How to get peace of mind without getting revenge at those who bullied you?

[TollieRobertis419]

I managed to get revenge at one of them back then when I was young and it made me feel great and replenished my energy back, but it didn't lasted that long, and when the peace of mind weared off, other guys who bullied me in the past began haunting me in my mind too:

Those normies are still messing with my mind even when the bullying is over

If I try to cope with something, whether it's videogames or music, I would get reminded of how they would ridicule my copes or get berated for it If I try to do mundane/ house chores tasks, I would get flashbacks of how normies would correct me in a hostile bossy manner and get yelled at (even...

incels.is

I feel like doing it again because I want to have a peace of mind but the problem is I am old enough to go to jail, second I am too poor to pay for the hospital bills for injuries I will cause (I'm going to use a lock in a sock), thirdly many of them moved to other states and I don't have the money to travel some of their locations.

I know, you're supposed to get revenge if you're bullied to get the frustration, anger and trauma out of your system but there's just so many problems that I have to face that makes me hesitant on doing it, so this makes getting revenge out of the option.

I tried Stoicism, Buddhism, Meditation, but it doesn't seem to work, so what copes should I immerse myself in or your other suggestions to get a peace of mind?

thanks in advance.

 

[Filipinocel]

Just pick a cope that may keep you pre-occupied for most of the time, although not guaranteed to relieve you of the psychological traumas you suffered from.

 

[TollieRobertis419]

Just pick a cope that may keep you pre-occupied for most of the time, although not guaranteed to relieve you of the psychological traumas you suffered from.

Thank you fellow pinoycel

 

[mentally lost cel 1]

I managed to get revenge at one of them back then when I was young and it made me feel great and replenished my energy back, but it didn't lasted that long, and when the peace of mind weared off, other guys who bullied me in the past began haunting me in my mind too:

Those normies are still messing with my mind even when the bullying is over

If I try to cope with something, whether it's videogames or music, I would get reminded of how they would ridicule my copes or get berated for it If I try to do mundane/ house chores tasks, I would get flashbacks of how normies would correct me in a hostile bossy manner and get yelled at (even...

incels.is

I feel like doing it again because I want to have a peace of mind but the problem is I am old enough to go to jail, second I am too poor to pay for the hospital bills for injuries I will cause (I'm going to use a lock in a sock), thirdly many of them moved to other states and I don't have the money to travel some of their locations.

I know, you're supposed to get revenge if you're bullied to get the frustration, anger and trauma out of your system but there's just so many problems that I have to face that makes me hesitant on doing it, so this makes getting revenge out of the option.

I tried Stoicism, Buddhism, Meditation, but it doesn't seem to work, so what copes should I immerse myself in or your other suggestions to get a peace of mind?

thanks in advance.

Copes and acceptance , You can dm me I’m exactly like you

 

[Bedford Stye]

Let it go. Accept reality.

And besides, you've done bad things yourself

 

[Filipinocel]

Thank you fellow pinoycel

No problem brocel

 

[HighTGymcel]

It's over.

 

[mentally lost cel 1]

Is sex correct answer?

Ehh not exactly

 

[mistersinister]

You dont

 

[Linesnap99]

Is sex correct answer?

it is the only answer

 

[mentally lost cel 1]

it is the only answer

The whole society is the answer you morons not just sex

 

[mentally lost cel 1]

Ehhh it is over for an peasant

Retard

 

[mentally lost cel 1]

tramadol retard in pot (in video game)

Let’s say you get sex with your loyal gf then what

 

[mentally lost cel 1]

it is never going to happen Let´s say I have $ 10 000 000 on account

Gf and sex will not solve your problems

 

[Pepecel1]

It could solve my problems but it will never happen

very sad
anyways lets postmaxx

 

[Pepecel1]

very sad
anyways lets postmaxx

"ghosted"

 

[Pepecel1]

just @ in post so I will be able to go wild on these hookers

 

[Leorio]

By understanding the reason that you were bullied.
You were bullied because you were physically weaker so that doesn't make your bullies better than you but just assholes who make themselves feeling better by bullying weaker people.
It is better to use the energy of anger to motivate yourself for gym or career maxing.
The only way to get revenge on your bullies is to get higher status or become physically stronger.