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LDAR I don't know what to do in my free time

zangano1

zangano1

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Nothing entertains me anymore, not even videogames. I just lie in my bed doing nothing.
What can I do?
 
This might not be much but:
read, walks, television, write, draw, do random experiments, explore the woods, internet
 
This might not be much but:
read, walks, television, write, draw, do random experiments, explore the woods, internet
I like reading but I don't what book I can buy and atention span is fucked so I have to read every page several times. Sometimes I wall with my dog tbh. I don't know to watch on tv, Im bad at drawing, what do you mean by random experiments?. No woods near, and i'm in the internet wasting my time
 
It can be hard to invest yourself in things when you are depressed, anon. Here are things I do when I am in an emotional corner:

>I try and find a book on a fascinating incident in history or specific niche topic to go through and make notes/highlights

>I took up painting miniatures

>I try to write poetry that isn't just wishy-washy high school shit. I read great poems and try and come up with creative and beautiful rhyming schemes

>I try and learn an obscure alphabet to write in code just for fun. Leave myself fancy looking notes

>I like learning cool math concepts on YouTube just to broaden my horizons. Stuff about unreal numbers and non-orientable shapes is entertaining

>I practice accents for fun, too. Never know when I may need to disguise my voice either lol

>I have a guitar and attempt a few easy songs now and again. Nothing special, but enough to keep me occupied

>I take a bare map in Gary's Mod (especially apartments) and try and use props to do visual storytelling to tell stories I come up with on the spot

>I love learning how different guns and machines work from cross sections
 
I like reading but I don't what book I can buy and atention span is fucked so I have to read every page several times. Sometimes I wall with my dog tbh. I don't know to watch on tv, Im bad at drawing, what do you mean by random experiments?. No woods near, and i'm in the internet wasting my time
with random experiments, like fool around with drinks or a safe chemical. Like little fun science experiments to kill the time. "How long can I bounce this ball?" or just poke ants with a stick. I guess what I am getting at is just random fun things,
 
Another random game I play is picking an obscure point in history for a specific group of people and learn a lot about them
I like reading but I don't what book I can buy and atention span is fucked so I have to read every page several times. Sometimes I wall with my dog tbh. I don't know to watch on tv, Im bad at drawing, what do you mean by random experiments?. No woods near, and i'm in the internet wasting my time
An attention span is not a natural thing to many. I have legit ADHD and I have a few techniques to give my brain the dopamine it needs to focus. I try and put dots on lines with quotes I want to use later or I think are great. Something about the search for good quotes helps me.
Otherwise, it's just practice. Tell yourself for the next hour you are just going to interact with this book. It'll be hard, and progress might be slow, but when you finish one it gets easier later.
If I made it through Brothers Karamazov 3 times, you can do it anon :feelsLightsaber:
 
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random fun things
Good idea
It can be hard to invest yourself in things when you are depressed, anon. Here are things I do when I am in an emotional corner:

>I try and find a book on a fascinating incident in history or specific niche topic to go through and make notes/highlights

>I took up painting miniatures

>I try to write poetry that isn't just wishy-washy high school shit. I read great poems and try and come up with creative and beautiful rhyming schemes

>I try and learn an obscure alphabet to write in code just for fun. Leave myself fancy looking notes

>I like learning cool math concepts on YouTube just to broaden my horizons. Stuff about unreal numbers and non-orientable shapes is entertaining

>I practice accents for fun, too. Never know when I may need to disguise my voice either lol

>I have a guitar and attempt a few easy songs now and again. Nothing special, but enough to keep me occupied

>I take a bare map in Gary's Mod (especially apartments) and try and use props to do visual storytelling to tell stories I come up with on the spot

>I love learning how different guns and machines work from cross sections
Learning things sounds like a good idea, but theres too much to do so I can't choose.
 
Good idea

Learning things sounds like a good idea, but theres too much to do so I can't choose.
There's an infinite amount of things to learn. You gotta see if something resonates with you. And you'll be surprised what you find.
Until a year ago I knew nothing about nuclear reactors. Now, I find myself fascinated about the operation of PWR and BWR reactors in excruciating detail! (Of course, I have autism so obsession isn't uncommon)
 
There's an infinite amount of things to learn. You gotta see if something resonates with you. And you'll be surprised what you find.
Until a year ago I knew nothing about nuclear reactors. Now, I find myself fascinated about the operation of PWR and BWR reactors in excruciating detail! (Of course, I have autism so obsession isn't uncommon)
I think I'll just lay in my bed doing nothing until tomorrow :feelscry:
 
Stare at your wall paper?

