It's Over I can’t cope. Do I have to rope?

[umsure]

Every day, I desire to live a life like others. Unfortunately, my face and body are severely disfigured (confirmed by multiple doctors) without good treatment.

I want a group of friends, a gf, sex, to be valued by society. But because of the way I look, I never will.

vidya, LDAR, etc. have lost their effectiveness as copes for me. Every day my heart hurts and I’m constantly in mental pain wanting to die.

I’m khhv at 26. Am I being forced to rope against my will?

 

[justuseless]

Stay alive for the sex robots

 

[umsure]

Stay alive for the sex robots

Sex robots already exist as escorts, sex dolls, and porn

Another completely worthless and pointless cope

 

[Miercoles]

What do you want in life?

 

[umsure]

What do you want in life?

Every day, I desire to live a life like others.

I want a group of friends, a gf, sex, to be valued by society.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

The key is to cope until you have no choice but to rope.

 

[Miercoles]

Fuck I’m sorry man, but that’s what most of us want. I don’t want you to rope, but I can’t come up with anything, but please don’t.

 

[umsure]

My best cope until I rope is to plan out in detail when and how I will rope so that’s it’s as painless and quick as it can be.

 

[ViciousKanga]

What do you want in life?

MONEY SUCCESS AND POWER

 

[umsure]

MONEY SUCCESS AND POWER

Who is going to give those to you as a sub5

Also I have money and it’s useless

 

[ViciousKanga]

Who is going to give those to you as a sub5

Also I have money and it’s useless

i dont have much money but if i was a millionaire i can do anything and not give a fuck about what normies think of me. true as a sub5 nothhings gonna go right for me

 

[SilverBullet]

it’s up to to you. Decide if the things in this life are valuable enough for you to stay around. I’m in chronic pain 24/7 and KHHV. Some days I can cope, some I do random shit to pass the time. If you feel a cope is losing its effectiveness, pick up another one. I relate to that pain in heart/stomach feeling. It never goes away. I’ve accepted my suffering.

 

[B33troot]

If you can't cope
And you've lost all hope
And all you do is mope
Then it's time to....

Nah, just kidding.

 

[sonogonz]

Every day, I desire to live a life like others. Unfortunately, my face and body are severely disfigured (confirmed by multiple doctors) without good treatment.

I want a group of friends, a gf, sex, to be valued by society. But because of the way I look, I never will.

vidya, LDAR, etc. have lost their effectiveness as copes for me. Every day my heart hurts and I’m constantly in mental pain wanting to die.

I’m khhv at 26. Am I being forced to rope against my will?

atp shit just never gets better so just keep coping till its time to rope

 

[Abi]

The key is to cope until you have no choice but to rope.

TRUE

 

[Abi]

It's entirely up to you whether you want to jump rope or not, but do you think we should do these things? Enjoy our food, cars, travel the world, alcohol and drugs, certain hobbies?

 

[Abi]

The key is to cope until you have no choice but to rope.

But it will take a lot of courage dude

 

[umsure]

It's entirely up to you whether you want to jump rope or not, but do you think we should do these things? Enjoy our food, cars, travel the world, alcohol and drugs, certain hobbies?

There is nothing to enjoy about those things alone. Food is less important to our survival than validation, acceptance, love, and romance. We are social beings. Those other material things are non-essential and lose their meaning without others to share them with. I am permanently disfigured.

 

[Abi]

There is nothing to enjoy about those things alone. Food is less important to our survival than validation, acceptance, love, and romance. We are social beings. Those other material things are non-essential and lose their meaning without others to share them with. I am permanently disfigured.

Copeeeeee

 

[Pesttanz]

Go out like a hERo in GTA

 

[sanctusdeus1958]

There is more than just this life. I guarantee you that if you had a gf and "friends" you would eventually be right back where you started. The only thing that matters is God. You can call this another cope but tell me how well are the other copes are going for you?

 

[umsure]

There is more than just this life. I guarantee you that if you had a gf and "friends" you would eventually be right back where you started. The only thing that matters is God. You can call this another cope but tell me how well are the other copes are going for you?

I will never believe in an imaginary fairy

I have to live with my reality every day. Thanks God, for giving me hell on Earth. Even if there was a God, I'd hate him with every ounce of my being.

 

[NeverGetUp]

Idk what to tell ya. Cope till you rope

 

[sanctusdeus1958]

I will never believe in an imaginary fairy

I have to live with my reality every day. Thanks God, for giving me hell on Earth. Even if there was a God, I'd hate him with every ounce of my being.

