DarkStar
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Ofc, this type of support would only ever be leant to a foidI started seeing this man at the start of last year. 10 months in, he offered for me to move into his house (that he owns) to help with the cost of rent because I’m on an exorbitant amount of medication that was making it difficult to afford rent, medication and food.
A guy in the same situation, however, will likely find themselves getting told "show some gumption" by some boomer when his thread on r/mentalhealth finally gets a reply after 48 hours.
Well hey, you can always go to therapy sweetie.We had a conversation before I moved in about how anxious I was about the idea of essentially being “at his mercy” when it came to housing. I’ve had unstable living situations before, and I have trauma resulting from those.
Well, that's good isn't it?He copiously reassured me that I wouldn’t be in an unstable situation, and I pushed aside my anxiety, blaming it on trauma. He’d shown no signs of mental instability, problematic behavior, etc.
The guy defied your expectations initially, and seemingly has himself together.
Well, did you speak to him about his issues? You could have, as a housemate, shown concern for someone you live with & based on your past experiences, should have seen this as a sign to maybe call your girlies or hop on tinder for a new hookup.A couple of weeks before my birthday in January, I’d mentioned to him that I was once again having anxiety about being in his house, mostly due to his behavioral changes and mental instability (he’s in therapy for issues now that he only started in December).
Top ten photos taken moments before a disaster.He reassured me, and this is a direct quote “you’ll always have a safe space here, I’d never kick you out, I promise!”.
Foid learns what "hardships" & being homeless are:Fast forward to mid-January, literally the morning after my birthday….he kicks me out. No notice, no warning, just “your stuff can stay while you find another place, but you need to leave”. I hadn’t even finished unwrapping my birthday presents.
Thus, men are the majority of individuals experiencing homelessness (70 percent) followed by women (29 percent). The final 1 percent are transgender and non-binary individuals discussed in the first installment of this series.
Demographic Data Project: Gender and Individual Homelessness
Homelessness in America is largely a gendered phenomenon. Men are the overwhelming majority individuals counted in the HUD-required annual Point-in-Time Count. They are also more likely than women to be unsheltered. Ending homelessness requires better understanding of the issues that […]
endhomelessness.org
Must be nice, now imagine being even just an average guy with no status & mediocre social skills, yet alone an Incel.I’ve been incredibly fortunate to have friends rally around me to help me find somewhere on such short notice,
Can you imagine a situation in which a guy with a similar story went through something such as here and then said this? It would be a huge mix of the usual "muh go to therapy bro" "not all foids are like that" and I'm sure some ": A wahmen bought you into the world bro!" smartass remark, which if you know me would make my blood boil.But I’m done trusting men to keep their word.