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I cant cope any longer, being a NEET is soul crushing

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I cant sit here and rot while everyone else enjoys their holidays. Ive decided to try to go out and make freinds and get a job. Gonna learn a trade and make something of my life, im only 21. The NEET life will only drive you to suicidal thoughts and depression. anything is better than this. video games only entertain you for so long, soon u realize how sad it is that ur inside rotting while everyone else has fun.
 
I'd rather stick a nail in my toe and kick a wall than have to speak or party with anybody. Are you an extrovert?
 
GunnaSecure said:
I'd rather stick a nail in my toe and kick a wall than have to speak or party with anybody. Are you an extrovert?
im introverted and socially awkward, but i cant take this life any longer. im gonna try to become more extroverted.
 
wishiwasbigger said:
im introverted and socially awkward, but i cant take this life any longer. im gonna try to become more extroverted.

You can't just become extroverted. I hope you're successful in finding friends but you're going to depress yourself really fast if you get in a rush to look for friends. I also know the feel of finding friends but quickly getting completely fucking tired of them.
 
There is no other option
 
ArtoriasWolf said:
There is no other option
well im definetly not gonna ever rope, way too much of a pussy for anything like that and dont wanna do that to my parents and family

so the only option is sink or swim for me


GunnaSecure said:
wishiwasbigger said:
im introverted and socially awkward, but i cant take this life any longer. im gonna try to become more extroverted.
You can't just become extroverted. I hope you're successful in finding friends but you're going to depress yourself really fast if you get in a rush to look for friends. I also know the feel of finding friends but quickly getting completely fucking tired of them.
i will do it over time then, its not a big deal if it doesnt happen quickly because anything is better than what im doing right now
 
Meanwhile I'm over here breathing for the first time in about a year because I've been wageslaving and studyceling non-stop since last January, thinking about how I'd rather end it than go back to uni in a few weeks.

Not like I stopped working or stopped going to my internship, but not having uni suffocating me for the past 6 days has felt like a different life. If someone could put me on NEETbux or UBI right now, I'd drop everything and resort to a life of mediocrity in a heartbeat because I am so, so weak and tired at the moment.
 
wishiwasbigger said:
I cant sit here and rot while everyone else enjoys their holidays. Ive decided to try to go out and make freinds and get a job. Gonna learn a trade and make something of my life, im only 21. The NEET life will only drive you to suicidal thoughts and depression. anything is better than this. video games only entertain you for so long, soon u realize how sad it is that ur inside rotting while everyone else has fun.

Trust me man, NEETceling is the only way to go. I'm 31 and this is the life. Lift twice a day and dick around for the rest of the day. Pretty fun stuff man.

You'll regret wageslaving. Guarantee it
 
blickpall said:
If someone could put me on NEETbux or UBI right now, I'd drop everything and resort to a life of mediocrity in a heartbeat because I am so, so weak and tired at the moment.

It would tear you down eventually. Human's are trapped between suffering and ennui.

Although you've probly read Schopenhauer, so you know this.
 
A Good Friend said:
It would tear you down eventually. Human's are trapped between suffering and ennui.

Although you've probly read Schopenhauer, so you know this.

Absolutely, I'd find a new thing to be miserable about, or would consider my existence just as miserable as I consider it now. However, at least I wouldn't be working so damn hard at being miserable in this alternative existence. The misery would wash over me like waves on a shallow beach. The misery now is more like running on a treadmill trying to reach actualization, escape guilt, while fueled by anxiety.
 
blackpill_incel said:
wishiwasbigger said:
I cant sit here and rot while everyone else enjoys their holidays. Ive decided to try to go out and make freinds and get a job. Gonna learn a trade and make something of my life, im only 21. The NEET life will only drive you to suicidal thoughts and depression. anything is better than this. video games only entertain you for so long, soon u realize how sad it is that ur inside rotting while everyone else has fun.
Trust me man, NEETceling is the only way to go. I'm 31 and this is the life. Lift twice a day and dick around for the rest of the day. Pretty fun stuff man.
You'll regret wageslaving. Guarantee it
sounds boring as motherfucking shit, u get tired of dicking around eventually, and lifting is a cope and boring, what is the end goal of lifting?
 
wishiwasbigger said:
sounds boring as motherfucking shit, u get tired of dicking around eventually, and lifting is a cope and boring, what is the end goal of lifting?

Jesus Christ. I hate people that go around saying cope to everything like a duck. Lifting makes you feel good. I can't explain it to most of you low t faggots but @CopingGymcel knows what I mean. Also don't say I didn't warn you. Have fun working yourself into the ground slaving away at a job you hate. Fucking idiot
 
blickpall said:
A Good Friend said:
It would tear you down eventually. Human's are trapped between suffering and ennui.
Although you've probly read Schopenhauer, so you know this.
Absolutely, I'd find a new thing to be miserable about, or would consider my existence just as miserable as I consider it now. However, at least I wouldn't be working so damn hard at being miserable in this alternative existence. The misery would wash over me like waves on a shallow beach. The misery now is more like running on a treadmill trying to reach actualization, escape guilt, while fueled by anxiety.

Then again, you're setting yourself up financially, so if you slacked-off now you'd just be delaying misery. Right now you're betting present misery against future comfort. Chances are it will work out, or you could get hit by a train.
 
blackpill_incel said:
Jesus Christ. I hate people that go around saying cope to everything like a duck. Lifting makes you feel good. I can't explain it to most of you low t faggots but @CopingGymcel knows what I mean. Also don't say I didn't warn you. Have fun working yourself into the ground slaving away at a job you hate. Fucking idiot

@wishiwasbigger Don't get triggered and flame back, please. He can't respond for 6 hours.
 
