I agree with you, and this is one of the most anger-inducing things about my inceldom.
In general, I am very qualified to have a woman. I am a single white man, with a full time engineering job and an engineering degree. I own my own home and 2019 model-year car. I am an active member of my church and even will be on a church board pretty soon. I have fun hobbies that keep me entertained like guitar playing, going to metal shows, electronics, and theology. I'm handy (can fix things, jack-of-all-trades knowledge), and masculine, and I can take care of my home and my future family both financially and emotionally. I have a strong urge to become a father and husband, and will vow my faith to my family until death, like my own father did.
Why am I here then?
Well that answer is: Women no longer want or need men like us. They seek looks now. To some extent, they always have, but laws, societal standards, and men ourselves kept their hypergamy at bay. Now, men like me, who would be WORSHIPED in times like 50s America, rot to a life of loneliness.
Nothing we could do. Some of us are timecels, victims of living in a trash 21st century. Sexhavers now are just good looking or total cucks. I am neither.
