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Experiment I asked out 45 femcels on Reddit

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Most of them ignored me after 24 hours but a few replied. Here is what I gathered from the conversations:

Femcel #1:
  • Had a curry boyfriend for a year until she broke up with him (jfl)
  • Lost her virginity to said curry boyfriend
  • Dated another guy only 4 months after breaking up
  • Dated someone last week but he broke up with her
Sounds like a femcel right? :feelskek:

Femcel #2:
  • This one actually was a virgin and pretty old
  • Had gotten offers for sex from married men
  • Chatted with men on Reddit before but none of them met her standards
Femcel #3:
  • Ghosted me a few messages in :feelsbadman:
Femcel #4:
  • Ghosted me a few messages in and then blocked me (must be really desperate)
Femcel #5:
  • Showed me some attitude at first (guys must love talking to her)
  • Went on multiple dates despite being morbidly obese and not trying for the last 6 years
  • Has had tons of guys slide into her dm's and talk to her
Femcel #6:
  • Rejected me first message in
Femcel #7:
  • Wasn't actually a femcel just liked giving advice :rolleyes:
Femcel #8
  • Was actually semi close to me in location but ghosted me a few messages in
Femcel #9-45:
  • Did not reply
In the end I was able to get 0 dates with a femcel because I was either too far away, too young for them, they rejected me or they ignored me.

What I learned

1. Femcels are not incels but they are also not chad only. These femcels are nowhere near involuntary celibate. They have been offered sex many times and have either refused because they are not attracted to the man, or they want a long term relationship. If they were allowed on this forum, they would immediately be banned for being fakecels. However, femcels are also not Chad only. They are mostly looking for an average man or better as long as he will agree to be in a long term relationship with her (which obviously isn't happening). Either way, their standards are far too high for their level of looks and they should lower them.

2. Relationships are cucked. The second thing I realized was that relationships are cucked and are a female desire not a male desire. It reminds me of what @BlkPillPres always says: love doesn't exist for men, we only want sex. A lot of the women I talked to need a relationship. Not for the sex or the dick but for someone to lean on for emotional support, someone to cuddle with and someone to keep them company. I realized that I have never wanted a relationship for those reasons, I have only wanted a relationship for the frequent sex. If you want a relationship for anything other than lots of sex, you are cucked and feminine or have been influenced by Hollywood.

3. Women will never understand inceldom. Whenever I told these women I was a virgin, they were perplexed. Even if I told them I was 5'5, skinny and ugly, they would still tell me that all I need is confidence or to just approach more women. This is why we should never let women on this forum, they can never truly understand what we are going through.

4. Most femcels can solve their problems easily. Almost all if not all femcels can easily get high value men by simply putting some work into themselves. The problem with almost all of the femcels I talked to was a) they were not trying to meet men at all or b) they were overweight. Both of these have really simple fixes: meet some more men and go to the gym for an hour a day. Incels on the other hand have it a lot harder. We cannot suddenly grow taller, change our race and look better (without risky surgery and thousands of dollars). The only option an incels has to get the hot girl he desires is to moneymaxx which takes luck, stress and hours upon hours of work or to get better at talking to women which takes years of practice and rejection.


Tagging people who may be interested: @Ray @foofuufou @Philistine @racoon4 @Rimiru @Liptusg @Lycan @MARTYRDOM GOD X @fast_curry @IncelWithHate @lukesxber @Robtical
 
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Sub-8 coping fakecels on suicide watch for not even trying.
 
you want a relationship for anything beyond lots of sex, then you are cucked and feminine or have been influenced by Hollywood.
You are cucked fag, I wan't to dominate and treat a foid like the filthy toilet she is, that would give me pleasure. I can't do that to a escort, in fact escorts dominate their cucked clients by leeching off them :lul:
Women like to be beaten by their Chad boyfriends
 
This is what i've found so far too, they've really big standards. You're better off just hitting up your local library girl or an acquitance. They probably will be less judgamental about it and also won't be so dismissive. What baffles me is how these landwhale looking women get tons of thirsty dudes slidding in their dms.

