and confusion as a teenager. Worse yet, I have to admit that this foid on Reddit were the first to blackpill me in a way. I don't remember where I was, perhaps I was on /r/askwomen for some reason, and this highly upvoted foid asked why the fuck guys believe in bad dating advice if they can see with their own eyes that it's wrong? Why did we keep believing that we would get women doing "the right thing" if men doing "the wrong thing" were getting everything we ever hoped for? There were plenty of things my parents taught me that I found out were bullshit and I had to was apply simple logic ("if a loving God existed why would he let grandpa die of a horrible car accident"), or observe the world around me. Somehow I failed to do both when it came to figuring out the realities of dating and love

Stop listening to normies and see what's happening around you. Actions speaks louder than words. The truth is simple.

 

[ItsOver4cel]

I don't really feel that much guilt anymore, I learned to not give a fuck, cope and just exist
But I gotcha, the feeling is dreadful when you realize the things you could've done better, and all the humiliations that could have been avoided by simply knowing the truth
I'm just glad I won't do any of that shit anymore though, and as you said there are many men who are still deluded and far gone unlike us.

 

[Deleted member 29230]

The blackpill in a sense saved my life

 

[Quarantined]

I knew by highschool it was over

 

[WizardofSoda]

Its cringeworthy when you see inferior genetics guys studying hard, working big hours, buying a nice car, fashionmaxing, gym-maxing.. trying to go out to parties and nightclubs.

I see their diet at the grocery store, and they have egg whites and chicken breast, protein powder.

Of course women they hate guys like us even more when they find out we aren't trying.

 

[Loner94]

Am glad I always went with my gut instinct.

 

[Izayacel]

I don't really feel that much guilt anymore, I learned to not give a fuck, cope and just exist
But I gotcha, the feeling is dreadful when you realize the things you could've done better, and all the humiliations that could have been avoided by simply knowing the truth
I'm just glad I won't do any of that shit anymore though, and as you said there are many men who are still deluded and far gone unlike us.

based for having a genesis pic

and yea , you have to realize that you dont have to owe anyone anything

people can lick my ass for all i care . just put yourself first and dont be so self conscious.

 

[Mecoja]

While you think you have a slightest chance you're just going to torture yourself with "what if i do this? what if i do that? what if i did this differently?" Once you accept the blackpill and you know its over you're liberated of all the bullshit, you can see things clearly. But when the loneliness becomes unbearable for me and i wish i could hug someone, knowing that will never happen brings this dreadful feeling i can't shake off.

 

[Deleted member 35110]

You are lucky tbh. I quickly grew out bluepilled bullshit as a kid, but I fell for redpill and PUA bullshit. I legit asked 100+ girls out during my secondary school (HS) days. I blackpilled myself after seeing an shy chadlite who wasn't confident at all manage to pull many girls

 

[GloriousFight]

You are lucky tbh. I quickly grew out bluepilled bullshit as a kid, but I fell for redpill and PUA bullshit. I legit asked 100+ girls out during my secondary school (HS) days. I blackpilled myself after seeing an shy chadlite who wasn't confident at all manage to pull many girls

Sorry to hear that brocel, I didn't get into the PUA community but I unknowingly followed their advice. I asked out around 300 women over the course of 15 years .

 

[erenyeager]

I knew by highschool it was over

 

[Deleted member 35110]

Sorry to hear that brocel, I didn't get into the PUA community but I unknowingly followed their advice. I asked out around 300 women over the course of 15 years .

I hate PUAs even more than foids or bluepillers, they are 100x more damaging

 

[Of Manlets and Men]

Its cringeworthy when you see inferior genetics guys studying hard, working big hours, buying a nice car, fashionmaxing, gym-maxing.. trying to go out to parties and nightclubs.

I see their diet at the grocery store, and they have egg whites and chicken breast, protein powder.

Of course women they hate guys like us even more when they find out we aren't trying.

I think foids hate tryhards and "it's over" types equally. There's nothing an ugly guy can do to make women hate him less.

 

[WizardofSoda]

I think foids hate tryhards and "it's over" types equally. There's nothing an ugly guy can do to make women hate him less.

One thing that shows how much women hate and fear us.. they won't even make drama with us, and that is something they get so much enjoyment out of drama.

 

[Linesnap99]

Stop listening to normies and see what's happening around you. Actions speaks louder than words. The truth is simple.

 

[Deleted member 31869]

Stop listening to normies and see what's happening around you. Actions speaks louder than words. The truth is simple.

based

 

[Studiocel]

People shit on "niceguys" but their backwards thinking is mostly the result of being taught faulty bluepilled beliefs

 

[Deleted member 24016]

You are lucky tbh. I quickly grew out bluepilled bullshit as a kid, but I fell for redpill and PUA bullshit. I legit asked 100+ girls out during my secondary school (HS) days. I blackpilled myself after seeing an shy chadlite who wasn't confident at all manage to pull many girls

Probably made u realize that it’s about looks and only looks.

 

[Deleted member 35110]

Probably made u realize that it’s about looks and only looks.

It crushed all of my hopes, but I'm thankful for it.