"Bastardization" is a lack of belonging or an existence that should not be. When one grows older, it's expected that certain ages experience things, such as a first date/ girlfriend, a circle of friends etc.
However, when one gets older and it seems everyone else is experiencing these things (especially during those formative dating and social years, 12-16), it alienates and damages a person's psyche greatly. Women seem to pick up on this, even in later years. Perhaps by pheromones or subtle acting cues. As a result, the person does not feel like a true member of "humanity", despite technically being a member of that species. This person can date or even get married, though this is rare and such a marriage can be toxic and short-lived.
Intense bitterness sets in, and a feeling that their birth should have never happened. Killers can and do commonly result because the lack the fundamental empathy or respect for others; these things are taught and reciprocated from a very early age. An abusive household, such as mine, can contribute. To put another way, one can't just "snap out of it", "move on", "be yourself" or "be confident" and fix it. InCels, including the violent ones, are created by all of society, not just that one person. You also can't blame that one person for everything that's happened to them, and tell them it all comes back to them. If they have no way to address their issues or gain true acceptance, they will not change. See my first Post regarding "Emily".
I'm also a fan of basedshaman, who's basically an honorary InCel. If he read this, his commentary would be quite insightful.
However, when one gets older and it seems everyone else is experiencing these things (especially during those formative dating and social years, 12-16), it alienates and damages a person's psyche greatly. Women seem to pick up on this, even in later years. Perhaps by pheromones or subtle acting cues. As a result, the person does not feel like a true member of "humanity", despite technically being a member of that species. This person can date or even get married, though this is rare and such a marriage can be toxic and short-lived.
Intense bitterness sets in, and a feeling that their birth should have never happened. Killers can and do commonly result because the lack the fundamental empathy or respect for others; these things are taught and reciprocated from a very early age. An abusive household, such as mine, can contribute. To put another way, one can't just "snap out of it", "move on", "be yourself" or "be confident" and fix it. InCels, including the violent ones, are created by all of society, not just that one person. You also can't blame that one person for everything that's happened to them, and tell them it all comes back to them. If they have no way to address their issues or gain true acceptance, they will not change. See my first Post regarding "Emily".
I'm also a fan of basedshaman, who's basically an honorary InCel. If he read this, his commentary would be quite insightful.