I can't get my dick up when looking at them, maybe it's something that happens after super long periods of no masturbation? I'm not sure if i would want that tbh.

I think a lot of people here want relationships, i only want sex too. But few people like to admit it, they want companionship and or feel validated. Positive reinforcement is a thing after all too. Best case scenario you can go to a hooker if your looks don't measure to women standards.

Imagine getting asked by random dudes if you want to meet up to get coffe or something without even looking at your face, that's is the tutorial mode women live in
 
Tldr "femcels" are not real
 
Whoever thinks femcels have things anywhere near as bad as incels need to check their brains for tumors growing in it.
 
This is what i've found so far too, they've really big standards. You're better off just hitting up your local library girl or an acquitance. They probably will be less judgamental about it and also won't be so dismissive. What baffles me is how these landwhale looking women get tons of thirsty dudes slidding in their dms.
True. If she even has a reddit account she has already probably had tons of guys slide into her dm's.

Like I said, the funniest part is that they could easily get the high value males they desire if they simply lost some weight but they can't even take the time to do that.

I think a lot of people here want relationships, i only want sex too. But few people like to admit it, they want companionship and or feel validated. Positive reinforcement is a thing after all too. Best case scenario you can go to a hooker if your looks don't measure to women standards.
True. I don't think I've wanted a relationship for a really long time or maybe ever, just sex.

Imagine getting asked by random dudes if you want to meet up to get coffe or something without even looking at your face, that's is the tutorial mode women live in
Pretty much. Even if they're ugly they can still get guys wanting to fuck them just not the high value guys they want. And they aren't even willing to put 5 seconds of effort in to get those high value guys anyways.
 
Stop using the fucking word "femcels" as if it's something that exists, holy shit :feelsree:
 
BTW, I'll update if anymore "femcels" reply to me
 
Stop using the fucking word "femcels" as if it's something that exists, holy shit :feelsree:
True good point, I'm too lazy to go back and put everytime I mention "femcel" in quotes though.
 
It reminds me of what @BlkPillPres always says: love doesn't exist for men, we only want sex.
What he says is wrong because sex is the last thing I want. Actually, this sentence doesn't make any sense, since almost everyone has access to sex via escorts. But that's not what men want. Men want relationships. This fucking forum wouldn't exist if it was any different.
 
What he says is wrong because sex is the last thing I want. Actually, this sentence doesn't make any sense, since almost everyone has access to sex via escorts. But that's not what men want. Men want relationships. This fucking forum wouldn't exist if it was any different.
Yeah but we all know that sex with an escort is different from sex with a woman who actually wants to have sex with you. Sex with an escort is like a business transaction.

Still, sex with escorts might solve our problems if we can afford it
 
What he says is wrong because sex is the last thing I want. Actually, this sentence doesn't make any sense, since almost everyone has access to sex via escorts. But that's not what men want. Men want relationships. This fucking forum wouldn't exist if it was any different.
Nobody would be incel then since we can just pay for escorts, jfl at escortcuks
 
femcels are not real, they are fucking scum and they always get dicked down :feelsseriously:
 
2. Relationships are cucked. The second thing I realized was that relationships are cucked and are a female desire not a male desire. It reminds me of what @BlkPillPres always says: love doesn't exist for men, we only want sex. A lot of the women I talked to need a relationship. Not for the sex or the dick but for someone to lean on for emotional support, someone to cuddle with and someone to keep them company. I realized that I have never wanted a relationship for those reasons, I have only wanted a relationship for the frequent sex. If you want a relationship for anything other than lots of sex, you are cucked and feminine or have been influenced by Hollywood.
I disagree, relationships aren't necessarily cucked. For example, even if you only want sex, betabuxxing is good if you're sub-7 because you have almost no chance at casual sex. Being a chad married to a stacy who gives you lots of sex doesn't sound cucked either. BUT, if you're not chad chances of you actually getting cucked or divorced are somewhat high, marriage is a pretty stupid venture in this modern age.
 
