Serious I don’t know what I would even do if I got a girlfriend

[Deleted member 22999]

Affection is so foreign to me that it would feel weird. I’d be too high inhib to even try hugging or something so I’d have to wait for the foid to make all the first moves. As for just casually hanging out, it’s become clear to me that I disdain talking to women and find even casual conversation with them insufferable. I’d probably just put on a movie and pray I’m low inhib enough to sit next to her on the couch. I’d probably have a panic attack or something anyway. It’s like a dog chasing a car. Even if he gets it, WTF will it do? I think at this point I’m so clueless and out of it that I’m done for

 

[azakhan]

Same. And imagine that for normies it’s so natural they don’t even think about it, they just do it.

 

[RemoveNormalfags]

Same here, this scenario is out of my imagination power.
I'm even too high inhib to go for a walk with her or smth.
But even then, what do you talk about the whole time??

 

[Deleted member 22999]

Same here, this scenario is out of my imagination power.
I'm even too high inhib to go for a walk with her or smth.
But even then, what do you talk about the whole time??

When I was a bluepilled orbiter I used to try to facetimemaxx but I always started stuttering or talking about shit no one cared about. I’d look around my bedroom and talk about an object (I’d see the heater in my room and talk about how cold my room is, or if I saw my sword on the wall I’d talk about that) and I would get hung up on mid sentence and blocked JFL

 

[FAloner]

Yes, it's a huge problem. We are so starved and isolated we don't know how to behave around woman, especially intimately. What I did was exposure therapy through escorts, it helped me to overcome fear of touch. Now I still don't know how it is to interact normally with foids, but at least I could have sex, kek.

 

[RemoveNormalfags]

When I was a bluepilled orbiter I used to try to facetimemaxx but I always started stuttering or talking about shit no one cared about. I’d look around my bedroom and talk about an object (I’d see the heater in my room and talk about how cold my room is, or if I saw my sword on the wall I’d talk about that) and I would get hung up on mid sentence and blocked JFL

Brutal hunguppill.
Goddamn all these conversations must be awkward as fuck. Holy fuck alone thinking about it is suicidefuel.
I would probably sperg out irl.

 

[Deleted member 22999]

Brutal hunguppill.
Goddamn all these conversations must be awkward as fuck. Holy fuck alone thinking about it is suicidefuel.

I’m better at conversing now but also higher inhib after that basically traumatized me so I don’t really try that method anymore cuz too direct

 

[ShiiOfTheSPLC]

it's similar for me but being willing to initiate physical affection isn't the hard part for me. it's more that I just have no idea what couples do together, how they spend their time with each other, what they talk about, etc. even if someone did agree to be my "girlfriend" I do not have any experience with what you're supposed to do in that situation. I don't think it's actually possible for me to maintain that type of interpersonal relationship at this point

this is part of why "incels" who have had girlfriends/gotten blowjobs can't relate to actual KHHVs, because they still have a normie-level understanding of sex and relationships

 

[Deleted member 22999]

it's similar for me but being willing to initiate physical affection isn't the hard part for me. it's more that I just have no idea what couples do together, how they spend their time with each other, what they talk about, etc. even if someone did agree to be my "girlfriend" I do not have any experience with what you're supposed to do in that situation. I don't think it's actually possible for me to maintain that type of interpersonal relationship at this point

this is part of why "incels" who have had girlfriends/gotten blowjobs can't relate to actual KHHVs, because they still have a normie-level understanding of sex and relationships

Yeah I’m not sure what they do either. Do they just talk? I doubt I can get a foid to play cod zombies or mario kart with me or something. Movie? Eat out? I just dont know man

 

[Stalin]

this is part of why "incels" who have had girlfriends/gotten blowjobs can't relate to actual KHHVs, because they still have a normie-level understanding of sex and relationships

Yeah, they already had all the required predicates to get an intimacy, essentially they were/are all normies with social circles - girlfriends/BJs could never appear spontaneously and come from nowhere.

 

[Deleted member 14805]

Same here, what's worse with alot of uncommon interests and hobbies, it's only going to make conversations and spending time together that much more awkward. I mean what exactly will we talk about or do together if we're completely different?

I never understood couples who're completely different from each other, just do it. Now combine all of this with my super high inhibition+introversion+being in isolation for three decades and there you go, a recipe for disaster. So with that being said, I truly believe females and relationships as a whole isn't for us.

It's just so alien......

 

[radishman]

I sometimes wonder if a lot of people on here would be genuinely happier if they just got a smart pet. Might be all the best we could hope for if we have no friends and no shot at getting a girlfriend.
Border Collie-maxx

Doll for sex and foid stuff, bros for friends and pet if you need extra affection from the first. MGTOW level cope but you don't need a foid if you like being childfree.

 

[cryptic__egg]

Same, I wouldn't know what to say, what to do or how to act. Another reason why missing early social development has ruined our lives.

 

[Ropemaxx]

Same, I wouldn't know what to say, what to do or how to act. Another reason why missing early social development has ruined our lives.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

Be myself

 

[Deleted member 24125]

this is why i believe it's over. even if i got a date i would just blow it by a lot of awkward long pauses and a lot of stupid questions. and i live at home with my mom, neet, 24yo,no friends,it never began anyways.

 

[VictoryOrDeath]

Be myself

Just be yourself