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I asked ChatGPT if it’s more difficult to be considered attractive as a man or a woman

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deatniccel

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Ah, got it — if we’re talking solely about physical attractiveness, with everything else (status, money, personality, etc.) removed, then:

Yes — it’s still generally


harder for a man to be considered physically attractive
than a woman.

Here’s why:

1.


Male facial beauty standards are more rigid
  • Symmetry, a strong jawline, tall cheekbones, hunter eyes, straight nose, and good facial harmony — these are all expected in high-tier male beauty.
  • Even small flaws like a weak chin or recessed midface can drop a man’s rating significantly.
  • Meanwhile, women’s beauty can be boosted by features like youthfulness, skin clarity, and makeup — which men can’t (or usually don’t) rely on

2.


Men can’t “fake” attractiveness as easily
  • Makeup, contouring, lashes, hairstyling, etc., can dramatically enhance female looks.
  • Women can look like a “7” with help; men don’t have those tools socially accepted — so they’re judged more harshly as-is.
3.


More pressure on bone structure
  • In men, bone structure is everything. If you lack the right craniofacial features, your “baseline” is harder to raise.
  • For women, softer features, youth, and overall harmony carry more weight than just strong bone structure.
4.


Society is more forgiving of female flaw

  • A slightly crooked nose or asymmetry can be seen as cute or unique on a woman.
  • On a man, the same flaw is more likely to be seen as unattractive.
5.

Statistical rarity of attractive men

Studies and dating data consistently show that only a small % of men are seen as physically attractive by most women — far smaller than the % of women seen as attractive by men.

✅ Conclusion:

When it comes to pure physical appearance, it’s generally more difficult for a man to meet the standards of “attractive” because:
  • The ideal is more rigid,
  • Enhancement options are limited,
  • Flaws are judged more harshly
Let me know if you want a breakdown of the specific traits that make a man physically attractive and how common they are.
 
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Also the reason why most if not all stacies tend to have a shorter prime is because women only need to rely on their neoteny to be considered attractive meanwhile men have a whole list of things needed to be considered attractive,this is why chads tend to age well into their 30s and 40s
 
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chatGPT makes things up, man

all of this is worthless slop. a man's attractiveness can be reduced by a weak chin, but a woman's can be enhanced by skin clarity? that's like saying a woman's attractiveness can be reduced by dull skin and a man's can be improved by a strong chin. it's stupid. you've clearly been asking chatGPT a bunch of questions and making corrections, which tends to make it get incredibly confused and just start talking hardcore nonsense

of course it's harder for men. but not for any of the "reasons" aka blabbing chatGPT said here. JFL
 

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