Hi guys!!
Well my situation might be different to yours but this the way of I have been handling my incelness to have a peaceful life.
First of all context: I'm a blackcel from a Latin America country and very short. I'm 5'2 tall, the average man here is around 5'7 and what woman usually looking for is a 5'11.
Now, one the things that have helping me are my low standards. Many of you would mind that is cope but I have a PAWG fetish, I have no problem to deal with PAWGs if they have wide hips, some ass, under 28 years old and 7/10 face. I say that because something that I've seen is that most men that hire escorts in my country are looking for thin girls and actually this something that happens in the inceldom as well. Why for me is not cope? Well, I'd seen so many porn in my teenagerhood that I passed to watch thin girls to see PAWGs like Mal Malloy, Julie Cash or Siri Suxxx and even BBW like Jexka Wolves. So when I'm looking for escorts the PAWGs are the ones that make turn me on due to this.
The second that has helped me is,escortmaxxing: is true that you will still lack of the female validation that makes most men happy if you do escortmaxxing but once you do it your perspective about romantic relationships change. The average wage here is around 1000$ USD. Since is a Latin America is too difficult to find PAWG escorts because whites tend to be in higher social classes but when you find them they charge cheaper because they are fat or have post-pregnancy stretmarks. They charge around 40 or 50$ USD. This has solved my sexless condition and I have a lot of joy. I even accomplish my fantasies by paying them extras to record our experiences and since this PAWG escorts are the most unidserable due to their fatness, once they notice I'm a regular client they apply me discounts so this can impact less on my finances.
Third, having own hobbies have helped me: I love to play videogames and watch anime and comic book related stuff so I have no mind to jealousness about whores earning like engineers, chats or staceys, even when I decided to change my career because I was a bit old for my age.
Four, seek for social circles: This might sound cope or bluepilled stuff but this not to seek for women but yes for friends(women or not). I have make friends in the gym and when I go out to play pokemon go (this is played by all ages; children, single mothers or incels line you and me), dance classses and bike traveling. Even if many of this friends are older than me at least I have someone to talk beside my family so with this you release more serotonine and avoid depression better.
Five, Gymmaxxing: Since I'm damn short I do it not to solve my dwarfness but yes for health. Fatness can lead you to depression so you have to avoid it because we are incels so our tendencies to suicide are higher.
Six, work in what you like: I tried the STEMmaxxing at computer science but I failed. I felt that the way of learning was against my nature and overwhelmed by work requierements even for Jr position in comparison with other careers (I mean, they requiered someone with solid knowledge at JS, EF, Asp.net core and other bunch of shit but subjetive stuff for a RRHH bitch) so I move forward to be a History teacher at public High School. I won't earn the same as a Software developer but I understood that makes me happy(since the work is "mechanic" , I've been reading history since I was 14 years old and I used to have a youtube channel in which i taught or described stuff through my videos )so I don't need to be jealous at the hooks because I feel that I'm not working. If you are good at STEMS then go but if you don't balance something that has market and is what you like. Why I say this? Because before I studied computer since I worked at tech support and then as a manufactured technician and let me tell you that most guys at tech industry just destroyed. They were fat in most cases and someone without talent at the subject like would have ended worse plus I didn't have the need. My whole family is middle class and composed by public workers so I can rely from them peacefully.
Seven, drink anti-depression piles. I say this not to deal with depression (well it could be) but mainly because some of them have properties to lower your libido, with this I have ensured to go with escorts without harm your finances and according to the pre-defined budget.
Eight, be a regular client: Escorts applies discounts if you are a regular client plus escortmaxxing is full of dissapointments. Having your permanent catalog after some test/error stuff would help you don't be scammed or being victim of bad treatment. Also OF is on rise, onge you have permanent contact and are less alien to whores they will keep the service with you. I said this because one of my whores still attending me despite she has a OnlyFans. My country is too little so is like a big neighborhood( "everyone know each other") so women have enough money to life with OF once they make it public in instagram (doesn't matter how fat are they).
Nine, unistall instagram and if is possible facebook, even if most people don't make their dating public you might feel jealous of those who are. This helped me because I was from a technician high school and I wad supposed to study a STEM related career but when I noticed that had no talent for it I felt bad because I was thinking in what my social circle and relatives woud say. I disconnedted myself for 5 years to focus on study History teaching, work and escorts
I'm 26 years old but this are my advises for a happier life to incels.
