
DarkStar
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View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/iotmq4/i_distanced_myself_from_my_boyfriend_because_he/
So in other words, your HTN "Chad" White or Psuedo-White looking Latinos, whom also have to adhere to some "personality" standards of your ownI have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now. I am the type of woman who looks into dating a tall, muscular and white or tan guys who treats me nicely, gives me the attention I need, and makes me feel safe around him. My boyfriend fits all these traits, or at least I thought so.
Isn't this a good sign? I mean, it means he trusts you enough as a partner to open-up to you.Almost a month ago, my boyfriend cried in front of me for the first time
Perfectly valid reason.The reason for this was because his mother had to go to the hospital urgently as she was feeling really sick
For those who know, my relationship with my parents isn't the best- yet if one of them was very ill I would feel the same.
So in other words, you were lookist- you expected him to be some "manly" guy who won't flinch over anythingI am not saying it’s not normal to cry when something bad happens to your loved ones, but seeing him break down and cry ruined the image I had of him and I’ll confess that this made me distance myself from him.
This is why I fucking hate foids so much- they have no concept of mutual dependency. She has this mental image he has to fulfill, of being some stoic male who somehow panders to her like a simp but can't care for his own family?My boyfriend realized that I am acting cold with him and has asked me numerous times if he did anything wrong. I still didn’t confess to him, and I really don't want this relationship to end, but if this feeling persists, I might have to open up to him and end things. I honestly don't know what to do.
This was a ragefuel read tbh