It's not an imaginary fairy, you're very wrong. He does exist. Do you really believe nothing created everything? There had to be a creator. In regards to your notion about God giving you "hell" this is completely false. God loves you, he created you and gave you a soul. If God stopped thinking about you, we'll you would simply stop existing. He died for you while he knew all the sins you would committed and he did it with love. This life is more than just sex and relationships. This is the honest truth.

I Samuel 16:7 NKJV​

But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not look at his appearance or at his physical stature, because I have refused him. For the LORD does not see as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.”

 

[umsure]

It's not an imaginary fairy, you're very wrong. He does exist. Do you really believe nothing created everything? There had to be a creator. In regards to your notion about God giving you "hell" this is completely false. God loves you, he created you and gave you a soul. If God stopped thinking about you, we'll you would simply stop existing. He died for you while he knew all the sins you would committed and he did it with love. This life is more than just sex and relationships. This is the honest truth.

I Samuel 16:7 NKJV​

But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not look at his appearance or at his physical stature, because I have refused him. For the LORD does not see as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.”

Ignored

 

[sanctusdeus1958]

Ignored

If you ever want to talk I'm here

 

[decafincel]

Try doing volunteerism or find a cause to work towards

 

[Aku no Hana]

Every day, I desire to live a life like others. Unfortunately, my face and body are severely disfigured (confirmed by multiple doctors) without good treatment.

I want a group of friends, a gf, sex, to be valued by society. But because of the way I look, I never will.

vidya, LDAR, etc. have lost their effectiveness as copes for me. Every day my heart hurts and I’m constantly in mental pain wanting to die.

I’m khhv at 26. Am I being forced to rope against my will?

Here's something important that can't be said enough:

No one should ever rope or give up before attempting to LatAmMax or SEAMax.

What is your height?

You may have a bad face, which will always make things hard, but provided you're average/above average in height, you should absolutely not give up before Moneymaxxing + Gymmaxxing + trying Mexico or the Philippines. It will take years, but you will eventually arrive at your goal and destination. Just do the Philippines if you don't want to learn Spanish because people speak English there. In these countries, there are countless young attractive women who are below average in height. Even with a bad face, if you're average/tall, in shape, and have money, unless you're extremely disabled or disfigured, you shouldn't have much trouble finding a girlfriend. It's simply too early for you to give up. Don't be like ER and go ER because you're "white woman or nothing."

I'm on this site because I'm in New York — New York Shitty is absolutely hell on earth, among the most retarded places in the country and world and the most overrated place in human history, and because I'm 5'5. I seriously considered Southeast Asia and Mexico myself, but now I'm bent on Turkey, (one half of my family speak the language, being Azeri Turks from Iran) and if I can't manage to make it work, I will give up. I'm 28.

 

[UglyVirgin]

Don’t kys nigga

 

[AlexAnguish]

Every day, I desire to live a life like others. Unfortunately, my face and body are severely disfigured (confirmed by multiple doctors) without good treatment.

I want a group of friends, a gf, sex, to be valued by society. But because of the way I look, I never will.

vidya, LDAR, etc. have lost their effectiveness as copes for me. Every day my heart hurts and I’m constantly in mental pain wanting to die.

I’m khhv at 26. Am I being forced to rope against my will?

"Roping is gay unless you take out stupid people with you. Then you become a hero.

Roping without revenge = an hero. The most pathetic shit ever.

You're not gay are you?"

 

[the kurdish loner]

why can you not get group of friends?

 

[the kurdish loner]

There is nothing to enjoy about those things alone. Food is less important to our survival than validation, acceptance, love, and romance. We are social beings. Those other material things are non-essential and lose their meaning without others to share them with. I am permanently disfigured.

how disfigured are you? what are your medical conditions?

 

[umsure]

Here's something important that can't be said enough:

No one should ever rope or give up before attempting to LatAmMax or SEAMax.

What is your height? You may have a bad face, which will always make things hard, but provided you're average/above average in height, you should absolutely not give up before Moneymaxxing + Gymmaxxing + trying Mexico or the Philippines. It will take years, but you will eventually arrive at your goal and destination. Just do the Philippines if you don't want to learn Spanish because people speak English there. In these countries, there are countless young attractive women who are below average in height. Even with a bad face, if you're average/tall, in shape, and have money, unless you're extremely disabled or disfigured, you shouldn't have much trouble finding a girlfriend. It's simply too early for you to give up. Don't be like ER and go ER because you're "white woman or nothing."

