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Have you ever had the feeling that there is a massive amount of potential in you but you can't live it out because you are to fat and lazy to get your ass up from the couch and stop playing vidya?

I know it is a depression that comes from my entire situation. But I think this is the most fucked up aspect of this whole incel thing. Simply knowing you have a potential with in you that can't get out because you can find a source for strength to get your ass up.
 
I indulge in narcissistic day dreaming, but once outside I freeze and just wan't to go back masturbating.
 
i have zero discipline tbh
I always find some bullshit excuse
Im just a failure not just genetically but my personality is also shit

For us Men its either Do or Die .
Talk is useless , only actions are worth something .
 
Maybe I would've had the potential to be normal if people simply treated me differently, sure. But that's more like the illusion of potential tbh. The reality is that your appearance can dictate your entire life. Saying "if I only looked different" or "if I only had totally different life experiences" doesn't really make much sense, as that wouldn't really be me, would it?

You're right though, I don't see much of a reason to be productive when it wouldn't make a difference anyway.
 
Have you ever had the feeling that there is a massive amount of potential in you but you can't live it out because you are to fat and lazy to get your ass up from the couch and stop playing vidya?

I know it is a depression that comes from my entire situation. But I think this is the most fucked up aspect of this whole incel thing. Simply knowing you have a potential with in you that can't get out because you can find a source for strength to get your ass up.

That makes two of us.
 
Poor mental state is a byproduct of poor looks
 
I can relate. It's not that I have a talent for something, but at least try to be persevering in things like learning a language better, exercising, etc. I'm so lazy and I have so much free time that I even feel guilty for not taking advantage on those copes.
 
Im not fat, but i actually did get lean enough to have a 6 pack and tanned (in my back yard) in 2014/2015 (during 3rd/4th year lifting), I had a 6 pack for a solid year, and nothing changed. I was still incel. Then I just went back to eating whatever I want and not tracking anything because I got lean and realized that its pointless unless you're tall and have a good looking face.

Although I don't have a 6 pack at the moment, I have blurry core with definition still (due to lifting), and all I need to do to get my abs back is to drop 10kg of bodyfat and I'll have them again but there's literally no point, NOTHING changes.

Getting a 6 pack only improves sex life if you're already a Chad, tall, attractive face, etc, its like the icing on the cake, but we have no cake to begin with, and icing itself, well nobody likes icing on its own.
 
Have you ever had the feeling that there is a massive amount of potential in you but you can't live it out because you are to fat and lazy to get your ass up from the couch and stop playing vidya?
no i don't, but sometimes i do, so i go for a walk and this stupid feeling passes by since my brain starts reminding itself that it's fucking over once again
 
Delete all game apps from phone. Get rid of all consoles. Get off your ass. Fatcel = volcel
 
Im not fat, but i actually did get lean enough to have a 6 pack and tanned (in my back yard) in 2014/2015 (during 3rd/4th year lifting), I had a 6 pack for a solid year, and nothing changed. I was still incel. Then I just went back to eating whatever I want and not tracking anything because I got lean and realized that its pointless unless you're tall and have a good looking face.
Fatcel = volcel
gigacope, foids can notice your bones even if you were fat, i've lost 23kg and foids still hate me
Romanflippedoffbyfattysmark
 
I always get up and start doing things. I just FAIL.
 
Have you ever had the feeling that there is a massive amount of potential in you but you can't live it out because you are to fat and lazy to get your ass up from the couch and stop playing vidya?

I know it is a depression that comes from my entire situation. But I think this is the most fucked up aspect of this whole incel thing. Simply knowing you have a potential with in you that can't get out because you can find a source for strength to get your ass up.
First of all, be careful about the "massive amount of potential" feeling. Most of the time, this an exaggerated impression created by all the "you are a winner, you can do anything" crap that we have been given since we were toddlers. And who gave us that crap? foids. Our mothers, female teachers, social workers, psycho-babblers and the media all want us to believe that we are super talented. Why? Because it makes them feel better than telling us the truth: "you are a loser and you life is over before it began" So they keep on lying and making all kids and teenagers believe that they have huge potential. It is also a scam: "you have massive potential, but you will realize it only if you do what I tell you to do" Does that ring a bell? Foids have been using the trick on a massive scale over the past 50 years in order to manipulate their kids, pupils, etc.

Second problem: nobody can realize their potential nowadays. Our society is sick and decaying. Increasingly, it has become impossible to do anything except working like a robot within a predefined setting. What people like Henry Ford or Albert Einstein did in the early 20th century has become completely impossible nowadays. During the internet bubble of the late 90s, a few guys managed to do real new things: Facebook, Amazon, Google and a few others. Granted, these guys went on to become billionaires from scratch. But how many did achieve that? About a dozen guys in total. And in all other sectors, this kind of thing has been completely impossible for many decades. Have you noticed also that we have not been doing anything significant in space exploration for so many years? And why is it that we are basically driving the same cars and flying in the same air planes that we already had in the 60s?

