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Venting I don't have any copes

Mistake

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I don't know how other incels cope. I don't have any interests because I was always excluded by my peers from day one. I can't find any games or music to cope with. I don't want to do anything outside of my home because of my face. I'm too retarded and burned out to get into any high IQ, religious or political shit. Nothing interests me, all I do is just rot all day on my phone, scrolling .is and twitter without thinking. I get so jealous when I see other cels here talking about their copes, when all I do is just rot on my phone all day. I don't have the attention span to watch youtube videos. I bought my current phone in November and I can count on one hand how many times I opened up the youtube app. I don't even do anything, it's like I just exist. I hate this suffering, and I hate having no friends and no girlfriend.
 
i can relate to u being the lone wolf is so painful
 
I used to have copes but they stopped working as I aged, the only cope I have left is lifting casually, other than that I just sit and rot all day on a laptop from the 2000's that can barely play a video without stuttering.
 
It's just about willpower. Exit the site and pick up the nearest book to you and read it from beginning to end even if it doesn't interest you. Train your attention span and willpower.
 
I used to have copes but they stopped working as I aged, the only cope I have left is lifting casually, other than that I just sit and rot all day on a laptop from the 2000's that can barely play a video without stuttering.
Brutal, I started lifting some light weights last month. It's a decent cope, it feels good and it helps me pass time a bit.
 
try different stuff until you find something you like, or find something you think would be cool and practice daily.
There's plenty of stuff you can do at home: weightlifting, making music, reading, drawing, writing, painting, knitting, origami...
all of these can give you a sense of progress and make you feel like you're actually doing something.

You have plenty of options that you can explore inside your house, but the hard part is having the willpower to do it even if it's a bit boring.
Maybe lock your phone for an hour or two every day so you have to find something else to do.
 
Brutal, I started lifting some light weights last month. It's a decent cope, it feels good and it helps me pass time a bit.
It is the healthiest cope for the shutin-cel, the muscles in my back atrophied from all the rotting and gave me back pain, but lifting a barbell fixed it in a week or two.
 
it's ok copes r boring
 
i can relate to u being the lone wolf is so painful
Lone wolfs tend to die in nature. Literally pack hunters.

The thing about copes is that you cope by having what you are doing feel like progress. The more you admit its pure cope the less value it has to you. I think your first step should be to stay off of social media to detox from all the ADHD zoomer shit and recalibrate your reward system a bit.
 
Lone wolfs tend to die in nature. Literally pack hunters.

The thing about copes is that you cope by having what you are doing feel like progress. The more you admit its pure cope the less value it has to you. I think your first step should be to stay off of social media to detox from all the ADHD zoomer shit and recalibrate your reward system a bit.
Yeah the internet usage ruined my life jfl especially porn
 
make suffering your cope, force yourself to go out and run every other day. you won't like it at first and you won't like it later on but it will make the rest of your day much more enjoyable
 
You need a laundry list of copes to make sure you don't run out and grow bored
 
I recommend some kind of loner hobby/activity that isn't around people but also makes you exercise a bit
 
Brutal. You need to have some kind of hobby. Even if it’s just some online games, tv or music. My hobby is cars and related things because it can be done solo. I always would do that stuff with my dad until he passed away, but I still enjoy doing it. It’s just a lot lonelier and more difficult to perform repairs without help. Today I got my 24 horsepower zero turn riding mower going and cut the grass at my parents’ cabin. It was hot out and in the sun plus took 2 hours, but it feels good to drive that thing around and smell the fresh cut grass. I also have radio control cars that go 65+ mph that can be fixed when they break because all spare parts are available. This is a great hobby for incels if you have a place to run them. I usually run them in the big cabin yard after I get the grass cut. Luckily I have enough mechanical knowledge to work on the rc cars and mowers, or I’d go broke paying for repair costs
 
I don't know how other incels cope. I don't have any interests because I was always excluded by my peers from day one. I can't find any games or music to cope with. I don't want to do anything outside of my home because of my face. I'm too retarded and burned out to get into any high IQ, religious or political shit. Nothing interests me, all I do is just rot all day on my phone, scrolling .is and twitter without thinking. I get so jealous when I see other cels here talking about their copes, when all I do is just rot on my phone all day. I don't have the attention span to watch youtube videos. I bought my current phone in November and I can count on one hand how many times I opened up the youtube app. I don't even do anything, it's like I just exist. I hate this suffering, and I hate having no friends and no girlfriend.
Go grind on your favorite video game and let it distract you from reality
 
this is very relatable. i've been neeting since 15 and my days have been spent scrolling social media mindlessly since, also. sad fact is i'm too retarded to cope. might as well rope
 
I found a way to sneak past the gate and gain free access to a ski rink, so I've been learning figure skating for a while. That's fun, though when I see parents with their kids or couples or friend groups messing around I'd still cry. I don't know how long I'll still be interested in it, I know copes eventually become stale. But I don't live forever so it's fine.
 
this is very relatable. i've been neeting since 15 and my days have been spent scrolling social media mindlessly since, also. sad fact is i'm too retarded to cope. might as well rope
Non gamers like us are rare doomscrolling is a truecel trait
 
I used to have copes but they stopped working as I aged, the only cope I have left is lifting casually, other than that I just sit and rot all day on a laptop from the 2000's that can barely play a video without stuttering.
Reading high iq shit is a good cope
 

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