I'm on this site because I'm in New York — New York Shitty is absolutely hell on earth, among the most retarded places in the country and world and the most overrated place in human history, and because I'm 5'5. I seriously considered Southeast Asia and Mexico myself, but now I'm bent on Turkey, (one half of my family speak the language, being Azeri Turks from Iran) and if I can't manage to make it work, I will give up. I'm 28.

I have lived in California and visited NYC, so I get your pain. Top tier women all around you, but you can't get any of them. Much more brutal existence than being an incel in SEA or India.

I want sex and an LTR.

Geomaxxing for sex is an option, but I'd consider it in the same category as escortcelling. I can afford escorts here, probably more attractive than women abroad anyways. Plus the idea of being an older man preying on younger women for sex is not attractive enough to me to do for the long-term.

Geomaxxing for an LTR with a foreign woman is also an option, and I would consider it. But tbh, I'd probably rope before overcoming the barrier and logistics required to carry out that plan.

I hope it works out for you.

 

[Aku no Hana]

Geomaxxing for an LTR with a foreign woman is also an option, and I would consider it. But tbh, I'd probably rope before overcoming the barrier and logistics required to carry out that plan.

You're only 26 years old so you're 2 years younger than me. I have absolutely no money and never have, and you say you have enough to afford escorts.

When you die you are dead forever. So why kill yourself before even trying to find a long term relationship with an adequate woman in another country, when you have nothing to lose by trying? The only barrier and logistics to travelling abroad to meet a woman is money, which you apparently have. And presumably you're a U.S. citizen who has a U.S. passport so can travel visa-free to all the countries I've brought up. It makes no sense to kill yourself on the assumption you could never have this before even trying to. Unless you're actually disabled or something, not an impression you've given me so far. I for one am not going to consider suicide until I try somewhere else.

Wilkes McDermid didn't even try to SEAmaxx before roping, even acknowledging in his suicide note the only country he tried besides the U.K. was South Africa. (point 10. in the FAQ) Obviously SEA countries are a different experience. (maybe he felt he'd face discrimination there for being Chinese, who knows?)

I have lived in California and visited NYC, so I get your pain. Top tier women all around you, but you can't get any of them. Much more brutal existence than being an incel in SEA or India.

Yes, NYC is hell. It's so skewed, warped, stupid and expensive it isn't even worth it for the guy who has an attractive girlfriend due to what he has to do to maintain this and the fact he could have a far, far, nicer place to live, overall quality of life (less work) if he lived somewhere else. It would be wiser to save as much money as possible and move to Mexico before getting into a relationship, than getting sucked into NYC or any stupid expensive american city past the point of no return. (you can also find a more attractive woman with far less money in Mexico.) There's absolutely no actual basis for pride in "making it" here because no one except rich people "make it," everyone else is barely getting by and saying they "made it" to cope. There is nothing special about New York, it is crowded and dirty and ugly, this special "New York" feeling is just coping for all these people who have to slave away to barely not afford it just so they can be like "I live in the city with the most billionaires in the world!"

 

[umsure]

You're only 26 years old so you're 2 years younger than me. I have absolutely no money and never have, and you say you have enough to afford escorts.

When you die you are dead forever. So why kill yourself before even trying to find a long term relationship with an adequate woman in another country, when you have nothing to lose by trying? The only barrier and logistics to travelling abroad to meet a woman is money, which you apparently have. And presumably you're a U.S. citizen who has a U.S. passport so can travel visa-free to all the countries I've brought up. It makes no sense to kill yourself on the assumption you could never have this before even trying to. Unless you're actually disabled or something, not an impression you've given me so far. I for one am not going to consider suicide until I try somewhere else.

Wilkes McDermid didn't even try to SEAmaxx before roping, even acknowledging in his suicide note the only country he tried besides the U.K. was South Africa. (point 10. in the FAQ) Obviously SEA countries are a different experience. (maybe he felt he'd face discrimination there for being Chinese, who knows?)



