Venting I daydream everyday and can´t stop it.

[92 drowsiness?]

Every single day, I find myself unable to escape from daydreaming I can´t run away from it. Whenever I take a break, have a meal, or simply allow my mind to wander, I start imagining a future or an alternate life where I am truly happy—where I have a loving girlfriend, financial stability, and a fulfilling existence.
At times, I visit that one website that allows users to browse old yearbooks and picture myself as a confident and popular student (BEING A CHAD) imagining who I would choose as a girlfriend, what my life would be like, and which team I would be a part of. I also frequently rethink my past life choices or wonder how things would be different if I had been born taller instead of 5'8" or other stuff.
This habit has become an inescapable part of my daily routine. I cope by immersing myself in these fantasies of a better life, even if it is not within this body. For years, I have been daydreaming without even realizing that there was a term for it—until I came across a discussion on the subject on this forum a year or two ago. do you fellowcels also daydream? can I escape from this? Is this a good cope?...

 

[adharmi]

Same

 

[Pancakecel]

Better to day dream than be in this shit reality

 

[AnApparentMyth]

Same man. This is a really bad cope, because I waste so much daydreaming, begging for something more. I just put on music and dance around. I'm a fucking idiot.

 

[Mistake]

Better to day dream than be in this shit reality

It's a good escape from reality, then I remember how my face looks

 

[AntoCel]

I do the same thing. Also when imagining better future for myself im always tall and attractive in my mind, like i cant fully comprehend that i wont grow anymore and im stuck.

 

[TheCatMan]

I do that a lot.

 

[Autistic Kanga]

Have you looked into lucid dreaming?

 

[PersonalityChad]

Same

 

[daydreamER]

Brutal daydreamERpill

 

[92 drowsiness?]

Have you looked into lucid dreaming?

Yes,but I never managed to do it so far,do you have any tips for me? I think it would make my life better if I could control my dreams I have nightmares every week.

 

[Autistic Kanga]

Yes,but I never managed to do it so far,do you have any tips for me? I think it would make my life better if I could control my dreams I have nightmares every week.

I'm in a similar situation to you.

Trying to get better sleep at moment so I can actually have dreams.

If you're in a nightmare though, what the internet has taught me is that you need to imagine yourself protected in a bubble. Slowly imagine the environment changing to positive thoughts. Create a door, and then travel to a place of your desiring.

I have nightmares every week too, but I'm not lucid in them. I'm trying to practice meditation and I'm doing reality checks every so often.

There's a forum called dreamviews that's specialized in this stuff:
https://www.dreamviews.com/forum.php

 

[Adolf Kitler]

Have you looked into lucid dreaming?

Astral projection > lucid dreaming

 

[Autistic Kanga]

Astral projection > lucid dreaming

I know about astral projecting. I might make a guide on it on the future if I get results.

 

[Nullified]

Better to day dream than be in this shit reality

Truth

 

[92 drowsiness?]

I'm in a similar situation to you.

Trying to get better sleep at moment so I can actually have dreams.

If you're in a nightmare though, what the internet has taught me is that you need to imagine yourself protected in a bubble. Slowly imagine the environment changing to positive thoughts. Create a door, and then travel to a place of your desiring.

I have nightmares every week too, but I'm not lucid in them. I'm trying to practice meditation and I'm doing reality checks every so often.

There's a forum called dreamviews that's specialized in this stuff:
https://www.dreamviews.com/forum.php

thank you very very much for this brocel I will look onto to it.

Astral projection > lucid dreaming

I Will also try this,but I believe I do that alot during my daydreams it looks so vivid and true and I usually get sad when i have to go back to reality.

 

[FreeCipher]

Yeah same I practically live inside my head.

 

[TheHungariancel]

Every single day, I find myself unable to escape from daydreaming I can´t run away from it. Whenever I take a break, have a meal, or simply allow my mind to wander, I start imagining a future or an alternate life where I am truly happy—where I have a loving girlfriend, financial stability, and a fulfilling existence.
At times, I visit that one website that allows users to browse old yearbooks and picture myself as a confident and popular student (BEING A CHAD) imagining who I would choose as a girlfriend, what my life would be like, and which team I would be a part of. I also frequently rethink my past life choices or wonder how things would be different if I had been born taller instead of 5'8" or other stuff.
This habit has become an inescapable part of my daily routine. I cope by immersing myself in these fantasies of a better life, even if it is not within this body. For years, I have been daydreaming without even realizing that there was a term for it—until I came across a discussion on the subject on this forum a year or two ago. do you fellowcels also daydream? can I escape from this? Is this a good cope?...

Can relate. I also liked to imagine myself in certain scenarios, like what if I was popular in high school and how my life would look like now. It would be a completely different existence for sure.

Nowadays I just try to accept my fate and the fact that I can’t change the past but I slip into daydreaming time to time. Honestly I don’t even know if I ever going to fully accept my fate.

 

[sub_human]

I live in my daydreams. There I am successful, wanted, liked. Still blackedpilled but super cool and people are fascinated by me. In my daydreams things happen. I have conversations. I often think how I do ringwalks to a boxing ring to fight Canelo or Benavidez. Problem is, while until recently my daydreams were not impossible. Pretty much impossible but not quite. But now I find myself daydreaming more and more of periods in the past and then it hits me. It's so brutal when you need to escape the space-time continuum to have a chance to achieve your dreams.

 

[PocoLoco]

Same

 

[Maeglin Lomion]

I probably have spent 95% of my entire existence daydreaming in some way. There's a pathologizing term for that, I've heard: 'Maladaptive Daydreaming'. I normally need a specific kind of music to daydream, and my daydreams are usually very ethereal, abstract, and dreamy in nature, with most following some patterns or themes. For example:

(1) Oneiric landscapes and liminal places, where I contemplate fleeting sensations and impressions that I have been obsessed with for decades.

(2) Alternate scenarios where I transcend my weak human body, which I dislike for being so weak, fragile, and mortal.