You should have told them you are a criminal and 6ft and they'd be booking plane tickets to your state right away.
 
Most of them ignored me after 24 hours but a few replied. Here is what I gathered from the conversations:

Femcel #1:
  • Had a curry boyfriend for a year until she broke up with him (jfl)
  • Lost her virginity to said curry boyfriend
  • Dated another guy only 4 months after breaking up
  • Dated someone last week but he broke up with her
Sounds like a femcel right? :feelskek:

Femcel #2:
  • This one actually was a virgin and pretty old
  • Had gotten offers for sex from married men
  • Chatted with men on Reddit before but none of them met her standards
Femcel #3:
  • Ghosted me a few messages in :feelsbadman:
Femcel #4:
  • Ghosted me a few messages in and then blocked me (must be really desperate)
Femcel #5:
  • Showed me some attitude at first (guys must love talking to her)
  • Went on multiple dates despite being morbidly obese and not trying for the last 6 years
  • Has had tons of guys slide into her dm's and talk to her
Femcel #6:
  • Rejected me first message in
Femcel #7:
  • Wasn't actually a femcel just liked giving advice :rolleyes:
Femcel #8
  • Was actually semi close to me in location but ghosted me a few messages in
Femcel #9-45:
  • Did not reply
In the end I was able to get 0 dates with a femcel because I was either too far away, too young for them, they rejected me or they ignored me.

What I learned

1. Femcels are not incels but they are also not chad only. These femcels are nowhere near involuntary celibate. They have been offered sex many times and have either refused because they are not attracted to the man, or they want a long term relationship. If they were allowed on this forum, they would immediately be banned for being fakecels. However, femcels are also not Chad only. They are mostly looking for an average man or better as long as he will agree to be in a long term relationship with her (which obviously isn't happening). Either way, their standards are far too high for their level of looks and they should lower them.

2. Relationships are cucked. The second thing I realized was that relationships are cucked and are a female desire not a male desire. It reminds me of what @BlkPillPres always says: love doesn't exist for men, we only want sex. A lot of the women I talked to need a relationship. Not for the sex or the dick but for someone to lean on for emotional support, someone to cuddle with and someone to keep them company. I realized that I have never wanted a relationship for those reasons, I have only wanted a relationship for the frequent sex. If you want a relationship for anything other than lots of sex, you are cucked and feminine or have been influenced by Hollywood.

3. Women will never understand inceldom. Whenever I told these women I was a virgin, they were perplexed. Even if I told them I was 5'5, skinny and ugly, they would still tell me that all I need is confidence or to just approach more women. This is why we should never let women on this forum, they can never truly understand what we are going through.

4. Most femcels can solve their problems easily. Almost all if not all femcels can easily get high value men by simply putting some work into themselves. The problem with almost all of the femcels I talked to was a) they were not trying to meet men at all or b) they were overweight. Both of these have really simple fixes: meet some more men and go to the gym for an hour a day. Incels on the other hand have it a lot harder. We cannot suddenly grow taller, change our race and look better (without risky surgery and thousands of dollars). The only option an incels has to get the hot girl he desires is to moneymaxx which takes luck, stress and hours upon hours of work or to get better at talking to women which takes years of practice and rejection.


Tagging people who may be interested: @Ray @foofuufou @Philistine @racoon4 @Rimiru @Liptusg @Lycan @MARTYRDOM GOD X @fast_curry @IncelWithHate @lukesxber @Robtical


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O3PCgyo7b-c&t=9s
 
What he says is wrong because sex is the last thing I want. Actually, this sentence doesn't make any sense, since almost everyone has access to sex via escorts. But that's not what men want. Men want relationships. This fucking forum wouldn't exist if it was any different.

Even then, escorts are not an option available to all incelibate men.

Speaking from experience.
 
Good post.