Yes, NYC is hell. It's so skewed, warped, stupid and expensive it isn't even worth it for the guy who has an attractive girlfriend due to what he has to do to maintain this and the fact he could have a far, far, nicer place to live, overall quality of life (less work) if he lived somewhere else. It would be wiser to save as much money as possible and move to Mexico before getting into a relationship, than getting sucked into NYC or any stupid expensive american city past the point of no return. (you can also find a more attractive woman with far less money in Mexico.) There's absolutely no actual basis for pride in "making it" here because no one except rich people "make it," everyone else is barely getting by and saying they "made it" to cope. There is nothing special about New York, it is crowded and dirty and ugly, this special "New York" feeling is just coping for all these people who have to slave away to barely not afford it just so they can be like "I live in the city with the most billionaires in the world!"

It all comes down to whether I want to do all of that or just rope. I appreciate the ideas, though. You've at least inspired me to go find some geomaxxing forums and see what others say.

 

[Qizarate]

It all comes down to whether I want to do all of that or just rope. I appreciate the ideas, though. You've at least inspired me to go find some geomaxxing forums and see what others say.

Death will come on it's own, no need to shortcut

 

[coping_manlet]

The key is to cope until you have no choice but to go ER on a frat house

 

[Aku no Hana]

Death will come on it's own, no need to shortcut

I understand a truecel who has tried everything roping.

But a 26 year old with money who hasn't even tried MexicoMaxxing or SEAMaxxing yet isn't that.

I think that even if you have an unattractive/below average face, if you're of moderate/reasonable height, (anything over 5'5) have money, and are in shape, you can find a moderately attractive or average woman willing to be with you if you go to a country like Mexico, Ecuador, Peru, Vietnam, Thailand or the Philippines, especially if you're young. Even if you are short (say, 5'2 - 5'5) you can find a girlfriend in these countries if you moneymaxx and gymmaxx due to the fact the women in these countries are shorter than the average for the U.S.A.

Therefore, unless one is disabled or disfigured, roping before trying this doesn't strike me as reasonable. In every way, these countries afford better opportunities, for cost of living and height. All you have to do is get up and take a plane there because their visa policy is also kind to U.S. citizens. (you can even buy permanent residency in the Philippines) If you choose the Philippines, you don't even have to learn another language, since most people speak English anywhere you'd be.

With Wilkes McDermid, while I think he was mostly a heightcel and ricecel, I also honestly think being a mentalcel was a (minor) factor. (compared to what I just said.) Again, his FAQ has him acknowledging the prospect of going to another countries, and he absurdly acts like he tried other places because he did one experiment in Cape Town South Africa. (a place where he would obviously have no more luck than London, because are very tall and there's few Asians.) It's notable he didn't try Southeast Asia, not that he should have had to go all the way there, but that's not the point.

 

[umsure]

I understand a truecel who has tried everything roping.

But a 26 year old with money who hasn't even tried MexicoMaxxing or SEAMaxxing yet isn't that.

I think that even if you have an unattractive/below average face, if you're of moderate/reasonable height, (anything over 5'5) have money, and are in shape, you can find a moderately attractive or average woman willing to be with you if you go to a country like Mexico, Ecuador, Peru, Vietnam, Thailand or the Philippines, especially if you're young. Even if you are short (say, 5'2 - 5'5) you can find a girlfriend in these countries if you moneymaxx and gymmaxx due to the fact the women in these countries are shorter than the average for the U.S.A.

Therefore, unless one is disabled or disfigured, roping before trying this doesn't strike me as reasonable. In every way, these countries afford better opportunities, for cost of living and height. All you have to do is get up and take a plane there because their visa policy is also kind to U.S. citizens. (you can even buy permanent residency in the Philippines) If you choose the Philippines, you don't even have to learn another language, since most people speak English anywhere you'd be.

With Wilkes McDermid, while I think he was mostly a heightcel and ricecel, I also honestly think being a mentalcel was a (minor) factor. (compared to what I just said.) Again, his FAQ has him acknowledging the prospect of going to another countries, and he absurdly acts like he tried other places because he did one experiment in Cape Town South Africa. (a place where he would obviously have no more luck than London, because are very tall and there's few Asians.) It's notable he didn't try Southeast Asia, not that he should have had to go all the way there, but that's not the point.

Wilkes is resting now while I'm suffering. Kind of jealous of him.

Sad it's come to geomaxxing and beta buxxing for a desperate foreigner foid only for her to cuck you and possibly leave you once she gets what she wants whether that's money or green card. Also her denying you from sex and giving you shitty sex as an extortion tactic, as can be seen on multiple TLC 90 day fiance videos. I also don't get how that would solve the issue of genuine romantic love and physical attraction when it's clearly for money, basically just another version of a sugar baby that's more affordable than in the states.

Brutal.