Discussion I don't know how people have the mental willpower to go through so many rejections

[SupremeAutist]

I've only had about 5 proper ones if I'm remembering correctly and already any confidence I used to have is gone. I have the desire to keep trying to ascend for some time longer before completely giving up but I can't bring myself to do it because I see my chance of success as pretty much zero.

"Muh just be confident" like confidence isn't based off your past experiences. I had genuine confidence at one point but I lost it after failing multiple times.

 

[SupremeAutist]

In my eyes "Just being confident" is telling yourself to be delusional

 

[vigcookie_227oalgo]

"Just being confident" is telling yourself to be delusional

 

[light]

Posts28

 

[Darth Aries]

I’ve watched too many men cold approach to know the results if I tried. Even some decent looking men were getting shit on, fuck that.

 

[light]

Posts28

 

[ForcedMarriageNow]

I don't even see how people find opportunities, I've already burnt my chances with ever foid under 30 in my life and I cant find anywhere to meet more that aren't obese mystery meat. I've begged my family to try and set me up with someone but they claim to not know anyone with daughters near us.

 

[dopamine]

I’d imagine most of us have given up. It’s easier to accept once you stop fighting it

 

[SupremeAutist]

Posts28

30 now bhai

 

[light]

30 now bhai

postmogs me

 

[Starfish Vs Koala]

he was caught buying posts from the dark web

 

[VideoGameCoper]

The fuck happened to your post count

 

[SupremeAutist]

I’ve watched too many men cold approach to know the results if I tried. Even some decent looking men were getting shit on, fuck that.

Cold approaching has a very low success rate. But even my warm approaches failed

 

[light]

he was caught buying posts from the dark web

tf for real???

 

[SupremeAutist]

The fuck happened to your post count

I got @proudweeb to clear my post count. Just felt like it. No posts were actually deleted it's just the number is different now.

Kinda fun being a greycel again for real.

he was caught buying posts from the dark web

 

[VideoGameCoper]

I got @proudweeb to clear my post count. Just felt like it. No posts were actually deleted it's just the number is different now.

Kinda fun being a greycel again for real.

That’s fucked up

 

[SupremeAutist]

postmogs me

Posts14,771

 

[SupremeAutist]

That’s fucked up

I mean I asked for it. And I was told I can have my posts back if I ask for it

 

[Enigmaz]

Not willpower. But it's made me hard.

 

[SupremeAutist]

I don't even see how people find opportunities, I've already burnt my chances with ever foid under 30 in my life and I cant find anywhere to meet more that aren't obese mystery meat. I've begged my family to try and set me up with someone but they claim to not know anyone with daughters near us.

Really the only places to meet foids after high school is work and university. Without that you have to meet people through mutual friends and you can't do that when you have little to no connections.

 

[VideoGameCoper]

I mean I asked for it. And I was told I can have my posts back if I ask for it

Ok

 

[SupremeAutist]

Not willpower. But it's made me hard.

What do you mean?

 

[SupremeAutist]

Ok

posted "Ok" again award

 

[VideoGameCoper]

posted "Ok" again award

Ok

 

[Enigmaz]

What do you mean?

Do you know how a blacksmith makes a sword? They beat it until it's hard. For me it's the rejections that beat me mentally.

 

[SupremeAutist]

Do you know how a blacksmith makes a sword? They beat it until it's hard. For me it's the rejections that beat me mentally.

Interesting. I used to think this way about things but I found the opposite effect in which the more I got beat down by things in life the more I wanted to give up and drop out of society completely.

 

[Anthrofurrcel]

I need to keep trying