Comfymaxxing is actually a pretty good thing to do. Just spend your day in bed an occasionally browse youtube or nap. People frown upon it, but we never realize that with the high pace of societal living our senses become overloaded by work and excessive social interactions. Spending three days in bed to reset can have a healing effect
 
get ur vitamin D tested
 
I have started reading gnostic texts, having mental breakdowns and schizo-posting before deleting said posts.

It has not helped but it's been entertaining
 
Stare at your wall paper?

Comfymaxxing is actually a pretty good thing to do. Just spend your day in bed an occasionally browse youtube or nap. People frown upon it, but we never realize that with the high pace of societal living our senses become overloaded by work and excessive social interactions. Spending three days in bed to reset can have a healing effect
Sometimes it's ok, but it's everything I do all day, sometimes I want to do that but not all the time
get ur vitamin D tested
Why
I have started reading gnostic texts, having mental breakdowns and schizo-posting before deleting said posts.

It has not helped but it's been entertaining
Thats some weird shit, I still havent reached that level
 
Nothing entertains me anymore, not even videogames. I just lie in my bed doing nothing.
What can I do?
Yeah me too. No idea. Is this really all there is to life? For ugly rejects like us probably so. Its over.
 
Yeah me too. No idea. Is this really all there is to life? For ugly rejects like us probably so. Its over.
Yes, just ldar and wait for your life to end
 
Just play hoi4 all day and figure out how to conquer euroop
 
I have started reading gnostic texts, having mental breakdowns and schizo-posting before deleting said posts.

It has not helped but it's been entertaining
based and gnosticism pilled
 
The mystery of boredom.
 
I ldar watch movies on amazon and coom
 
I also don't know what to do with my time anymore, nothing distracts me or interests me...
Write a manifesto.
Watch youtube videos about interesting topics and enormous especulation, I can recommend tons of them, they used to be really good for me.
You could watch restoration videos which are pretty lifefuel most of the times.
You could watch videos about the strange and obscure things of the world, not the sensationalist kid-friendly channels, I mean the channels with the actual interesting topics. I can recommend some.
Try to get into programming or hacking, you could make some money being a security expert at big companies and money is big.
Watch trainhop videos, I know the best channel out there, amazing scenery and no chit chat, just the journey and the wind along the rails.
 
download tor and explore the other side. But disable JavaScript.
 
Just Jack Off 56 Times Bro
 
Just play hoi4 all day and figure out how to conquer euroop
Ive never played it
The mystery of boredom.
It's not just simple boredom, everything bores me
I ldar watch movies on amazon and coom
I try to watch movies but I get distracted
I also don't know what to do with my time anymore, nothing distracts me or interests me...
Write a manifesto.
Watch youtube videos about interesting topics and enormous especulation, I can recommend tons of them, they used to be really good for me.
You could watch restoration videos which are pretty lifefuel most of the times.
You could watch videos about the strange and obscure things of the world, not the sensationalist kid-friendly channels, I mean the channels with the actual interesting topics. I can recommend some.
Try to get into programming or hacking, you could make some money being a security expert at big companies and money is big.
Watch trainhop videos, I know the best channel out there, amazing scenery and no chit chat, just the journey and the wind along the rails.
Yes sometimes I watch videos about random stuff that might interest me at the moment, it's nice cope
download tor and explore the other side. But disable JavaScript.
No
Just Jack Off 56 Times Bro
Sometimes I jack off out of boredom
 
Ive never played it

It's not just simple boredom, everything bores me

I try to watch movies but I get distracted

Yes sometimes I watch videos about random stuff that might interest me at the moment, it's nice cope

No

Sometimes I jack off out of boredom

I’m watching spiral for free today:feelsautistic:
 
Yes sometimes I watch videos about random stuff that might interest me at the moment, it's nice cope
What have you been watching? I know a lot of stuff that could be interesting for you and catch your attention for a while.
 
I’ve been staring more into the wall than usual
 
tail after a foid and find out where her nest is
 

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