Though I don't only want sex from my girlfriend, I want to cuddle also (you did not count that as sex).
 
Update: Another femcel messaged be back to reject me jfl
 
They have options but won't take them, I wish I had that luxury! I find the "lonely women" online complaining they have no friends really annoying also, I only have my boyfriend/husband in my life, so what if I have sex and are loved! :foidSoy:


:feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree:
 
more like fem(cel of chad's dick)
 
3. Women will never understand inceldom. Whenever I told these women I was a virgin, they were perplexed. Even if I told them I was 5'5, skinny and ugly, they would still tell me that all I need is confidence or to just approach more women. This is why we should never let women on this forum, they can never truly understand what we are going through.

4. Most femcels can solve their problems easily. Almost all if not all femcels can easily get high value men by simply putting some work into themselves. The problem with almost all of the femcels I talked to was a) they were not trying to meet men at all or b) they were overweight. Both of these have really simple fixes: meet some more men and go to the gym for an hour a day. Incels on the other hand have it a lot harder. We cannot suddenly grow taller, change our race and look better (without risky surgery and thousands of dollars). The only option an incels has to get the hot girl he desires is to moneymaxx which takes luck, stress and hours upon hours of work or to get better at talking to women which takes years of practice and rejection.
This is the most ironic part. They say they are unlovable when they clearly arent, and want normal guys when they know they are far below average and yet still do not put in the work they expect a average man to.
 
fem"""cels""" are so laughable. they dont understand the half of it. one time i talked to one on reddit and i told her i dont believe femcels exist and she kept trying to convince me she was a real femcel by showing me pics of herself and telling me she almost resorted to paying dudes to suck her tits. she later revealed at some point in the convo shes had multiple boyfriends who she showed me photos of (although they were ugly incel tier they were boyfriends nonetheless) and even said she had sex before. i was just like okay lmfao
 
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fem"""cels""" are so laughable. they dont understand the half of it. one time i talked to one on reddit and i told her i dont believe femcels exist and she kept trying to convince me she was a real femcel by showing me pics of herself and telling me she almost resorted to paying dudes to suck her tits. she later revealed at some point in the convo shes had multiple boyfriends who she showed me photos of (although they were ugly incel tier they were boyfriends nonetheless) and even said she had sex before. i was just like okay lmfao
Yup, pretty similar to my experience too
 
this make me laught hard, if even we allow females on this site they will be banned anyway for not being incels
 
3. Women will never understand inceldom. Whenever I told these women I was a virgin, they were perplexed. Even if I told them I was 5'5, skinny and ugly, they would still tell me that all I need is confidence or to just approach more women. This is why we should never let women on this forum, they can never truly understand what we are going through.
That is true, it is pointless to explain them loneliness/inceldom, they will never understand
 
All women hate Me femcel or not because I am not 6ft+ high status chad,
but I couldnt imagine wasting resources on a foid I wasnt attracted to anyways.

If she were ok with Me spending minimal $$$ on our relationship the way I do as a Single Male maybe Id do it.
 
That is true, it is pointless to explain them loneliness/inceldom, they will never understand
Yup. Reminds me of that meme where a man being lonely is him drinking by himself and a woman being lonely is her away from her friends who are in the other room :rolleyes:
 
This sounds about right, Femcels aren't sex starved nor attention starved. The idea that they're "Chad-only" is an Incel myth, what is more common the case is that these women are undateable and no sane man would ever want to commit to any of them (of course, as a desperate man I would... ) A female's starvation in the dating scene is her starvation of commitment, the modern woman is deliberately starving herself of this as she wants commitment and exchanges sex for this, generally speaking men don't want a woman with a high partner count as a long-Term partner so the women that give away sex the easiest will be the unhappiest as those men they attract will often not give them commitment.

