It's Over I can't see myself living like this in my 30s and 40s

[Justanotherbloke]

I’m in my early/mid-20s now, and the trajectory of my life is painfully clear. Unless something drastic changes, which, let’s be honest, it won’t: I’m destined to become that lonely, socially isolated KHHV weird MFer who just exists, never really lives.

I don’t have the looks, the phenotype, or the innate charm to attract the women I’m genuinely drawn to.
The worst part is the future closing in on me. The thought of spending decades as a wageslave, coming home to an empty apartment, with nothing but cope to fill the void… it’s unbearable. I already hate life most days. How the hell am I supposed to keep doing this for another 20, 30, 40 years?
I don’t want to be the 40-year-old virgin lurking on forums, completely forgotten.

While I'm typing this thread, the sheer thought of me ending up alone in my 30s craving love from the women I'm attracted to but most likely ending up alone, puts a heavy feeling on my chest.
I literally am in pain physically typing this

 

[Chromium]

DW there's a good chance technology will save us by then. Just keep holding out brother, well, unless if ur working a low-paying job, then ur really fucked since u won't be able to afford the technology.

 

[Justanotherbloke]

. Just keep holding out brother,

That's easier said than done, but I appreciate the motivation.

 

[Nature's Villain]

You have baby fever, your body is telling you to reproduce. By 40 your hormones will have died down.

 

[senses fail]

know that physical pain all too well. Longing. Its enough to break someone if felt like this for so continuously. Its unending torture and Im going to snap

 

[Justanotherbloke]

DW there's a good chance technology will save us by then.

I want a real woman, I accepted that I'm just not cut out to make it in this life, I'd rather blow my brains out, delete myself if nothing changes in my late 20s, I really think this life isn't for me.
I hope reincarnation exists, I hope I'll be Mediterranean prettyboy chad with facial harmony and medium olive skintone, dark brown hair and brown eyes

 

[Suigin Trismegistus]

I don’t have the looks, the phenotype, or the innate charm to attract the women I’m genuinely drawn to.
The worst part is the future closing in on me. The thought of spending decades as a wageslave, coming home to an empty apartment, with nothing but cope to fill the void… it’s unbearable. I already hate life most days. How the hell am I supposed to keep doing this for another 20, 30, 40 years?
I don’t want to be the 40-year-old virgin lurking on forums, completely forgotten.

That's me. But I don't crave love anymore. How can you love something that doesn't actually exist? Our conception of the ideal foid is an illusion.

 

[Justanotherbloke]

know that physical pain all too well. Longing. Its enough to break someone if felt like this for so continuously. Its unending torture and Im going to snap

It's happening more frequently now, the pain and longing I can't take it anymore

 

[senses fail]

It's happening more frequently now, the pain and longing I can't take it anymore

its a pattern of our own hell we cannot escape. I genuinely believe im in hell.

 

[Chromium]

I want a real woman, I accepted that I'm just not cut out to make it in this life, I'd rather blow my brains out, delete myself if nothing changes in my late 20s, I really think this life isn't for me.
I hope reincarnation exists, I hope I'll be Mediterranean prettyboy chad with facial harmony and medium olive skintone, dark brown hair and brown eyes

Incredibly low chance you'll be reincarnated as a human. You will probably reincarnate as a mosquito or some shit jfl

 

[Justanotherbloke]

Our conception of the ideal foid is an illusion.

That for me, is probably the toughest pill to swallow, after the agepill.
Everything is transactional, she only wants to be with you when there's something to gain superficially for her, Disney love doesn't exist

 

[Justanotherbloke]

That for me, is probably the toughest pill to swallow, after the agepill.
Everything is transactional, she only wants to be with you when there's something to gain superficially for her, Disney love doesn't exist

You can compare it to prostitution, but covertly

 

[B33troot]

I’m in my early/mid-20s now, and the trajectory of my life is painfully clear. Unless something drastic changes, which, let’s be honest, it won’t: I’m destined to become that lonely, socially isolated KHHV weird MFer who just exists, never really lives.

I don’t have the looks, the phenotype, or the innate charm to attract the women I’m genuinely drawn to.
The worst part is the future closing in on me. The thought of spending decades as a wageslave, coming home to an empty apartment, with nothing but cope to fill the void… it’s unbearable. I already hate life most days. How the hell am I supposed to keep doing this for another 20, 30, 40 years?
I don’t want to be the 40-year-old virgin lurking on forums, completely forgotten.

While I'm typing this thread, the sheer thought of me ending up alone in my 30s craving love from the women I'm attracted to but most likely ending up alone, puts a heavy feeling on my chest.
I literally am in pain physically typing this

I'm in my 40s and I have some bad news for you.

If you've never received positive female attention in your 20s, your can expect the same pattern in your 30s, 40s and beyond.

If you've never received positive female attention in your 20s, your can expect the same pattern in your 30s, 40s and beyond.