The cause of this? foids. Foids are not interested in new things. All they want is clothes, makeup, fashion and ... security. What foids have been clamouring for since after WWII is security, security, security. Son now, whenever you want to do anything you have to go through millions of pages of regulations enacted by politicians in response to foids' demands to make everything super safe. That's all they want. No risk, nothing new. They are not interested in any of that.

Bottom line: foids are making you believe that you have "huge potential" while at the same time making sure that you will face so many hurdles that it will be absolutely impossible for you to do anything with your "potential"

Nice, as usual. Thanks foids, the empathetic gender ...

So don't worry too much about your wasted potential, brocel. First of all, you probably have less than you have been made to believe and second of all there is absolutely no opportunity for you to do anything with whatever real potential you have.
 
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First of all, be careful about the "massive amount of potential" feeling. Most of the time, this an exaggerated impression created by all the "you are a winner, you can do anything" crap that we have been given since we were toddlers. And who gave us that crap? foids. Our mothers, female teachers, social workers, psycho-babblers and the media all want us to believe that we are super talented. Why? Because it makes them feel better than telling us the truth: "you are a loser and you life is over before it began" So they keep on lying and making all kids and teenagers believe that they have huge potential. It is also a scam: "you have massive potential, but you will realize it only if you do what I tell you to do" Does that ring a bell? Foids have been using the trick on a massive scale over the past 50 years in order to manipulate their kids, pupils, etc.

Second problem: nobody can realize their potential nowadays. Our society is sick and decaying. Increasingly, it has become impossible to do anything except working like a robot within a predefined setting. What people like Henry Ford or Albert Einstein did in the early 20th century has become completely impossible nowadays. During the internet bubble of the late 90s, a few guys managed to do real new things: Facebook, Amazon, Google and a few others. Granted, these guys went on to become billionaires from scratch. But how many did achieve than? About a dozen guys in total. And in all other sectors, this kind of thing has been completely impossible for well over 50 years. Have you noticed also that we have not been doing anything significant in space exploration for several decade? And why is it that we are basically driving the same cars and flying in the same air planes that we already had in the 60s?

The cause of this? foids. Foids are not interested in new things. All they want is clothes, makeup, fashion and ... security. What foids have been clamouring for since after WWII is security, security, security. Son now, whenever you want to do anything you have to go through millions of pages of regulations enacted by politicians in response to foids' demands to make everything super safe. That's all they want. No risk, nothing new. They are not interested in any of that.

Bottom line: foids are making you believe that you have "huge potential" while at the same time making sure that you will face so many hurdles that it will be absolutely impossible for you to do anything with your "potential"

Nice, as usual. Thanks foids, the empathetic gender ...

So don't worry too much about your wasted potential, brocel. First of all, you probably have less than you have been made to believe and second of all there is absolutely no opportunity for you to do anything with whatever real potential you have.

Yeah that makes sense. Good post. Well maybe it was a good start if at least my life wasn't complete crap. I mean I rot at home. I am fat. I am not doing anything other than going to work and then coming home and playing vidya. Is this really it? I mean... If that is all I could just as well dump all my money on crazy copes but I am too lazy and scared in some cases to even do that. If this is it then it's fucking over.

I need to at least lose weight. Then I can at least wear good clothes and not have pain all day and not feel like I am having a heart attack any minute. And I will be able to get in and out of the car without feeling like I need a fucking crane.
 
I need to at least lose weight. Then I can at least wear good clothes and not have pain all day and not feel like I am having a heart attack any minute. And I will be able to get in and out of the car without feeling like I need a fucking crane.
Sure. That will surely make you life a little less miserable. Go for it.

I am not doing anything other than going to work and then coming home and playing vidya. Is this really it?
Yes, that's it. Anything else is either forbidden or impossible.

In the past, people did pretty much the same: work, eat and sleep.

The difference with today is that they had religion. And religion is the uber cope. It mogs any other cope by a mile.

In fact "cope" and "religion" are very close to being synonymous. Both are a form of "masturbation" in which instead of playing with your dick (actually, the part of your brain that controls your dick), you play with some other part of your brain in order to get pleasure and other soothing effects. In the life of anybody, almost everything that is not directly related to survival is more or less some form of "masturbation" in this sense.

In the past, religion was a balanced sort of cope. It provided whatever you needed to feel content without much of the nasty side effects that we have today. Right now, we have all sorts of copes but they all make us feel even more miserable when the pleasurable effects are gone. Again, we live in a dying society. There is very little we can do about it ...
 
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It's hard to be productive/happy and setting goals. You must desire and be able to achieve the goals you set for yourself. The more effort I used to put into obtaining money, I'd become depressed. I'm not ashamed of my goals at this point. I don't have to achieve economic status. When you focus on the things that really drive you-usually it isn't money-you will become more successful and less depressed.
 
I don't think I have much talent for anything. I was destined to be a worker drone from the get go
 

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