Well my situation might be different to yours but this the way of I have been handling my incelness to have a peaceful life.
First of all context: I'm a blackcel from a Latin America country and very short. I'm 5'2 tall, the average man here is around 5'7 and what woman usually looking for is a 5'11.
Now, one the things that have helping me are my low standards. Many of you would mind that is cope but I have a PAWG fetish, I have no problem to deal with PAWGs if they have wide hips, some ass, under 28 years old and 7/10 face. I say that because something that I've seen is that most men that hire escorts in my country are looking for thin girls and actually this something that happens in the inceldom as well. Why for me is not cope? Well, I'd seen so many porn in my teenagerhood that I passed to watch thin girls to see PAWGs like Mal Malloy, Julie Cash or Siri Suxxx and even BBW like Jexka Wolves. So when I'm looking for escorts the PAWGs are the ones that make turn me on due to this.
The second that has helped me is,escortmaxxing: is true that you will still lack of the female validation that makes most men happy if you do escortmaxxing but once you do it your perspective about romantic relationships change. The average wage here is around 1000$ USD. Since is a Latin America is too difficult to find PAWG escorts because whites tend to be in higher social classes but when you find them they charge cheaper because they are fat or have post-pregnancy stretmarks. They charge around 40 or 50$ USD. This has solved my sexless condition and I have a lot of joy. I even accomplish my fantasies by paying them extras to record our experiences and since this PAWG escorts are the most unidserable due to their fatness, once they notice I'm a regular client they apply me discounts so this can impact less on my finances.
Third, having own hobbies have helped me: I love to play videogames and watch anime and comic book related stuff so I have no mind to jealousness about whores earning like engineers, chats or staceys, even when I decided to change my career because I was a bit old for my age.
Four, seek for social circles: This might sound cope or bluepilled stuff but this not to seek for women but yes for friends(women or not). I have make friends in the gym and when I go out to play pokemon go (this is played by all ages; children, single mothers or incels line you and me), dance classses and bike traveling. Even if many of this friends are older than me at least I have someone to talk beside my family so with this you release more serotonine and avoid depression better.
Five, Gymmaxxing: Since I'm damn short I do it not to solve my dwarfness but yes for health. Fatness can lead you to depression so you have to avoid it because we are incels so our tendencies to suicide are higher.
Six, work in what you like: I tried the STEMmaxxing at computer science but I failed. I felt that the way of learning was against my nature and overwhelmed by work requierements even for Jr position in comparison with other careers (I mean, they requiered someone with solid knowledge at JS, EF, Asp.net core and other bunch of shit but subjetive stuff for a RRHH bitch) so I move forward to be a History teacher at public High School. I won't earn the same as a Software developer but I understood that makes me happy(since the work is "mechanic" , I've been reading history since I was 14 years old and I used to have a youtube channel in which i taught or described stuff through my videos )so I don't need to be jealous at the hooks because I feel that I'm not working. If you are good at STEMS then go but if you don't balance something that has market and is what you like. Why I say this? Because before I studied computer since I worked at tech support and then as a manufactured technician and let me tell you that most guys at tech industry just destroyed. They were fat in most cases and someone without talent at the subject like would have ended worse plus I didn't have the need. My whole family is middle class and composed by public workers so I can rely from them peacefully.
Seven, drink anti-depression piles. I say this not to deal with depression (well it could be) but mainly because some of them have properties to lower your libido, with this I have ensured to go with escorts without harm your finances and according to the pre-defined budget.
Eight, be a regular client: Escorts applies discounts if you are a regular client plus escortmaxxing is full of dissapointments. Having your permanent catalog after some test/error stuff would help you don't be scammed or being victim of bad treatment. Also OF is on rise, onge you have permanent contact and are less alien to whores they will keep the service with you. I said this because one of my whores still attending me despite she has a OnlyFans. My country is too little so is like a big neighborhood( "everyone know each other") so women have enough money to life with OF once they make it public in instagram (doesn't matter how fat are they).
Nine, unistall instagram and if is possible facebook, even if most people don't make their dating public you might feel jealous of those who are. This helped me because I was from a technician high school and I wad supposed to study a STEM related career but when I noticed that had no talent for it I felt bad because I was thinking in what my social circle and relatives woud say. I disconnedted myself for 5 years to focus on study History teaching, work and escorts
I'm 26 years old but this are my advises for a happier life to incels.
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