I approached many couples and asked how they met each other

[HONKLERedux]

Every couple or random normie I spoke to said they met their friends via work or through friends they know (brutal connections pill, probably also from work, family, college)

One or two said they met via nightclubs.

The takeaway from this experiment, though, is that none met via hobby clubs or hobby activities. Do with what you will with that info.

 

[HONKLERedux]

I must have spoken to at least 20 something people this question in real life

 

[HONKLERedux]

Another common thing I learned is that they ''just happened'' to become closer.

It wasn't planned and just happened naturally.

 

[boneless goblin]

no friends for ur face,
no jobs for ur face,
no college for ur face

 

[finasscel]

How do you just ask people questions ...

 

[Qizarate]

Another common thing I learned is that they ''just happened'' to become closer.

It wasn't planned and just happened naturally.

That's the more brutal thing

 

[HONKLERedux]

How do you just ask people questions ...

you just ask

 

[finasscel]

you just ask

I can't because of AvPD

 

[TooSomething]

How do you just ask people questions ...

Just be NT.

 

[HONKLERedux]

I can't because of AvPD

Just be NT.

I am a diagnosed turbo sperg.

It is weird going up to random couples and asking how they met

 

[Mrocznykichajnik]

I always hear that it "just happens" when you least expect it. Well I'm not expecting anything and yet it's still not happening

 

[Todd Thundercock]

It does just happen. Someone finds you attractive and it goes from there. Women make it very easy when they find you attractive.

 

[HONKLERedux]

I always hear that it "just happens" when you least expect it. Well I'm not expecting anything and yet it's still not happening

Ive had normies tell me to not ''try too hard'', ''youre trying too hard'' jfl

Which one is it?

Am I lazy and do nothing or ''try too hard''

 

[Pancakecel]

Impossible to build connections when throughout your life you've been socially rejected/ ostracized.

I wish I had a face people wanted to connect with

 

[evil-inkie]

Every couple or random normie I spoke to said they met their friends via work or through friends they know (brutal connections pill, probably also from work, family, college)

One or two said they met via nightclubs.

The takeaway from this experiment, though, is that none met via hobby clubs or hobby activities. Do with what you will with that info.

this is in line with my findings

you have to be either a chad or about a 5 and turbo NT with a bunch of friends. otherwise its ovER

 

[evil-inkie]

Impossible to build connections when throughout your life you've been socially rejected/ ostracized.

I wish I had a face people wanted to connect with

exactly

this is an injustice that needs to be dealt with

 

[zangano1]

I dont have friends

 

[Solid State]

I think this is because "cold approaches" with a strange woman are a lot riskier, as not only would you be a lot more likely to get rejected but you might also get accused of sexual harassment and then have to deal with the requisite social fallout and/or any orbiting simps or white knights the woman has.

 

[UglyDumbass]

Impossible to build connections when throughout your life you've been socially rejected/ ostracized.

I wish I had a face people wanted to connect with

 

[WeirdoDesperado]

Tinder is real life When this were asked in imageboard infiltrated by normies and foids, meeting through tinder (alongside by filthy bars/nightclubs) was a typical answer

 

[NearestNeighbor]

i could never, no hope for me

 

[Wolnir]

Just be good looking. I've never had any foids interact with me on a personal level at work.

 

[Manlet_cel]

Every couple or random normie I spoke to said they met their friends via work or through friends they know (brutal connections pill, probably also from work, family, college)

One or two said they met via nightclubs.

The takeaway from this experiment, though, is that none met via hobby clubs or hobby activities. Do with what you will with that info.

Doesn't matter many inkies have friend circle but how many off them manages to score with a single women?

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

Another common thing I learned is that they ''just happened'' to become closer.

It wasn't planned and just happened naturally.

That's how it is for them—it just happens. They never had to consciously analyze every minute detail, wondering where it all went wrong, and what can possibly be done to fix things. They simply drifted through life, and the rest followed naturally; they went through experiences that allowed them to develop properly, and to form connections which we never had a chance to make. Their life transpired smoothly. That's precisely why he who finds himself searching for a solution must realize the search is futile.

They float through life without ever needing to question why nobody wants them. Their “natural” connections are built on experiences we don’t get to have. Trying to find a solution is just banging your head against a brick wall.