Serious how vanity is destroying human relationships, and social dynamics in general

[jet112]

vanity:
excessive pride in one's appearance, qualities, abilities, achievements, etc.; character or quality of being vain; conceit

today i want continue the discussion about social dynamics from yesterday, this one is gonna be heavy and tiresome so if you don't feel like reading highIQ posts feel free to come back later.
remember how incels are constantly told that thinking lowly of yourself and having a self-deprecating humor is a recipe for failure? well, in my opinion. self deprecation means that you have humility and you sort of know your place in the world.

normies think that, thinking highly of yourself leads to success, but they always forget how its also leads to vanity. which is an excessive and bloated opinion of yourself. its a very slippery slope. seems like even crippled or obese people have this sort of vanity about themselves.
when vanity and narcissism on the rise, it causes relationships to crumble and decay. this is the DIRECT result to things like social isolation in the modern era, and inceldom in general.
>b-but what about social media
yes, social media has a big part in this, but its just an accelerator. the real catalyst here is our parents education.

human beings are supposed to be humble FIRST and then take pride in themselves later. human beings are not supposed to have innate value. you are not charming,you are not smart, you are not creative. not until you make sure, that you indeed have those qualities

 

[Arthas93]

High IQ. Brother I believe that the core of the problem is not only mindless vanity. It is a strange situation because, an ugly or average looking female don't see herself as ugly or average, she sees herself as absolutely flawless, beautiful and bla bla bla.

She can also see that Chad is handsome, and that other men are ugly. And now we have a situation where the females can easily differentiate and analyse other people's beauty, but they seem to be unable to gauge their own attractiveness or market value

They can say if a man is ugly or hot, but they cannot truthfully say if they themselves are ugly.

The females now have their egos so big, so artificially inflated by feminism and the many privileges that they have today, that they are unable to see their true appearance. They all just think they are perfect no matter how ugly or fat the mirror reflection is. And they will not accept, and will not let each other accept an ugly looking male as sexual partner.
I believe that internally, inside their own brains, they know that they are ugly or average. But that doesn't matter much do you know why?

Because Chad no longer chooses only the most attractive females. Chad now is in a free for all buffet. Where he can have easy sex from anything that has a hole. Dead or alive.

Chad fucks 23 females a day, 3 super hot models, 10 good looking babes, 9 ugly bitches and one tree.

Since Chad no longer has any criteria to filter off ugly bitches. And now Chad sticks his dick in anything that moves no matter how ugly it is.

All the ugly bitches that Chad fucks, think they are beautiful bitches. And now those same ugly bitches, think that they only deserve the best, that they only deserve Chads. Even though they look like deformed bitches.