Discussion How to deal with being the targeted individual in a place?

[Limitcel]

The person everyone decides to bully, exclude, use as a scapegoat

It's normal for incels to go through this since they are not aesthetically appealing, so contempt and lynching is natural.

How do you deal with this?

 

[Animecel2D]

retreat to basement

 

[Limitcel]

retreat to basement

It's not really an option because you won't live like that, it's the worst option actually because that would basically be accepting the victory of the normies.

 

[light]

go er

 

[Adolf Kitler]

I don't deal with this thankfully. I just get ignored and no one fw with me

 

[Limitcel]

go er

This seems like the only option really, because no one can help you.
(not that I'm going through that, my life is ok now in these things but I suffered a lot of persecution as a child)

 

[Grodd]

go er

 

[Limitcel]

This seems like the only option really, because no one can help you.
(not that I'm going through that, my life is ok now in these things but I suffered a lot of persecution as a child)

But it's not an option either because nobody really goes ER
Maybe there's nothing that can really be done

 

[littlemanhikicel]

If you act violent they will ignore you and you would go out by yourself. Thats usually happened to me. So the solution is ignoring or trying to fit into the group.

 

[Limitcel]

If you act violent they will ignore you and you would go out by yourself. Thats usually happened to me. So the solution is ignoring or trying to fit into the group.

I don't think ignoring works because they just want to abuse you and don't really care if you don't want anything to do with them, most bullying is exactly that.
There is no group to fit too if they hate you

But reacting in a fight can actually work because even if you get beaten up they will have to have that weight of knowing that you will react whenever they decide to abuse you.

 

[JustanotherKanga]

You are a chosen one,

 

[littlemanhikicel]

But reacting in a fight can actually work because even if you get beaten up they will have to have that weight of knowing that you will react whenever they decide to abuse you.

I support this. The problem is being fired. If you have chances of finding another work ok. Another advice is taking a fight but outside of the work place to avoid being fired.

 

[slapthatsillywilly]

This seems like the only option really, because no one can help you.
(not that I'm going through that, my life is ok now in these things but I suffered a lot of persecution as a child)

I'm sorry. No child deserves to be bullied

 

[Abou Baldiaby]

Some more context would be helpful.

 

[Limitcel]

Some more context would be helpful.

Im talking generally

 

[Abou Baldiaby]

Im talking generally

Generally one should make preparations beforehand for verbal hostility.
I find offense the best defense, for instance one time some punk Chad tried to diss me for my balding. I simply smiled and asked him if he was gay since he cared about other men's appearances. He kept his mouth shut after that. Another time some normie tried the same and I told him that hair is for women and he looked like a cute girl with his fancy curls, even his friends laughed at him. Such rebuttals may be hard to come up with in the moment, so incels should have their comebacks practiced at home.

 

[Emba]

retreat to basement

Ok

 

[CEO of Simps]

retreat to basement

 

[curryboy420]

Hang out in secluded areas where they can't be so obvious, they can send a few people to harrass you one by one, but you can assault these people or even kill them and there will be no witnesses due to the location you hang out in every day.