I cannot masturbate. I have never ejaculated.

[CrackyChanFan]

I am unable to masturbate. When I achieve an erection I do not feel any pleasure whatsoever when trying to masturbate. None. I just get bored and stop then wait to go soft.
I have released some fluid while sleeping; the fluid is sticky but clear, so I don't think that it is semen.

It is hell. Being an incel, I cannot release or get rid of sexual thoughts by masturbating.
I have been to the doctors and had the doc do a prostate scan; my prostate is normal sized. I had a blood test; the doc said my testosterone levels were 'normal'.

I hate it. Not only will I never have a sexual connection, but I also will never experience any kind of sexual pleasure whatsoever.

 

[Zesto]

The normal range for testosterone is comically long. I think it's something like 250 - 1150.

Get on NoFap.

 

[Mainländer]

How old are you?

I actually was like this until 19 because of phimosis. But I did have nocturne emissions since 14 or so.

 

[Deleted member 13256]

NOFAP GOD

 

[CrackyChanFan]

How old are you?

I actually was like this until 19 because of phimosis. But I did have nocturne emissions since 14 or so.

I will turn 24 very soon.

I don't think I have phimosis, but my foreskin does not naturally retract when I get an erection. The doc said that's not that unusual though.
I don't know.
I am worried I have some irreparable nerve damage.
I would hope that somehow it could just be solved by circumcision or testosterone replacement or something.
Some people online recommended prostate orgasms. It seems kind of disgusting to me though.

 

[Zesto]

Some people online recommended prostate orgasms.

Get off /r9gay/ bro.

 

[Six]

Some people online recommended prostate orgasms. It seems kind of disgusting to me though.

That's nasty.

 

[CrackyChanFan]

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Get off /r9gay/ bro.

Yeah, I need to do that.
I am attracted to acetic philosophies. My body is broken and disgusting. It is skinny flat, flabby, weak and hairy. I can't run fast, lift heavy shit or ejaculate. I am a pathetic excuse for man and I fucking fucking hate it.

 

[Insomniac]

Damn. Surpsied you haven’t roped tbh.

 

[CrackyChanFan]

Damn. Surpsied you haven’t roped tbh.

I don't know any different. This is how it's always been.

 

[Lord Byron]

This sounds very strange to me. Usually something has to be seriously wrong for a man not to masturbate. Especially if he wants to.

You have obviously done the sensible thing and gone to a doctor. The only thing I can think of now is that it’s a mental cause.

If you can’t jerk it, you may actually be incapable of sex even if given the opportunity.

I’m sorry to hear all that OP. Very concerning.

 

[Deleted member 13256]

I don't know any different. This is how it's always been.

Maybe you need to improve your technique. Fapping is an art. Have you tried the overhand grip?

 

[CrackyChanFan]

Maybe you need to improve your technique. Fapping is an art. Have you tried the overhand grip?

I try doing lots of things. I don't like it. It just feels unpleasant or boring. I don't even know how it's supposed to feel. Men who I ask online are really unclear about how it's supposed to feel.

This sounds very strange to me. Usually something has to be seriously wrong for a man not to masturbate. Especially if he wants to.

You have obviously done the sensible thing and gone to a doctor. The only thing I can think of now is that it’s a mental cause.

If you can’t jerk it, you may actually be incapable of sex even if given the opportunity.

I’m sorry to hear all that OP. Very concerning.

I can get an erection just fine (although worryingly my erections are getting less frequent and softer than they were before now I am in my twenties) and presumably, in the unlikely event of me convincing a foid to have sex with me, I could just go indefinitely but experience no physical pleasure from it.

 

[Termus123]

I am unable to masturbate. When I achieve an erection I do not feel any pleasure whatsoever when trying to masturbate. None. I just get bored and stop then wait to go soft.
I have released some fluid while sleeping; the fluid is sticky but clear, so I don't think that it is semen.

It is hell. Being an incel, I cannot release or get rid of sexual thoughts by masturbating.
I have been to the doctors and had the doc do a prostate scan; my prostate is normal sized. I had a blood test; the doc said my testosterone levels were 'normal'.

I hate it. Not only will I never have a sexual connection, but I also will never experience any kind of sexual pleasure whatsoever.

Death grip syndrome /rope you’re fucked

 

[It's All Genetics]

Are u taking any SSRIs? Many people complain here about erectile dysfunction and general loss of libido after being prescribed some.

 

[Sad_Eunuch]

Have you gone to a sex therapist? I've heard of similar stories where sex therapists work with the guy fix the problem. Don't know what they do, but might be worth a shot. Not being able to even masturbate sounds pretty miserable.