If you've never received positive female attention in your 20s, your can expect the same pattern in your 30s, 40s and beyond. According to science, the 20s is when you fully develop as an adult. If within that time frame you haven't experienced some kind of intimacy with a female (at least a...

incels.is

 

[Suigin Trismegistus]

That for me, is probably the toughest pill to swallow, after the agepill.
Everything is transactional, she only wants to be with you when there's something to gain superficially for her, Disney love doesn't exist

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MHGPipRPsmo

 

[Justanotherbloke]

I'm in my 40s and I have some bad news for you.

If you've never received positive female attention in your 20s, your can expect the same pattern in your 30s, 40s and beyond.

If you've never received positive female attention in your 20s, your can expect the same pattern in your 30s, 40s and beyond.

If you've never received positive female attention in your 20s, your can expect the same pattern in your 30s, 40s and beyond. According to science, the 20s is when you fully develop as an adult. If within that time frame you haven't experienced some kind of intimacy with a female (at least a...

incels.is

I'm surprised you're still around,
How the hell do you cope with this?
Sexual urges slowly drift away or not?

 

[B33troot]

I'm surprised you're still around,
How the hell do you cope with this?
Sexual urges slowly drift away or not?

I cope by keeping myself busy (Work, Chores, Hobbies, Internet etc)

The sexual urges are not as intense as they were 20 years ago but they're still there. They don't actually go away.

It's also more depressing because whenever I go out I always see guys half my age with girlfriends. It makes me feel absolutely worthless and inadequate.

 

[Justanotherbloke]

It's also more depressing because whenever I go out I always see guys half my age with girlfriends. It makes me feel absolutely worthless and inadequate.

We exist, youngsters who haven't got shit and a nonexistent dating life.
You not alone actually, this world is beyond repair and there are only 2 categories of men:
-the ones enjoying the decline and circus
-the ones opting out and went their own way

2nd group is still fringe but on the verge of becoming bigger, and it's slowly growing.
Fuck this life

 

[Justanotherbloke]

I cope by keeping myself busy (Work, Chores, Hobbies, Internet etc)

The sexual urges are not as intense as they were 20 years ago but they're still there. They don't actually go away.

It's also more depressing because whenever I go out I always see guys half my age with girlfriends. It makes me feel absolutely worthless and inadequate.

If nothing changes I'll gladly blow my brains out actually. I literally can't see myself living life this, for what am I living then?

 

[NervWraith]

Is there any reason to live anymore?

 

[Leon98]

If nothing changes I'll gladly blow my brains out actually. I literally can't see myself living life this, for what am I living then?

 

[HotDogCel]

the sheer thought of me ending up alone in my 30s craving love from the women I'm attracted to but most likely ending up alone, puts a heavy feeling on my chest.

relatable

 

[HotDogCel]

If nothing changes I'll gladly blow my brains out actually.

 

[HotDogCel]

Is there any reason to live anymore?

not as a truecel.

 

[Justanotherbloke]

not as a truecel.

Life is all about primal stuff, we like to think of ourselves as an advanced intelligent species but we are far from it, cause if that was the case, the planet had more things to offer to men like me (an actual purpose) instead of this shit.

Human life is very simple.
It's all about fucking, sucking and procreation, very primal like I mentioned before.
And if you're in the same category of men like me, then there's literally nothing in life that can fulfill you, there's literally nothing to life.
You don't matter, and you'll go down in history books as another insignificant statistical number.

 

[HotDogCel]

Life is all about primal stuff, we like to think of ourselves as an advanced intelligent species but we are far from it, cause if that was the case, the planet had more things to offer to men like me (an actual purpose) instead of this shit.

Human life is very simple.
It's all about fucking, sucking and procreation, very primal like I mentioned before.
And if you're in the same category of men like me, then there's literally nothing in life that can fulfill you, there's literally nothing to life.
You don't matter, and you'll go down in history books as another insignificant statistical number.

These primal needs are not all we need.
Life is really hard and meaningless and sometimes even if u have these u are sad.
But whitout fullfilling your "natural purpose" you can't be happy at all.
It's killing us

 

[sadlemon]

If nothing changes I'll gladly blow my brains out actually. I literally can't see myself living life this, for what am I living then?

You say that but usually you won't go through it, been there, done that. You keep living but feel shittier as each year passes, it's quite hard to kill yourself if you're not prone to suicide already.

I cope by keeping myself busy (Work, Chores, Hobbies, Internet etc)

The sexual urges are not as intense as they were 20 years ago but they're still there. They don't actually go away.

It's also more depressing because whenever I go out I always see guys half my age with girlfriends. It makes me feel absolutely worthless and inadequate.

The worst part for me, is not even not getting sex. It's just being born a loser and not being able to do anything about it. It's like you're playing an unfair game with shitty setting and you got the free trial version, while everyone is playing the premium version with cheats.

 

[NSX]

Same shit, I'm in my early 20s as well and my goal is to be wealthmaxxed by the age of 30 and escortcelling. I can't stand being sexless and poor.

 

[Cnidoblastos]

I'm almost 30 and... I can assure you that nothing will change. I see myself at 30-40 lurking on internet forums and coping with technology, masturbating a lot and consuming lots of alcohol. This is our life, you have to accept it.

Incredibly low chance you'll be reincarnated as a human. You will probably reincarnate as a mosquito or some shit jfl

Not ironically, it would be better to be reincarnated as a mosquito