In the end the whole "Femcel" phenomenon can best be explained by those toilets just over-inflating their ego's and SMV's and then claiming that "no man wants them". In some cases these toilets are really socially awkward and while they can easily get coitus (though for the extremely socially awkward ones some form of mentalceldom might exist, that is if her signals for interest resemble those of disinterest or even hostility, but I'm not convinced that any actual form Femcel exists), they cannot gain commitment from the men they desire because they simply are unaware of their own low market values.

In many cases these toilets inflate simple advances from men and a man simply wanting to talk to them is seen as "an advance" by them and this will inflate their ego's. This causes them to raise their standards and exclude all the men that they would actually be able to pair-bond with.

The Femcel is always a volcel and any man that actually manages to land one is as unlucky as it gets, as these toilets are often emotionally stunted womanbabies that lack self-awareness and have an innate sense of entitlement.

Meanwhile they have nothing of substance to actually add to a relationship and their disposition towards negativity also makes them the worst kind of woman to date, highly Neurotic women.

Obviously if I could get one I'd happily take one, I'm just saying that these are leftover women that no man in their right mind would consider to be "a prize", often just a hole they could use.
 
That is true, it is pointless to explain them loneliness/inceldom, they will never understand

It's all life on tutorial mode for them, they can understand why they don't find you attractive, they just think that the women below them in the pecking order would feel lucky to have you, not knowing that they all just want Chad. The lowest of toilets still land a Chadlite at least. :blackpill:
 
What he says is wrong because sex is the last thing I want. Actually, this sentence doesn't make any sense, since almost everyone has access to sex via escorts. But that's not what men want. Men want relationships. This fucking forum wouldn't exist if it was any different.
Please don't be disingenuous and play dumb. Men want CONSISTENT LONG TERM access to sex with minimal resources required to maintain access. To add to what @uo89997 said about my position, I believe that men also instinctively want what sex results in, reproduction. But it's subconscious not conscious like our desire for sex.

Saying "everyone has access to sex via escorts" is just outright dishonest, it's like you're pretending you are stupid for the sake of trying to prop up a strawman to argue against.

1. You know full well that it's illegal in most countries.

2. You know full well that the large majority of men could not afford it consistently, even in places where it is legal.

The most effective means of acquiring CONSISTENT LONG TERM access to sexual resources, has always been marriage. Until some realistic sex androids hit the market, nothing will be able to compete with that offer.

I just plan on wealthmaxxing so that I can afford to fuck whores, but it's not a guarantee and I know the possibilty of failure is high.


Only around 15% of the US population makes around 75K+ per year (that's gay men, straight men, gay women, straight women, etc).

Only around 10% of the US population makes around 100K+ per year (same as above).

Are you getting the picture, this whole "everyone can just pay for escorts" stuff is nonsense, it's not affordable unless you bring yourself into the class of top earners in the world.

Don't know if you noticed, just becoming a high five figure earner has an 85% failure rate lol. That's the kind of money you have to be making to afford CONSISTENT LONG TERM access to sex from whores and escorts.


In the past a man could just get married and his wife had no choice but to keep her husband satisfied, regardless of his income, that was the deal, and it was a sweet deal.

If I snapped my fingers right now and magically every man on the planet lost his libido and interest in sex completely. This sites traffic would go down by like 90%, and most people here would stick around just to talk about the phenomenon and joke about how it's fucked women over because they no longer have any power.

WOMEN'S ONLY WORTH TO THE SPECIES REVOLVES AROUND SEX.

MEN REALLY JUST WANT SEX FROM WOMEN

You can speak for yourself, but you are either an exception to the rule or lying to yourself. If you didn't have a libido, you probably wouldn't even care about romantic relationships at all.
 
WOMEN'S ONLY WORTH TO THE SPECIES REVOLVES AROUND SEX.

MEN REALLY JUST WANT SEX FROM WOMEN
This. No one would give a shit about women if they weren't beautiful, and if men weren't horny idiots.
 
you probably wouldn't even care about romantic relationships at all.
This is also why women don't care to settle down unless she is hitting the wall: 1. She doesn't really care about it. 2. She has back up guys.
 

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