 

[wizardcel]

that shit is psychological.

 

[Deleted member 13256]

Actually the first time I came was relatively late. Probably since I'm circumcised. I tried many times before I got it right. And when I did it was like I just beat a super hard video game or something. After that I fapped like 9 times a day for a month. The trick is you have to go hard on the tip. I can probably cum just by rubbing the back of the head and the bottom of the tip. But the best feeling is when you just go ham on the whole shaft.

 

[CrackyChanFan]

that shit is psychological.

How though? Surely it would be physical; I would have thought some nerve damage. There is something that I am supposed to be feeling that I am not.

 

[LilFatty]

So do you get a boner when you watch porn?

 

[Firefly]

Wait wtf?
How is this possible?
Listen bro just try every porn category out there maybe you have a very specific fetish

 

[everythingislava]

Holy shit. You're basically as truecel as it gets. I'm so fucking sorry for you..

 

[Unzöl]

Try some lube

 

[Deleted member 13256]

Try some lube

tbh first time I fapped with lube I came in 10 seconds.

 

[Unzöl]

tbh first time I fapped with lube I came in 10 seconds.

I've always fapped with lube otherwise it'd be painful LMAO

 

[Deleted member 13256]

I've always fapped with lube otherwise it'd be painful LMAO

I mean like actual sex lubricant. I started with vaseline and lotion but professional lube is another thing entirely.

 

[EthnicelNL]

I am unable to masturbate. When I achieve an erection I do not feel any pleasure whatsoever when trying to masturbate. None. I just get bored and stop then wait to go soft.
I have released some fluid while sleeping; the fluid is sticky but clear, so I don't think that it is semen.

It is hell. Being an incel, I cannot release or get rid of sexual thoughts by masturbating.
I have been to the doctors and had the doc do a prostate scan; my prostate is normal sized. I had a blood test; the doc said my testosterone levels were 'normal'.

I hate it. Not only will I never have a sexual connection, but I also will never experience any kind of sexual pleasure whatsoever.

Are you dickcel?

 

[CrackyChanFan]

Are you dickcel?

I am 6 inches when hard. Greek stature tier when flaccid.
It is painful when I try to pull the foreskin back when I am hard.

So do you get a boner when you watch porn?

Yes... well I used to. I find that really difficult these days. My brain is so used to the images that it is uninspiring. I am usually fully hard when I wake up in the morning though.

 

[Haircutbro]

Stretch your foreskin
Stop watching porn
Get your depression treated
Start to meditate, and when you are relaxed, think about a scenario that makes you horny, take your time and then masturbate, till you get an orgasm
If the fluid is not white, go to a doctor

 

[CrackyChanFan]

Stretch your foreskin
Stop watching porn
Get your depression treated
Start to meditate, and when you are relaxed, think about a scenario that makes you horny, take your time and then masturbate, till you get an orgasm
If the fluid is not white, go to a doctor

I don't like stretching my foreskin; it feels unpleasant. Nevertheless, I will try.
I don't really watch so much porn these days. It doesn't do anything to me anymore.
I don't think I am depressed. I go to work and find enjoyment in other things.
I don't understand meditation. What is it meant to entail? When I try reading about it online I get a range of 'think of nothing' to 'pray to Lord Vishnu'.

The fluid I produce in wet dreams has never been white. Always clear and very sticky. There is something very physically wrong with me.

 

[IronMike]

dont do it bro, DO NOT OPEN that can of beans

 

[Deleted member 14805]

DAMN I couldn't imagine being horny and not being able to release it. Holy shit I really feel bad for you man. Damn

 

[The Abyss]

I try doing lots of things. I don't like it. It just feels unpleasant or boring. I don't even know how it's supposed to feel. Men who I ask online are really unclear about how it's supposed to feel.


I can get an erection just fine (although worryingly my erections are getting less frequent and softer than they were before now I am in my twenties) and presumably, in the unlikely event of me convincing a foid to have sex with me, I could just go indefinitely but experience no physical pleasure from it.

Hmm, how it feels, I guess like a temporary muscle spasm in your groin, thigh area but pleasant as opposed to painful. Like globs shooting through your dick oh & haven't read the words cracky Chan in a looooooong time.

 

[CrackyChanFan]

Hmm, how it feels, I guess like a temporary muscle spasm in your groin, thigh area but pleasant as opposed to painful. Like globs shooting through your dick oh & haven't read the words cracky Chan in a looooooong time.

But what about the feeling prior to the actual orgasm? What does it feel like when you first start stroking?