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I cannot communicate well with people my age

IronMike

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Seems like I've lost the ability to have rapport with people my own age ever since I finished HS.

After HS, I went to community college for 2 years. So I missed out on the dorm experience, a major building block in becoming a normal functioning adult. In community college, My classmates ranged from 25 to 30, 40, 50+. As an 18 year old, it was difficult to relate with even the 25 y/os

After community college, I transferred to a state school. Since I missed those first 2 years, I had a difficult time making friends while in class. I eventually got a job on campus at the library, but most of my co-workers were grad school students. It was a little easier to relate at this point. But its only work, not true social events.

After graduating, I then went to work at a state agency. I am the youngest person in my department at 23, while the next youngest in 29, and she is married to a 40 y/o man, with 2 kids.

Oh and I also attend a church that has NO KIDS MY AGE.

Oh and my grandma has been developing dementia, so I spend a lot of my time, when not wagecucking, helping her out.

What are the chances of being isolated at every faucet of life from your own peers. CRAZY.
 
Same. I can communicate with younger ppl and to a lesser extent older ppl. Actual oldcels im fine with too
 
because they are degenarates
 
Same. I can communicate with younger ppl and to a lesser extent older ppl. Actual oldcels im fine with too
I have no issue talking with oldcels, I can talk with them until the cows come home. But when I'm talking with people my age, SPECIFICALLY WOMEN, I always get the short responses. Guys not so much.

But we all know thats because Im ugly and short.
 
I'm having a hard time too. I'm too shy for that shit.
 
I’m not into Drake, barbecues, or whatever late 20s-early 30s hipsters are into where I live. My interests used to be fairly “mainstream” but no one cared, I was an ugly ethnic-looking guy.
 
same tbh. Too autistic
 
I’m lucky my job forces me to interact with all age groups. I can talk in meetings in front of hundreds of people. I still can’t forget the first meeting I went to my face turned red and I started sweating but now I can speak for hours just fine. and I learned how to build relationships with the team I just still struggle with talking to someone who is in a higher position like my manager or supervisor.
 
Well tough tits! Get over it and go meet some oldcel cunts and do whatever,
note: I'm very very sleep deprived, I probably should not be posting rn
 
I’m lucky my job forces me to interact with all age groups. I can talk in meetings in front of hundreds of people. I still can’t forget the first meeting I went to my face turned red and I started sweating but now I can speak for hours just fine. and I learned how to build relationships with the team I just still struggle with talking to someone who is in a higher position like my manager or supervisor.
My job had (I resigned yesterday), had me front in center for our public involvement team. I mostly spoke with elderly people who complained about roadways, I never saw anyone in their early 20s at work or in the field.

I also love public speaking though, which is kind of weird for an incel.
 
So I missed out on the dorm experience, a major building block in becoming a normal functioning adult.
I thank God for having missed that shit. Miss me with the nightmares of Americuck culture.
 
I cannot communicate well with anyone tbh

I find it easier to connect with children and animals though. They don't judge me for who i am.
 
animals (pets) are the saviour of my sanity, cat ladies are high iq tbh ngl
My cat is my only friend. Love him so much.

Well I consider some of you on here my friends but I don't think that would be accurate since I don't know any of you but I've never known anyone really tbh..
 
Oh and my grandma has been developing dementia, so I spend a lot of my time, when not wagecucking, helping her out.

That's really nice of you! You sound like a great dude. :feelsokman:

Most people in these awful times don't care about family... the fact that you care enough about your old grandma to help take care of her is really something special, and you should be proud of that.
 
My cat is my only friend. Love him so much.

Well I consider some of you on here my friends but I don't think that would be accurate since I don't know any of you but I've never known anyone really tbh..
I have an extremely elderly pet and not sure what i'm going to do when it inevitably dies within the next few months
 
That's really nice of you! You sound like a great dude. :feelsokman:

Most people in these awful times don't care about family... the fact that you care enough about your old grandma to help take care of her is really something special, and you should be proud of that.
yeah dude as an incel, familial bonds mean everything:feelsokman:
 
I rarely got the chance to go through the socialization process properly
 
I have an extremely elderly pet and not sure what i'm going to do when it inevitably dies within the next few months
Sorry about that man. I'm dreading the day my only friend dies too.

Just gotta make the most of it i suppose. Life is very temporary.
 
Sorry about that man. I'm dreading the day my only friend dies too.

Just gotta make the most of it i suppose. Life is very temporary.
Yeah, I'm bracing myself now so I hope when it happens it will affect me less.
 
Millenials are fucking trash anyway.. 30+ y o people are good
 
last time i've been able to communicate well with ppl my age was when i was like 12
 
Everyone my age is boring as fuck. They're all in that "settle down and get serious about life" phase. I prefer to hang out with younger people these days.
 
Everyone my age is boring as fuck. They're all in that "settle down and get serious about life" phase. I prefer to hang out with younger people these days.
why were you banned a few days ago?

and I prefer the get serious about life phase. It hides my flaws with the opposite sex. In the serious phase there are more bbq's instead of nights at the bar
 
why were you banned a few days ago?

and I prefer the get serious about life phase. It hides my flaws with the opposite sex. In the serious phase there are more bbq's instead of nights at the bar
for implying that I'm not ugly.

idk, I need more stimulation to enjoy myself. Did enough of that low key shit when I was in high school.
 
for implying that I'm not ugly.

idk, I need more stimulation to enjoy myself. Did enough of that low key shit when I was in high school.
Mentalcels are legit. People need to stop pretending they are not tbh.
 

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