LDAR I argue that masturbating is often just a means to an end. The end being...

[TheGrayWolf]

• a (necessary) coping mechanism: even if it brings sadness, I use it to temporarily distract from loneliness or satisfy the ingrained bloody physical urge. I look at pics or videos of hot girls on insta and coom to them, but this is like being hungry, not having eaten and looking at yummy food, but not having the ability to access said food.

But this doesn't help with:

1. the cycle of frustration: the act temporarily relieves tension, but the emotional consequences (sadness) makes me feel worse afterward;
2. unmet emotional needs: I lack intimacy, connection and love; and
3. intensifying feelings of loneliness: rather than alleviating loneliness, masturbating makes it worse. The situation I'm in, will stay like this, and in a twisted way, masturbating reminds me of what I will never have (a gf, or better – a cute, kind gf)

(Going to a sex-escort/paying for sex wouldn't really be the same for me, as compared to the emotional physical needs above.)

 

[HotDogCel]

Muhh go see a whore and your problem is resolved

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Muhh go see a whore and your problem is resolved

Yeah these people should shut up. I mean I get it if you go fuck one but it doesn't solve anything

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

I recently stopped doing it because every time I do it feels me with so much anger and despair. It's just not worth it anymore

 

[TheGrayWolf]

I recently stopped doing it because every time I do it feels me with so much anger and despair. It's just not worth it anymore

I agree but often I'm so horny or hard I can't help myself

 

[RandomGuy]

Don’t settle for homeless crackhead foid.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Don’t settle for homeless crackhead foid.

I never would.

 

[NIGKOALATHEKANGACEL]

give a tldr

 

[Idotms]

never goon

give a tldr

 

[light]

stacy or death.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

give a tldr

Masturbating is no fun because:​

- a (necessary) coping mechanism, for the physical urge.
but this does not help with:

1. unmet emotional needs
2. intensifying feelings of loneliness

Seeing a sex-escort is not the same.

 

[NIGKOALATHEKANGACEL]

Masturbating is no fun because:​

- a (necessary) coping mechanism, for the physical urge.
but this does not help with:

1. unmet emotional needs
2. intensifying feelings of loneliness

Seeing a sex-escort is not the same.

chatgptcel

but true

 

[stalkerKiller]

Very objective assessment. Masturbation at the very least for males is necessary and you shouldn't ever feel guilty for doing it.

The only way of stopping is to go ahead and grape women and since we all live in civilized countries we can't do that.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Very objective assessment. Masturbation at the very least for males is necessary and you shouldn't ever feel guilty for doing it.

Thanks, and I never did feel any guilt but in the last few weeks/months, I did feel more and more sad doing it. It has a lot to do with my bloody age (27) and being a sheer hopeless case.

 

[stalkerKiller]

Thanks, and I never did feel any guilt but in the last few weeks/months, I did feel more and more sad doing it. It has a lot to do with my bloody age (27) and being a sheer hopeless case.

Don't try to project your own shortcomings onto the act of masturbation. I used to do that shit when I was a practicing Christian and it didn't work.

Obviously we all suffer because of our inceldom, hopefully we'll make it at some point. I believe in you Schweitzcel!

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Don't try to project your own shortcomings onto the act of masturbation. I used to do that shit when I was a practicing Christian and it didn't work.

Obviously we all suffer because of our inceldom, hopefully we'll make it at some point. I believe in you Schweitzcel!

No no. I may not have expressed myself clearly. I'm not projecting anything.

I'm sad bc masturbating reminds me of what I will never have - love, free sex, affection from a cute gf. I don't have a problem with the act of masturbation. I am not Christian (only on paper), as you can see in my signature. Looking at attractive women on Insta shows me what I will never have.

And also, I'm German. I just live in the Schweiz.

 

[stalkerKiller]

And also, I'm German. I just live in the Schweiz.

I was just looking for an excuse not to call you a Piefkecel, I guess that you don't mind it then.

I'm sad bc masturbating reminds me of what I will never have - love, free sex, affection from a cute gf. I don't have a problem with the act of masturbation. I am not Christian (only on paper), as you can see in my signature. Looking at attractive women on Insta shows me what I will never have.

Brutal.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

I was just looking for an excuse not to call you a Piefkecel, I guess that you don't mind it then.

Haha it's ok. I'm not offended, I just wish I could stop wanting a gf

Brutal.

 

[stalkerKiller]

I just wish I could stop wanting a gf

Real