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Cope How to cope with inceldom?

Hogan

Hogan

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Coping aka accepting isn’t easy definitely when it is about being an incel so would are some good whys to cope
 
You don't speak like incel tbh
 
coping isn't accepting, it's surviving/ignoring
The only way to cope is to keep busy with other stuff so you don't have time to think about your life.
 
Only way really is to release some of the sexual tension through masturbation, escortmaxxing, or sex toys.
 
I would say not thinking about being incel. It's hard if you live in a city though, because you see foids and couples all the time. Just move out to the countryside bro.
 
You have to finely tune your daily interactions with people. Too much watching other people live will make you feel bad that you aren't like them. Too little and you will just ruminate on your life alone in the house. You have to go for a walk and say hello to some old person or something, makes.you feel good especially when they say hello back. Or you have to go to the shop and say something to the cashiers and they might say nice things back. Tbh even cashier doesn't say much now, when I say hello they just ignore me lol. So walk is better option for me. Sometimes a old white guy will walk his dog and I'll say you alright and he'll say you alright and then we both feel acknowledgment.
 
You have to finely tune your daily interactions with people. Too much watching other people live will make you feel bad that you aren't like them. Too little and you will just ruminate on your life alone in the house. You have to go for a walk and say hello to some old person or something, makes.you feel good especially when they say hello back. Or you have to go to the shop and say something to the cashiers and they might say nice things back. Tbh even cashier doesn't say much now, when I say hello they just ignore me lol. So walk is better option for me. Sometimes a old white guy will walk his dog and I'll say you alright and he'll say you alright and then we both feel acknowledgment.
Real I came upon this video of this guy talking about how it is so good for your peace of mind to not look at others and what they have but it’s all I think about
 
Only way really is to release some of the sexual tension through masturbation, escortmaxxing, or sex toys.
Masturbation makes me tired I don’t like that Shi
 
Real I came upon this video of this guy talking about how it is so good for your peace of mind to not look at others and what they have but it’s all I think about
For me I have friends who did really well in life and I got nowhere in life so it makes me looks at them a lot and feel bad and they also put stories on social media a lot bragging about their lives obviously like everyone does nowadays. It's hard to not watch others. I think it would be good to live on an island or something wm where I don't need anyone else, but life is very complex not like the game rust or dayz. Where you can be self sufficient. We need the society sadly to provide things. So we can't escape it. But we can limit it I guess. And try to cultivate good watching of others, like watching poorer people and watching old people. I don't know If I knew a solution I would not be planning to kill myself, that is the real solution but it's locked behind a big effort and leap of faith.
 

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