A Good Friend said:
Then again, you're setting yourself up financially, so if you slacked-off now you'd just be delaying misery. Right now you're betting present misery against future comfort. Chances are it will work out, or you could get hit by a train.

Working in the present for hypothetical reward in the future has always been soul-draining for an addict like me. Fuck me. Thanks for the support, kind of.
 
Work is horrible, but being a NEET is unsustainable. What a life.
 
Being a NEET and making money online is the best thing that happened to me
 
NeverSubmit said:
Being a NEET and making money online is the best thing that happened to me
this is the fuckin dream tbh, if i could somehow set this up id be ecstatic, although i would still find other things to do to keep myself busy
 
I miss my NEET days. Consider yourself lucky.
 
I have my holidays rn and it feels like being a NEET


it's hell
 
I NEETed for several years after school.  I had depression and suicidal ideation. Workceling got rid of my SA, made me more NT, low inhibition and confident. I hate interacting with people. Before I was workceling I hated just as much. Difference is now I'm not a pushover. I'm confident when I have to be, always fight my corner and generally dont take shit from anyone. That being said, I'd still prefer going back to the NEET lifestyle anyday. I feel that with a blackpilled mindset I cant end up suffering from depression.
 
Newbite said:
I NEETed for several years after school. I had depression and suicidal ideation. Workceling got rid of my SA, made me more NT, low inhibition and confident. I hate interacting with people. Before I was workceling I hated just as much. Difference is now I'm not a pushover. I'm confident when I have to be, always fight my corner and generally dont take shit from anyone. That being said, I'd still prefer going back to the NEET lifestyle anyday. I feel that with a blackpilled mindset I cant end up suffering from depression.
what do you do for work, and thanks for the success story bro
 
wishiwasbigger said:
what do you do for work, and thanks for the success story bro

Some crappy part time wharehouse job where I dont have to interact much with people. 

I cant work full time because that would be too much. At least this way i have time for rotting and vidya aswell.
 
Being NEET is great. Just lol if you think wageslaving is going to make you any less suicidal and depressed.
 
Here's the solution: 2 weeks off 1 week on. Go hard for one week then recharge, lift, cope, whatever it is you do and then get back at it. That would be the perfect balance of feeling some forward motion, but having time to just breathe. Reporting to the same retarded building day in and day out gets so soul-crushing, and dealing with subtle mogs and halfhearted small talk is absolutely life-draining. Do we really need to report in 260 days out of the year?
 
i_a_m_i said:
Being NEET is great. Just lol if you think wageslaving is going to make you any less suicidal and depressed.

this right here lol

wageslaving for nothing and then going back to ur own apartments which u can now afford can push u even closer to sui
 
When you run out of cope
 
It's all miserable when you can't escape the true factor that makes you miserable. Your inceldom, looks, body, etc.

I'm involuntarily NEET via disability going on 9 years now.
 
NeverSubmit said:
Being a NEET and making money online is the best thing that happened to me

What do you do if you don't mind me asking?
 
Can confirm, I'm a NEET and the thought of just rotting while your peers are finding love is soulcrushing. I want to commit suicide but I can't do it, so instead I suffer in this little room of mine hoping for an escape that never comes. That's why I turn to masturbating, because while masturbating and when I cum, I don't think about anything at all, I forget about all my problems, all my thoughts are gone in an instant.. but now I'm doing nofap so there is no escape for me anymore..
 
NeverSubmit said:
Being a NEET and making money online is the best thing that happened to me


RREEEEEEEEE said:
Can confirm, I'm a NEET and the thought of just rotting while your peers are finding love is soulcrushing.

Nobody is finding love in 2017. Because it simply does not exist. Women can't love men, they only love what men can provide: status, resources, security, genetics for offspring. I can't believe you've been posting here and haven't swallowed this black pill.

The only thing that can love you unconditionally is a male friend (no homo), or a pet, like a dog or cat. And possibly an artificial intelligence, depending on how it is programmed.
 
BlackPillDealer said:
NeverSubmit said:
Being a NEET and making money online is the best thing that happened to me


RREEEEEEEEE said:
Can confirm, I'm a NEET and the thought of just rotting while your peers are finding love is soulcrushing.
Nobody is finding love in 2017. Because it simply does not exist. Women can't love men, they only love what men can provide: status, resources, security, genetics for offspring. I can't believe you've been posting here and haven't swallowed this black pill.
The only thing that can love you unconditionally is a male friend (no homo), or a pet, like a dog or cat. And possibly an artificial intelligence, depending on how it is programmed.



Parents love their children unconditionally as well. And I don't buy that "women can't love men!" bullcrap. You're confusing loyalty for love. Yeah, a lot of women, especially in the Western world, aren't loyal at all. They'll hop from best provider to best provider, but they're definitely capable of love.
 
quazz said:
What do you do if you don't mind me asking?
I make money doing online arbitrage also I do dropshipping
 
RREEEEEEEEE said:
Parents love their children unconditionally as well. And I don't buy that "women can't love men!" bullcrap. You're confusing loyalty for love. Yeah, a lot of women, especially in the Western world, aren't loyal at all. They'll hop from best provider to best provider, but they're definitely capable of love.

Women don't love men, they love what men provide: resources, status, genetics for offspring, tingles.

For women love is what you can provide them. For men love is about sacrifice. You are expecting women to love like men do, which is on a biological level not possible for most women. Maybe there are some out there with mutated genetics who are capable of this, but I'd say its a very small minority.
 

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