I don't enjoy the company of people/women, so I want to skip straight to love/affection/cuddling/sex.

[Deleted member 7448]

I'm way too avoidant and antisocial to ever be able to get a relationship. I just wouldn't get to that point.

Normally, unattractive guys MAYBE have a chance with some used-up roastie over 30 who wants to settle down. But I won't even get there cause for that you need to talk to people, interact with them, spend time with them. And I hate all that.

Not to mention that you have to try it with a lot of different women until it finally works with someone and you get in a relationship. I'd put up with it and maybe even enjoy it if I could just interact with 1 woman and be guaranteed to succeed and marry her and live happily ever after. But I don't want to attempt to befriend tens of women just so maybe 1 could date me for a short while.

And yet my male body and brain really wants the love/sex/cuddling part. I just really hate everything that is required to get to that point. Fuck.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

You might be autistic bro.

 

[ThoughtfulCel]

You might be autistic bro.

 

[Cowcel]

You might be autistic bro.

Sounds schizoid to me

 

[Gymcelled]

"I don't enjoy the company of people/women, so I want to skip straight to love/affection/cuddling/sex."

Jesus fucking christ OP you've nailed it. I've always felt that way and I could never find the words for it

 

[Fancy Alcoholic]

Same.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

"I don't enjoy the company of people/women, so I want to skip straight to love/affection/cuddling/sex."

Jesus fucking christ OP you've nailed it. I've always felt that way and I could never find the words for it

Perhaps when we're 35 or so we'll finally be able to ignore these feelings much better. Lower T as we age might be a blessing.

 

[Iwanttolive]

"I don't enjoy the company of people/women, so I want to skip straight to love/affection/cuddling/sex."

Jesus fucking christ OP you've nailed it. I've always felt that way and I could never find the words for it

 

[Deleted member 27495]

which is why we all wish we were chads and not normies (although i would give anything to be a NT normie at least)

 

[Deleted member 27249]

I enjoy the IDEA of women. The idea of romance, a girl having butterflies in her stomach when she sees me, an awkward first kiss where we both very slowly lean in. Eye contact where we stare at each other in intense admiration wondering what the next move is, flirting, giggling.

It all sounds so nice, but it's all so unrealistic.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

I enjoy the IDEA of women. The idea of romance, a girl having butterflies in her stomach when she sees me, an awkward first kiss where we both very slowly lean in. Eye contact where we stare at each other in intense admiration wondering what the next move is, flirting, giggling.

It all sounds so nice, but it's all so unrealistic.

Ohh yeah I can relate. It's really disappointing that these are just our male fantasies, our hormones and desires playing tricks on our minds.

But even though these things are unrealistic, actually experiencing a bit of affection, engaging in sex and cuddling and such would still be amazing, even in the limited way that they can actually happen to an average male. Unfortunately reality has proven that I don't even reach the level of an average man, despite how weird that sounds to me as a fairly self-centered person.

 

[Ping And Pong]

I enjoy the IDEA of women. The idea of romance, a girl having butterflies in her stomach when she sees me, an awkward first kiss where we both very slowly lean in. Eye contact where we stare at each other in intense admiration wondering what the next move is, flirting, giggling.

It all sounds so nice, but it's all so unrealistic.

Wtf why would you say such potent suifuel

 

[Theorist]

It all sounds so nice, but it's all so unrealistic.

Full stop hollywood programming. I wish more incels would look at hollywood and entertainment in general because it explains some of the really weird superficial standards women have such as huge weddings, diamond ring, 6ft+, 100k$+ and so on

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Full stop hollywood programming. I wish more incels would look at hollywood and entertainment in general because it explains some of the really weird superficial standards women have such as huge weddings, diamond ring, 6ft+, 100k$+ and so on

The only way I'd marry a woman was if we had a small dinner with our parents as the wedding. That's it, just registering at the court house and the dinner. If she asks for more she's not worth marrying.

Ahh but it's just a fantasy isn't it. Never even kissed a woman, why am I thinking about this.

 

[PPEcel]

Not to mention that you have to try it with a lot of different women until it finally works with someone and you get in a relationship. I'd put up with it and maybe even enjoy it if I could just interact with 1 woman and be guaranteed to succeed and marry her and live happily ever after. But I don't want to attempt to befriend tens of women just so maybe 1 could date me for a short while.

You sound like someone who should hire an escort. That's kind of the point of it: skipping straight to the cuddling and sex.

By the way, congrats on being on CuckTears


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