Discussion I don't regret skipping my prom

[NBAYoungBoy]

since I already know how it would've went

I would've been sitting alone or at a table where people didn't really want me there for being too low status

and I wouldn't have found a girl to go with either, since I had legit -100 social status at that school

my only friends were the autistc mulatto guy and the nigerian guy, and the autistic guy skipped as well, and the nigerian guy went with a mulatto girl

nowadays, I easily charismamog those normies, since I unironically had to learn how to be NT, and make friends easily nowadays

 

[Deleted member 36666]

Yeah, but wasting all those years on something that doesn't give back, a literal prison, still has to sting. You didn't even say goodbye in a proper way.

 

[wintersnow]

I'll finish high school in two years.

 

[Blackpillapologist]

Same here. My mom was after my life to go but I resisted. At that time I didn't know about the incel community, but I was aware of my position in society.

[UWSL]I tried explaining mom that I would be left all alone at which she criticised me saying that you have been with those classmates for years and you still don't have any social connections. [/UWSL]

 

[Despondent Dreamer]

I refused to keep going to school well before I could've gone to prom.

 

[Deleted member 36514]

jfl I never went to high school and I regret it
at least you have an high school experience whether good or bad unlike me

 

[NBAYoungBoy]

Same here. My mom was after my life to go but I resisted. At that time I didn't know about the incel community, but I was aware of my position in society.

[UWSL]I tried explaining mom that I would be left all alone at which she criticised me saying that you have been with those classmates for years and you still don't have any social connections. [/UWSL]

agree or disagree:

your social status is decided by late elementary school or early middle school

that's when social hierarchies are formed and rigid

you can ascend if you suddenly become very good at a sport or become tall and extremely good looking and get adopted by the popular group, but even then it's not guaranteed

 

[Blackpillapologist]

agree or disagree:

your social status is decided by late elementary school or early middle school

that's when social hierarchies are formed and rigid

you can ascend if you suddenly become very good at a sport or become tall and extremely good looking and get adopted by the popular group, but even then it's not guaranteed

Kind of agree kind of disagree. Your social status is predetermined by genetics and gets known by late teens/early 20's

By late teens you have grown as much as you will, and your life history pretty much sums up everything. If you have been an outcast you always will be. If you have been the cool popular kid you always will be.

You have crossed the growth stage so socialskillmaxxing is useless too since at that age you are expected to know everything (in social context).

Although in some cases like meeting an accident which fucks your looks or surgerymaxxing you can change your situation in later life. Just look at this reddit post:


View: https://www.reddit.com/r/ugly/comments/r4csz0/i_f26_got_several_plastic_surgeries_and_now_im/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

Neither do I. I never met or spoke to any of my classmates.

 

[TINMAN]

Pretty much how it went for me.

 

[FuRed]

the nigerian guy went with a mulatto girl

did he get any action?

 

[NBAYoungBoy]

did he get any action?

no

Kind of agree kind of disagree. Your social status is predetermined by genetics and gets known by late teens/early 20's

By late teens you have grown as much as you will, and your life history pretty much sums up everything. If you have been an outcast you always will be. If you have been the cool popular kid you always will be.

You have crossed the growth stage so socialskillmaxxing is useless too since at that age you are expected to know everything (in social context).

Although in some cases like meeting an accident which fucks your looks or surgerymaxxing you can change your situation in later life. Just look at this reddit post:


View: https://www.reddit.com/r/ugly/comments/r4csz0/i_f26_got_several_plastic_surgeries_and_now_im/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

I started improving my social skills at age 18, and would say that I finally had "good" social skills by 21

i went from being an outcast in high school and early college, to making friends easily from my senior year in college onwards (including 6'3" african americans), still incel though

but I also am not ugly and have a deep voice, so I'm not going to say that someone with a chipmunk voice can be seen as charismatic

Neither do I. I never met or spoke to any of my classmates.

not even bosanac?