Nebuchadnezzar said:
I know several other incels in real life including family members, and I cannot be friends with them, I prefer to be friends a thousand times with normies or chads than other incels. Even being an incel I shy away from the company of others like me and prefer solitude (despite sharing so many things in common). I can't explain exactly why, but for some reason all the other incels I meet in real life disgust me.
For me it kind of depends. I've not met any self-aware incels / social outcasts
(with the exception of a redpilled dude who thinks I'm bluepilled and haven't picked up on his redpill terminology XD but this redpilled dude is a high-tier normie 6'3" college athlete - he's actually a good friend because we share similar outlooks - gee, I wonder why)
But for the incels / social outcasts I've met, each one falls into like one of two categories for me.
The first are pricks who will find some autistic, unimportant obsession, have that one obsession be a defining thing of who they are as people, and look down on people who don't have that same autistic, unimportant obsession.
For example, in college, they might dedicate everything to an easy-A course in school or they join a larping medieval club and look down on people who don't take that club extremely seriously. I took an easy A medieval england course in college and we had to draft an essay, this mother fucker created his own "Bayeux Tapestry" for his essay. Like what the actual fuck.
After college, these are the people who join niche religious groups and act extremely zealous in them or groups that are meant to improve your skills in life but they put 150% effort into these groups and hate anyone who isn't doing likewise.
It's like there's a gaping hole in all these people's lives but they don't want to actually confront what it is (i.e., being undesired) and what they should be putting their effort to, because it would hurt their own ego or be too painful to swallow
The second are genuinely nice people but who are far more socially inept than even I am, and they can be cringy to be around.
There's like no in between, these are the two categories.